Why sometimes you stick to things until the end and still don t get a good result?

It is relatively normal to persist in one thing until the end without good results. What we learn in textbooks from childhood to adulthood is the positive energy that can lead to success if we persevere to the end. However, if you want to do something, persistence must not be enough.

For example, in love, it is not that persistence will eventually succeed. So I think we're doing one thing at a time. We need to understand whether our own capabilities and resources can do things well.

The timing does not allow us to get things done. The way to do things is not just right. What the hell are we doing this for?

Finally, the world is impermanent.

Success is good, but if you don't succeed in summarizing experience, reviewing and learning, learning lessons, and setting a correct mentality, it is regarded as growth. ‍‍

Persisting until the end there is still no good result, which can be said to be normal or abnormal. The result of a good thing is not only persistence, but also whether you have used your best. This full force includes a wide range, such as the following points:

To understand why this thing is going on, and what kind of result is this thing going to achieve? How to do this, how many resources at hand can help this thing, and how to use these resources to maximize the benefits of things. Not all perseverance will be successful, but all the efforts will be rewarded.

If persistence is blind repetition, it is not called persistence, it is called mechanical repetitive operation, and there is no meaning.

Persistence is a necessity, but it does not guarantee success. If you want to do a good job, you often have the right time, the right place, and the right people, all three of which are indispensable, especially people are too important in China. No matter how hard you try, but the relationship is not handled well, many times you will not achieve your expected goals.

Zeng Guofan has been mixed in officialdom all his life, and he has already seen through many things in officialdom and life, and it is not completely up to your will to do it well, so he warned his children and grandchildren that it is best to do learning, because doing learning is relatively as long as personal efforts will achieve results, and you don't have to worry about other things.

What you have to understand is that sometimes giving may not necessarily have results, but if you don't pay, there will be no results, and before you do this, you must be mentally prepared and psychologically evaluated accordingly for any results. Persistence is a rare and valuable thing, some things will have results if you stick to them, such as fitness, such as **, as long as you can persist and have perseverance, you will definitely receive results. But for some things, it is not enough to persevere, but also to pay attention to methods, such as learning.

Then there are some things that are more special, if it involves others, you have to consider the psychology of others, such as love.

Some things have a relatively long payback cycle, and even take a lifetime to do, and there may be no results, such as doing scientific research, experiments, etc., sometimes it is just that you need to persist for a while to succeed.

Not everything will have good results as long as we persist, many times we persist without results, but if we don't persevere, we will not succeed. There are many factors that determine success, the direction you are working towards, the method of effort, the impact of the environment, and a series of uncontrollable factors, but in addition to these, persistence is the shutdown factor that determines success.

Sometimes I have to ask myself, is it something worth sticking to? You insist on moving bricks every day, and after two or three years, you find that you can only move so many bricks, and even as you get older, you move fewer and fewer bricks. You insist on getting up and eating every day, this is not called persistence, only if you insist on getting up on time every day and eating on time can you be considered persistent.

If you persist every day, but find that there is no improvement at all, not even a little bit, it can only mean that either this thing is not beneficial, or you are very blind and just doing useless work repeatedly.

There is an idiom called "the opposite of each other", which says such a truth. When you're not in the right direction, the faster you run, the worse you get wrong! I like to watch a bridge in "Riding the Wind and Waves", in order to give his family a better and happier future, the male protagonist's father has a big box of BB machines, can this investment get a good return?

It's a time of rapid development, and in the blink of an eye, everything you see has the potential to become history. So, choice is more important than effort, direction is more important than speed, and sometimes, to achieve good results, letting go is more important than persevering!

You don't necessarily get a return for what you give, but you don't pay for it.

If the heart is not dead, just persevere, of course, things that do not result will make you sad, when you can't hold on, you will naturally give up. As long as you don't bother others and have a clear conscience, it is recommended to stick to it, as long as you have a heart.

Maybe the result won't change, but you can at least have a clear conscience.

You might as well try something to do, even if there is no result, it is better than leaving Yi Shak.

Don't stick to things that don't work out, it's a waste of time.

When you asked, you should already have an answer in mind, but it's still vague, I also saw that she sent this message in the girl's circle of friends, but she deleted it again. ......Recently, I was rejected to confess to her, this is my personal experience, I hope to clear a trace of fog in your heart, and see the answer in your heart.

Some things don't want results, and it's good to enjoy the process.

What do you insist on without results? You ask this because you're not sure if there will be a result, right?

It is necessary, only to continue to persevere, even if there is really no result, but at least you have worked hard.

There is no need, why insist on it without results?

No, if you don't get it, it hurts even more.

There's no need to insist, there's no point in wasting time.

You think it doesn't work out and you want to give up.

Then I think it's really inconclusive.

Of course, let's accumulate experience for next time.

All along, whenever I encounter something that is not going well, or I feel that I have said the wrong thing or done the wrong thing, I will tell myself that everything will end well, and often things are also developing in this direction, you can understand that this is a psychological suggestion, but it doesn't seem to be entirely the case, think about it, there are several reasons:

As long as you don't give up in your heart, as long as you can keep laughing out loud, as long as you can keep in a good state, things will always take a turn for the better, just like playing mahjong, as long as you don't lose your attitude, don't you be able to adjust the wind by playing four laps, few people are back from morning to night, the most important reason is that the most important reason is psychological imbalance, self-abandonment, I believe that there are good results, there are such psychological hints, and the process of hard work itself is a success.

