If a person doesn t understand you at the beginning, will he not understand you in the future?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-10
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    A person doesn't understand you at first, but he will slowly understand you later, after all, he will understand you after getting along for a long time, and the longer you talk to each other, the deeper your understanding.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    No, if this person doesn't understand you at first, you can tell him what you think, and then you run in more in your daily life, and he will slowly understand you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's not like this, I didn't understand you at first, because I haven't been with you long enough, and I don't know what kind of person you are, and after a long time, I will understand you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think it takes time for a person to understand you slowly, she may start to understand you, and in the future, you will find that she understands you more and more.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If a person doesn't understand you at first, it doesn't mean that he won't understand you later. Not all people know you best from the very beginning.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I believe that he will understand me in the future, because it depends on the process of our relationship in the future, if I get along well, then he will definitely understand me and understand me.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    How to say it, things are not absolute, personal feelings, and everyone is different, so the people you meet are different, and whether you understand or not depends on what the situation is.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's not that a person doesn't understand me at the beginning, and he doesn't understand me all the time, in fact, two people can run in with each other together.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It depends on whether he is willing to understand you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It should be, if I don't like a person, it's useless anyway, occasionally when people are very good to me, I will be moved, but I will definitely not stay.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Summary. Those who understand you think about you, worry about you, and worry about you;

    Give you help, give you company, understand your difficulties!

    People who don't understand you, weigh the pros and cons, take into account the gains and losses, and approach with a purpose;

    Don't think much, don't bother, just look on the sidelines!

    Those who understand you and those who don't.

    Those who understand you think about you, worry about you, worry about the belly of the defeated for you; Give you help, Chashu will accompany you and understand your difficulties! People who don't understand you, weigh the pros and cons, take into account the gains and losses, and bring the hall to the hail to approach the purpose; Don't think much, don't bother, just look on the sidelines!

    Those who understand you, you don't need to count on the lack of trouble! Knowing who you are will not easily misunderstand you. See through your disguise and help you in time, because Zhengshu understands you, and you don't need to plead more, and Fu Qingdan will stay for you!

    People who don't understand you, even if they are around you, may not have you in their hearts; That is, the state jujube oak makes Hoi An Yan fight to comfort you, and may not really tolerate you; People who don't understand you, he only cares about whether you fly high or not, and doesn't care if you are tired of flying.

    Those who don't understand you, how can they count on it? There is no you in his heart at all, he doesn't care if you are wronged or not! He will come if he has a good mouth, and if he is not altruistic, he will go, because he doesn't understand, even if you say it, he Wu Zhaoshi will not move. Those who know me say that I am worried! Those who don't know, what do I want?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    How lonely is it to live with someone who doesn't understand you? "Thirty only.

    Didn't it say that life is just a matter of chicken and dogs together! But it is these bits and pieces that make us polish our personality and smooth out the edges and corners.

    With someone who doesn't understand you, first of all, if you talk to him about something, the angle he considers is not the same thing as you, what you want to say is this side of the matter, but he always says the other side of the matter, and in the end the two have nothing to say, each thinking about their own.

    Secondly, life habits, I told him countless times that the things that have been used up should be put back to the original flavor, he just doesn't have this string in his head, he never remembers, and when he sees such a thing in the end, he doesn't bother to say it, but he grits his teeth with hatred in his heart, and his body is angry!

    In the end, it fundamentally belongs to the two people's outlook on life.

    Different from values, a person's values determine the angle from which he looks at things, and the perspective of looking at problems determines all the behaviors and habits of a person in life and life, so it is difficult to correct!

    In the end, it can only lead to the lives of two people living on two small islands, and seeing each other is too much, and it is annoying to say more. In the eyes of others, you are a stable young couple, full of flowers, but in fact, you have long become lonely and lonely inside. Only you know!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's not easy to find someone who understands me, you still don't understand what I mean by this sentence is that it is actually very difficult to find someone who can understand her, understand her, and know her, and you still don't understand what the other party thinks.

    Therefore, if you meet someone who understands yourself, it is actually very difficult, because we say that people are difficult to see through, so there will be some gathering and dispersion, because you don't understand, you don't understand after all, and you will always break up.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    He said that it is not easy to find someone who understands him, and you still don't understand him, which means that you are not the person he is looking for.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    That is to say: it is not easy to find someone who understands me! Hope this person is you! But you're not the man! It's a disappointment for me!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In life, we all want to have someone who understands us. It's not because you're tired, it's not because you're suffering, but I hope someone can understand your tiredness, your suffering, your stubbornness, and your persistence.

    There is no one who has no ups and downs in his life; There is no one, there is no pain in one's life. There are many people who look at you, but few people who understand you; There are many people who say you and few people who help you. Everyone has to walk their own way, tired or not, only they know.

    Don't say anything, it's not that you don't say it, you just don't want to say it; Silently, not unintentionally, but no one understands. There is suffering, self-release; Have fun, enjoy it. The road of life, joys and sorrows, only through experience, can we truly understand!

    How longing for someone who can understand me and accompany me through this life. He doesn't need to have a good-looking appearance, he doesn't need a lot of money, he doesn't need sweet words, he just needs a heart that understands me.

