Why do some things do too much, and the relationship between two people slowly fades?

People's feelings will go through a period of hot love, a dull period, and a tired period. When the two enter a dull period, if one party always does one thing, then the other party will not have a sense of freshness, will feel tired, or even bored, and then the relationship between the two will be affected. If you do too much of a certain thing, there is no freshness, and there are no ups and downs in your feelings, and your feelings will slowly fade.

It could be that two people have been together for too long. When you get used to each other, there's nothing new and life becomes boring. So slowly it will fade.

Because there is no novelty between two people, if you do too many things, it will make the other person bored. For example, if you cook the same dish every Friday, he will get annoyed.

It's true, don't blindly give in the relationship, sometimes you do too much, but it will make the other party feel that you are a cheap person and will not cherish you.

This is because two people have been together for too long, which will lead to a lack of freshness for two people, so it will lead to a slow fading of the relationship.

If two people haven't communicated for a long time, they don't understand each other's state, and they will slowly ignore each other, and this will happen.

When you are in love, you constantly dig into his strengths, and he can tolerate your shortcomings. And after the relationship fades, he almost no longer has any advantages, but there will be new shortcomings emerging and old shortcomings constantly repeated. Listening, listening with the heart is rare.

It's normal to hear others want to justify themselves when they seem to be blaming themselves. So we often interrupt others to justify ourselves, or we only care about how to defend ourselves, and we don't listen carefully to what others have to say.

When two people spend more time together, they communicate less frequently, and because they know more, they communicate less. In the long run, the distance between the hearts of the two people is getting farther and farther away, and there are quarrels and suspicions, and slowly the two people no longer care about each other, and they don't say some love words to coax each other, and sometimes even the most basic greetings are not common.

This situation is normal for us. When we first fell in love, we were filled with passion. Generally speaking, when we decide to be in a relationship, this period is not too long, and we don't know each other very well that feelings are always changing, because time is moving forward and our moments are changing.

What was once a deep love has finally turned into our indifference. But you should know that it doesn't matter if your feelings are gone. Learning to deal with them is true.

At the beginning of a relationship, we often see the good in each other. He's sucking me in? Is he different?

These strengths and differences make us love each other, and our feelings become stronger and stronger. However, after a relationship has been stable for a long time, we tend to get used to or even ignore the good qualities of the other person, taking them for granted, or habitually ignoring them.

If you are constantly attaching your own demands and desires to your own feelings, you will often see the other person's shortcomings or not being able to meet your expectations in all aspects. As time goes on, you will feel more and more that this person is not suitable for me, that you don't love me enough, and that even you don't like him very much. So in fact, nothing has changed, but we ignore the strengths of the other person, always repeat or even magnify the shortcomings of the other party, always express our subjective wishes and feelings, and be self-centered to hope that the other person will satisfy us.

For couples, there must be more communication, even if two people always quarrel, it is much better than the cold war, at this time women must understand that if they find that their feelings have really faded, they really feel as if the other party does not love them so much. In fact, it is not such a fact, but two people have not communicated with each other for a long time, and men are always unaware of this problem, so at this time, women should not be blindly angry, but find this man and say to him, I think our relationship has weakened. If a man loves you very much, you will find that the relationship between the two of you will become happy and beautiful.

Therefore, the most important thing to do in this kind of love is to cherish it.

Because there is no freshness between two people, they don't care about each other, they don't meet each other's requirements in details, they don't see each other often, and they quarrel too much every day.