Is there a problem with my eye for picking a boyfriend?

First of all, you have to make sure that you really love him? Is it pity or love, what is the use of being with an unmotivated man, no matter how good it is for you? The most important thing is to be realistic, men will be like this before they get married, and they will change after they get married.

Trust your relatives and friends around you, they will not harm you. Don't regret it when you can't go back later, all that's left is tears.

Leaving this boyfriend, since he can't let a woman live well and can't give a woman a secure life, how can this kind of man deserve to have a woman who is willing to pay for her boyfriend.

I know you've been hurt a lot. To the happiness of a lifetime can not be so passable, it is better to lack than to abuse!! Women are good, they can naturally pursue good men, why bother so much for this broken man, I am a man, I feel sorry for you. Leave him.

If he keeps eating and waiting to die, leave him, if he works hard to make money, together. In this world, there is no reason for a man to stay at home and let a woman support him.

It seems that you have some twists and turns in your feelings, so you cherish your feelings too much, and excessive will become conniving, men need to be educated (I am also a man), in addition to encouragement, but also to put pressure on him, if he is indifferent, then go. Remember, it's not that your life is bad, it's that the man who makes you happy hasn't come yet. Treasure!!!

Is this the brilliance of motherhood? In fact, you can pick a good one, most men are looking for a woman who feels that he is not worthy of him, if the woman is too strong, it will discourage the man, but you have come here, basically there is no turning back, tell the people around you, the husband is his own choice, you can choose a little advantage, originally self-motivated, considerate and filial, and love you, and you are not worthy of him, in fact, it has nothing to do with it.

You're asking too much. It could be your personality.

This is a very unreasonable situation, our own conditions are not good, then we have a high vision, we need to change this situation from the perspective of ourselves and others.

I'm actually a boy, so I'm going to tell you from a boy's point of view what aspects of your body you want to improve? First of all, we should learn to match our own dressing, because most of the boys are a beauty control. So the best way for girls to improve their appearance is to dress and match, and the second point is to learn to spend a beautiful makeup.

This mainly requires us to improve ourselves from a deeper aspect, for example, we can read more classical books, learn some beautiful musical instruments, and participate in some meaningful activities, which can improve us from the inside out to become a real intellectual beauty.

If we have all done this, we will already become very good, not only in our opinion, but at least in our own way. The conditions have met the requirements, and when choosing a boyfriend, I think from the perspective of this boy, in fact, appearance is not particularly important, what you like is his personality and whether he is good to you.

If a person is particularly handsome, but he is half-hearted to you, and even pedals on two boats, do you want such a boy? Definitely not. So we need to change our criteria for choosing a mate, and it's not.

The better his conditions, the more they should be together but observe all aspects of him, his character and knowledge, and so on.

We need to find someone who can accompany us for the rest of our lives, so we not only need to enrich ourselves, but also have a heart that will find true love. In the end, I hope you can find the ideal person in your mind and go to the end with him!

Every girl has the right to pursue love, and she knows what kind of person she likes, and she likes to be excellent, and no one is born with a person who looks sloppy and doesn't know how to be motivated.

However, there is a saying that has to be said earlier. You like the kind of excellent, motivated, the kind of boy that a girl will like, the first thing you have to do is to make yourself excellent, you are ordinary and useless, how can people like you? You like the good ones, don't you like the others?

You look average, but that doesn't stop you from being good inside. Not all people look at their faces to find objects, looking at faces is just a small standard, and there are many people who look at whether the personalities of two people are compatible or not, whether they talk about it, whether the girl is kind, whether they are virtuous, and so on. That is to say, you don't have to look good to find a good boyfriend.

You can take the time to make yourself excellent on the inside, practice yoga to make your temperament outstanding, read more books to enrich your heart, that is, you can do many things to make up for your lack of appearance. In fact, there are a lot of girls who are not very beautiful and have a very considerate boyfriend, I think they must have some advantages that are more prominent than others, otherwise why doesn't he find a beautiful girl among the girls who are similar except for their appearance?

Don't feel that you are generally not qualified to find an excellent boyfriend, in fact, everything is possible, but the premise for you to have an excellent boyfriend is that you yourself are good enough, boys are the same as girls, and you want to find a girl who is a little better and can be worthy of yourself.

Since you don't look outstanding, you must make yourself outstanding elsewhere, so that you have a chance to find an excellent boyfriend, otherwise you will not only be not good-looking, but if you don't have any advantages, you probably won't be able to find an excellent boyfriend.

Girl, I think the reason why you have been able to insist on these unreliable mate selection conditions for many years can only show that you still haven't lived to understand, and you haven't understood the true meaning of love and what the original meaning of life is.

At the age of twenty-six, it is said that you should be more mature, many girls are not only married but even mothers at your age, but you are still living in the fairy tale world of your own fantasy, and you can't find your own position. People, if they want to fall in love and get married, they must first have a clearer understanding of themselves. Everyone likes to find a Prince Charming, but the point is that you are Snow White yourself?

Since you also know that your conditions are not good, how are you qualified to ask so much from the other party? Think about it from another perspective, if you were a boy with such good conditions, would you like a girl like yourself? If you can't accept it, how can you imagine that others will?

So, I think, girl, you should wake up and never have these unrealistic daydreams again. The years of youth have passed in a hurry, while you are still young, hurry up to find a reliable man who is good to you, and really fall in love, it is best to achieve positive results. Otherwise, when you are older, you won't even have the only bit of young capital you have now, and you will really want to cry without tears.

People, don't live in the dreams of your own imagination, but really live in the moment and feel the real temperature from your surroundings. There are some older leftover girls around me, who were as ambitious as you when they were young, and always felt that there would be boys with better conditions, but in the end they ended up alone. I'm afraid that only they know the pain in their hearts, so don't repeat their mistakes, at an age when you can still love, love vigorously, and find a real home for yourself.

The answer to your question has already been given. Your own conditions are not high, then you can put in more effort than ordinary people to improve your own conditions, and you can also achieve a so-called match with your own conditions by lowering your own vision of mate selection. Which choice you want is up to you.

In fact, the most difficult thing to do in life is balance, you feel that your mate selection criteria do not match your own conditions, so what kind of standards do you think are really met?

The hardest person in the world to meet is the one who is harmonious in all aspects, and our tradition is to be considered the marriage you want. But in your mind, you should find a better object than the conditions, you have to see your heart clearly, and be confident in yourself, since ancient times, most good men marry ordinary wives, and good women marry ordinary men, you have to believe that you have the luck to meet a man with better conditions than yourself.

Besides, your vision of choosing a mate is better than your own conditions, in fact, it is normal, which woman is looking for a partner does not hope to be able to live a better life than before, if you marry and lower your living standards, I am afraid that more women will choose not to marry. So I think the best way is for you to improve your own conditions while looking for a partner according to this standard, and your hard work pays off, as long as you can persevere, you will definitely meet the right person.

People around you will always say how high your criteria are for choosing a mate, so it is difficult to find a partner, and you don't have to listen to such voices. Because you are looking for a partner and not they are looking for a partner, you will live with this person for the rest of your life in the future, how can you do it if you don't ask for a little higher?

Then wait for fate. May wait. It is also possible to become a leftover woman.

Then you have to work hard to prove that your abilities are indeed worthy of high vision.