    How longing, to have someone who understands me, one is enough! In the vast sea of people, I just want to find this person, accompany me to face this complex world, and give me simple happiness.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    We will always encounter such a time in life, obscure, no one cares, repeating the same life every day, playing a dispensable role, no one cares about your joys and sorrows, no one cares whether you are unhappy, whether you have a heart, all people are exhausted in their own world, no time and no energy to care about other people, not to mention that you are still an inconspicuous small role, a dispensable passerby A, B and C, so, you are alone.

    No one understands you, no one knows what you're thinking, no one understands your world, and no one wants to try to understand you. This feeling is very lonely, very lonely, very helpless, very sad, you feel that you are out of place with this world, no one can understand your thoughts, you can only live in your own small world, no one can walk in, you open the door to your world, but no one cares. You are confused, why is this happening?

    The world is so big, why is there no one who understands me, cares about me, and works with me about the world. Why am I so lonely? What exactly should I do to dispel the world's malice towards me?

    What should I do so that I can be with the people around me, let them understand what I'm thinking, and let them into my world.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    No one understands you, in fact, this is a very sad thing, in this world, people live means that they will make a lot of sincere friends, many friends who understand you, in this way, people live interestingly, and if no one understands you, you will feel particularly sad, and will be particularly uncomfortable, let's discuss too much if in this world, no one understands you, what is the feeling?

    When we encounter some things, and don't want to tell others, but hope that there is someone who can understand you, can know what you are thinking now, what you need now, this is actually a person who understands you, but if you encounter these things, no one understands you, your mood will be very bad, you will feel that no one in this world really understands you. If someone understands you, you will definitely feel that you are the happiest person in the world, because there are still people who follow your mood because of your joys, sorrows, and sorrows, so that many people understand that if no one understands you, you will not be happy every day, and you will not be proud because someone understands you.

    No matter what you encounter, if there is no one to talk to you, chat, and make friends, you will feel that this thing is very big, no matter how you adjust your mentality, you will not feel how small this thing is, but will always feel that this thing will never go over. But when someone understands you, no matter how big a thing. When someone enlightens you, you will feel that nothing matters, no matter how big it is, it will disappear after a while, and it will become calm.

    That's the difference between someone who understands you and someone who doesn't.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The best feeling is that someone understands what you want to say and stop. But this sentence is easy to say, but in reality, you can't meet such a person at all, and everyone will only give you some so-called great principles of life from their own standpoint.

    Sometimes it may be just a small thing that happens, but you find that the people around you are saying completely different things than you think, and they can't understand the things you imagine. All of a sudden, I feel lonely and feel like I'm in the wrong world.

    Sometimes you say a joke or an idea that you think is philosophical or have a flash of inspiration, and the people around you either don't understand or don't understand.

    Sometimes when you think about life, you feel that you have sublimated to the sky, and you will disdain to listen to other people's repeated complaints that are not nutritious.

    Sometimes you don't want to say anything, and you feel that no one understands what you say, so you are silent.

    Sometimes I feel that no matter how many people are around, I feel that I am still the only one in the world.

    No one in this world understands you. The older you get, the more you expect someone to understand you and understand what you're thinking, but the older you get, the more ridiculous you find your unrealistic ideas are. No one even cares who you are, because as long as it's not in their interest, no one cares what you do.

    If no one understands you, you have to learn to understand yourself, and then give up your own understanding, just like giving up what you have, you will get the mood you want, if you don't care, you won't be heavy, and if it's not heavy, it will never attract your attention, and you won't even feel its existence, the way it should exist.

    Human beings are born lonely, don't expect to be able to understand yourself, the so-called empathy is deceiving, who can feel the real pain if the needle is pricked.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When it comes to the heart, many times, as long as it is not in your own interests, others will not care about your well-being. It's not easy for everyone, we all want someone to care and understand, in fact, many times, we comfort ourselves, lick our wounds, and force ourselves to be strong.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think I'm lonely, and if no one understands, I'll be devastated.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's disdain to communicate with people!

    When you meet someone who is really worth communicating, you won't be lonely!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    As time goes by, people will experience more and more things, and people's lives and people themselves will become more and more complex.

    Because of the complexity of life, no two people have the same experience. Even if you experience the same thing, everyone's feelings are different. So I don't think it's possible to decide who really understands (even if someone says that he understands you completely, understands you completely, that understanding and understanding is only verbal and superficial).

    Every step each of us takes, is not for others to see, and not understanding one person does not mean that what you are doing is wrong, so you don't have to care how many people understand.

    I guess (I can't really understand you, so I can only guess) the reason why you are worried that no one understands, is because something you do or a certain choice is more complicated and difficult to choose, and there is no absolutely correct answer to the question, so no matter how you choose, I am afraid that no one will understand.

    The best way to solve complex problems is to keep them simple. Reducing all problems to only two outcomes: right or wrong, love or not, go or stay, and remove all gray areas in between.

    Fear that you have made the wrong choice, so you are afraid that you will regret the decisions you made later on. The most important thing for people is not the past and the future, but the present.

    Don't regret the past, don't worry about the future, live every present!!

    As long as you want to make yourself happy today, I believe that your life must be happy and beautiful!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Summary. Your inner turmoil leads to not understanding your own.

    It's not that people don't understand you, it's that you don't understand yourself.

    Your inner turmoil leads to not understanding your own.

    Because of the anxiety in your heart. You feel that the simple people around you don't understand you, and you feel that your inner ideas are not accepted. In fact, even you yourself are defeated and unwilling to accept your own ideas.

    So believe in yourself.

    Relax.

    Hope mine can be helpful to you.

    Have a great day.

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