Troubles... I m a 20 year old boy and I don t know why I m starting to be introverted

Don't feel like everyone else is watching here, looking at you, countless eyes are staring at you. You're sure you'll be very careful about what you say and do. You are very careful, you are just cowering on the outside. That's what makes people feel bad.

You can find out what they like. You try to understand their hobbies. So there is something to say.

I was able to talk. People don't think you're introverted and talkative. Proper jokes and going out to eat together.

Shopping, you will increase your friendship, you will become good friends, and you will no longer be introverted.

When talking face-to-face, don't keep staring into other people's eyes, you can look away, look at his eyes again, and look at the middle of the two eyes. It's good to be natural, you don't need to be careful. You have to be careful with your work, hehe.

That's a sign of lack of self-confidence, chat with friends and family, do what you like to do, listen more, people are the same, you can do what you can do, I can, you are still young, contact with people, exercise yourself, know how to walk when you go to the street, you also have to ask passers-by This is an exercise for yourself, the road is still long, don't live in your own world, come on.

There's no need to care too much about yourself in the eyes of others, we can't ask everyone to think very well, not everyone is human, so just be yourself, what you want to say, what you want to do, as long as you feel right, it's okay. And what are you afraid of with your family, it's all your own family and you won't hurt you and won't laugh at you, and, don't take yourself too seriously, and implement that everyone is paying attention to you, maybe it's not you, don't care about other people's eyes, since it's already 20. Just like a man, be brave, break out of your own world, be a man is not afraid of doing wrong things, but afraid of not daring to do it, only by doing it can you succeed.

Understand autism But since you are 20 years old and understand such drawbacks, then you should overcome it As long as you are willing, no difficulty is a difficulty, is it ? Be confident, talk and look at other people's eyes is a polite behavior, don't be shy, don't be so restrained when you are with friends, let go and have fun. Force yourself to reach out to others more because you can't always live alone, and you can only be happy if you blend in with the crowd Good luck.

The heart is not terrible, it is innate, but this can be changed, remember a wise saying, people are forced out. Human potential is unlimited, and the environment creates successful people.

No matter how uncomfortable it is, you have to force yourself to talk and find a topic. From today onwards, read aloud a piece of prose every night, anyone's will, and listen to the news broadcast every morning. That's it.

You are also clear about the other big truths, in fact, there is a very important point, that is, if you can't change it well in the short term, then adapt to your own words, when you are not inferior to your own words, you can say what you really mean when you want to say, which is better than anything else. Really, that's important.

It's normal, it's okay, everyone has this stage, let's travel, the farther the better, as long as you can come back. Maybe a new life awaits you, or maybe there's a good encounter.

But this question can also be a little more trivial: ask yourself if something has happened, after all, people can change after some things. Have you been hit?

Have you done anything shady? Why are you doing this, it's not good to be generous.

I'm still annoyed.,Recently, I've always had a comprehensive reaction of introversion and introversion.,It seems to be annoying but I don't know what to annoy? Tangled.

If you can, you can go on a trip or something else, try to change to a new environment, and open your heart. Chat with people.

Naturally, don't worry too much about what others think of you.

First, a person looks at himself in the mirror and speaks loudly to practice courage.

Don't care too much about what others think.

Isn't it a little depressed?

Take deep breaths when you're nervous.

Hello, in view of this situation of your child, I have analyzed several situations for you, I hope it will help you.

Clause. 1. Generally speaking, introverted children generally live a relatively monotonous life, so it is very helpful to enrich his life and go out to travel or participate in various activities more often, which is very helpful to improve the sense of pleasure and control.

Clause. Second, usually invite some of his friends to come to the house as guests, prepare some delicious food for them, and the boy can be the most heartfelt at the wine table, so that he can contact his friends more, not always alone.

Clause. 3. Parents should also communicate more with their children, sit with their children and watch TV when they are fine, and talk about future development plans.

Clause. Fourth, if there is excessive introversion and dare not express, at this time, it is necessary to consider whether there is a problem of social phobia, and you can seek help from a psychological counselor.

You need to correctly understand the introverted personality, don't look at everyone with the mainstream values of society, respect him, encourage him, he has his own ideas, it is normal for young people to make mistakes, and believe in their relatives.

If you don't know what an extrovert is thinking, it's that you're not listening, and if you don't know what an introvert is thinking, it's that you didn't ask him.

In fact, many people misunderstand the meaning of introversion, which is an innate attitude tendency. Here's a model for you to compare introverts and extroverts, and you can understand it yourself. Introverts have the advantage of being introverts, more than half of them are introverts, many experts, senior consultants... All are introverts.

Don't just look at the charisma of the extroverted activists on stage, I'll admit that the lecturers do look charismatic, but the depth and calmness of the introverts are also out of reach.

Many introverts say that they are too introverted and want to change into extroverts, and even go to find a sales job to do, hoping to change their introverted personality... It's hilarious, introversion has nothing to do with communicative skills and is hard to change, you know?

If you want to improve your communication skills, you can practice, observe, think, learn the communication skills of others, it is recommended to learn a little basic knowledge of psychology, know your own personality, understand the personality of others, and you will become very powerful... Recommended book: Please understand me (upgraded version) translated by Wang Tiantian.

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