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Anonymous users2024-02-12I think that's a particularly fair question. Children share the obligation to support their parents.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11I think this is the sadness of human nature, the alienation of family affection, although this problem is very realistic, every family has difficulties, and it is most appropriate to take turns to take care of the elderly, which means that the relationship between children is not friendly.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10But there are many of them, and they are also very helpless. Therefore, even if it is acting, you can only find a more reasonable result in a short period of time, so that everyone will not feel a lot of contradictions when facing her mother-in-law. Because rotation alleviation eases this contradiction.
The daughter-in-law can treat the elders as guests, so that she will not get bored.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09"Taking turns" for the elderly may be filial piety in the eyes of others, and there is no such thing as not supporting the elderly, but in the eyes of the elderly themselves, it may be another matter, because on the one hand, the elderly will feel tired of tossing back and forth, and on the other hand, they will feel that their children are not willing to take care of themselves, just to complete the task.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08Now this situation is widespread. When the elderly reach a certain age, they have no ability to live alone, and their children do not have specific suitable candidates, so they can only take turns to support the elderly.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07Personally, I think this approach is more practical, because after all, rural people don't have much time and energy to take care of the elderly, so this way exists.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06Fairness, raising the elderly is not a matter of one child, it should be borne by multiple children, which can also make the elderly feel the filial piety of their children and enjoy the sweet time in the last period of life.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05I think it's a good way to take care of the elderly in rural areas, but it doesn't put a lot of burden on one of the families.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04Everyone should take turns to give love, and everyone has enjoyed the kindness of their parents. This offering is very appropriate and I am very supportive.
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Anonymous users2024-02-03This phenomenon is very common, and to a certain extent, it is also very good for the elderly, after all, there are many children, and such an act will cause great comfort to the hearts of the elderly.
Don't take it too seriously, you can talk to other siblings about your thoughts and let them understand you. Taking care of the elderly is like this, because they don't come back for a long time, and they serve them for a few days when they come back, and they do their best, so the old people always feel that they serve well. Add to that the fact that you are cared for for a long time, which can be boring.
It is said that raising children to prevent old age is a very traditional concept, for parents, raising children is to hope that the child can support themselves when they are firm, but in real life, there are several children born in a family. Because all children are not given equal love, and there are no good material conditions, many people are not able to have a very close relationship with their parents. When I get old, I will not choose to support my parents because of their pension, and they will not completely ignore the pension because they do not have a pension, which is the obligation of every child. >>>More
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