We may be obsessed with the thing itself, and although we don't get it done, we have gained something in other aspects, and isn't that also a good result? You work very hard at work, even if you don't get promoted in the end, maybe this fighting spirit will make you gain a love; You work hard to exercise, and you may not achieve the best results in a short period of time, but you have made a group of like-minded friends, you say, is this a good result?

Life is a long road, and doing things is the same, you may lose in this round, but as long as you are not out, and then come, I can't run you in 100 meters, so practice hard, maybe you can compete in the marathon in the future, so I believe that everything has a good result, and I can motivate myself to keep working hard.

Many things, from different angles, from different periods, may be completely two results, so as long as you move forward, as long as you are willing to work hard, everything has variables, and everything will have a good result, just like a boiled duck may fly, things that seem to have no chance, can also be a little possible.

end。Thank you for reading and happy everyday.

To solve the problem of making it difficult to stick to the end, the following points may help:

Be clear about your goals: Be sure of your purpose and significance for doing this, and write it down.

Make a plan: Break down big tasks into smaller steps and create a timeline for completion.

Set up rewards: Give yourself rewards for completing tasks to motivate yourself.

Ask others: Seeking help and support from others can sometimes go a long way in persevering.

Adjust your mindset: Don't worry too much about failure, and believe that you can do it.

Stick to practice: Do a little bit every day, add up a lot, and gradually develop good habits.

These suggestions aren't guaranteed to work in all situations, but they can serve as a starting point for your efforts to stick to.

In life, there are many things that go well, and there are things that don't go so well. It's like how many people like us, how many people will dislike us.

Sometimes it's smooth sailing, it's easy to do it, and it's easy to succeed when you do it. Sometimes it feels like everything is not going well, and there are stumbling blocks everywhere, so it's easy to give up.

In fact, every day is meaningful. Doing successful things may exercise our abilities; What is not done will also bring lessons and revelations.

In fact, everything is meaningful. Maybe others don't understand it at the moment, but after a long time, there will be a new understanding slowly.

In fact, everything is meaningful. There may be no rewards and recognitions, but the fullness of the heart is clear only to yourself.

In fact, everything is meaningful. We may have tried our best but didn't succeed, but we still went through the process. The hardships, sweats, and sins we endure will eventually turn into light and illuminate our way forward.

Let's try our best to do everything to the extreme, and over time, we will meet a better version of ourselves.

I've stuck to these meaningful things. In the dead of night, I always want to find a tranquility, find a space to be alone, and then let my thoughts drift with the wind, and escape for a while in the tranquility of cranky thoughts. When the soul can't bear the load of life, it can only send a signal to the sky that it is tired, too tired, and this feeling of tiredness is not something that ordinary people can imagine.

Every day I want to find peace in my soul, however, it is really difficult.

From the day people are born, they are destined to accompany a lifetime of emotions and unsatisfactory life, fate is doomed, if you want to change your fate, you have to contend with all the misfortunes and ups and downs, choose the appropriate escape, that is just useless futility. Escape may sometimes be just a minute, or you can only get a minute of silence, or maybe you suddenly realize in the tranquility that people can't live too tired. I often comfort myself in this way.

There is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself. Maybe I'm just a philistine. Why look for tranquility in anything?

In fact, I want to hope for peace, in this extraordinary and bad day this year. I reflected and reflected. Most of the time I don't understand what I'm doing.

Kind of life. Kind of always tugging at people's minds on certain days. When it comes to the tranquility of seeking, everyone expects to have this moment.

For me, it may feel a little heavier in moments of solitude, but it's not absolute. Sometimes, although people are in a noisy and noisy environment, but the heart has already flown to the realm of not knowing what kind of, I often smile on my face, and I have seen through all the complicated things in my inner constancy.

People sometimes pretend to be a master of the world, but in fact, it is not the case, and the appearance of all this is also due to countless times of crawling, and then the end of reflection. There is no real excitement of benefits, no real heartfelt reverence for life and nature, no gratitude and appreciation for life and the world, no kind and transparent understanding, no kind and susceptible heart, no final awakening, and no natural tranquility and detachment.

In many cases, the motivation to seek tranquility is far greater than the force caused by all external things, and it may also be a process of excellence in the pursuit of tranquility for each individual. Why is that? I asked myself with a smile.

For a person who is truly integrated into life, will sigh at the wonder of the creation of the world. The heartfelt reverence and concern for life and nature is a kind of sincere gratitude and admiration.

Have you ever encountered this situation? When you have always wanted to do something, and then you persist for a long time, but there is no result, and then you will enter a period of confusion and bottleneck, do you want to persevere? Do you think there's any point in doing this?

For example, I have been writing every day on this platform for about half a month. But almost no one looks at me and I'm very depressed, do I have to insist on thinking that I have no results from doing this? If someone looks at me and points out the shortcomings** not good**.

There are still imperfections that I could improve, but no one is looking at them at all. Not to mention anything else.

So I don't have the courage to continue writing, and the fact that I have zero reading is really the biggest blow to me. Could it be that this platform is biased against me? I really don't understand.

So if you encounter anything, do you think you should continue to insist or don't be honest to do it, maybe insist that you are standing up, and you will survive this period of time and you may succeed Duan Chang. If you give up, you may have wasted all your efforts during this time, but it is also possible that you will continue to boil, but you will still waste your time like now. It's really confusing.

I know that no one reads this article even after I posted it, so I won't say anything.