Falling in love with someone of the same sex who shouldn t be loved, why don t I like the same sex?

Alas, how so?

Although this is not homosexuality, it is also an abnormal manifestation, right?

Maybe you belong to a kind of dependence psychology, and it is better to find a girlfriend and let you put your heart on your girlfriend. It's not like you're just going to find a girlfriend!!

Remember, remember!!

It's normal to be with your good friends and fall in love with each other, but it's just not in line with common sense, you feel that homosexuality is very shameful, don't think so, the feeling is in your own and each other's hearts, and you don't have to worry about what other people think.

As for your family of origin, your parents, you can choose to reconcile or not, forgive or not, and solve the original trauma, so that you can have more confidence to establish an intimate relationship.

Secondly, to look at the emotional problem calmly and rationally, in the process of pursuing love, you should have a little bit of your own opinions, don't like it because of the scum others are good to you, you like it, this kind of love is not necessarily love, and don't easily take gratitude as a sedan to know the excitement of love, such feelings often can't go to the end, the best thing to do is to understand your own deep feelings, and have a correct attitude towards feelings, so that you can really have the love you want!

Third, the lack of love when I was a child will indeed form a kind of dependence psychology, and it is normal to like a person who depends on it, just like your admiration for girls, but it is impossible to achieve love for a one-way like for one person to another, it must be a manifestation of love for each other, there is no difference between liking the same sex and the opposite sex, it depends on whether you like that person or not, will you want to have further intimate contact with closed socks? If you have both, of course, it can't just be a friend.

Fourth, you have resistance to intimate contact with the opposite sex, largely because you don't know or understand intimacy, and instinctively have fear or resistance to such unknowns, on the one hand, you don't like it enough, on the other hand, you don't know enough, if you meet your own heart and make yourself feel at ease, it may be much better, these things that only you can be sure of.

Finally, study psychology appropriately, read more books on this subject, learn to deal with all kinds of psychological distress, try to get yourself out of mental internal friction, and the first step in establishing intimate relationships with others is to establish correct cognition, and at the same time have a strong heart, everything must come slowly, come on!

You'll have to find another target, and while it's not a big deal to be of the same sex, I'm more disgusted.

Homosexuality is normal.

Homosexuality is not a disease, it is not a sin, it is not a fault, and homosexual love is no different from heterosexual love.

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If he loves you too, he will be together.

Glad to answer this question for you! ~

Actually, what I want to say to you is that a virtual world; Why should you take it so seriously, because you are easily deceived by this mentality! ~

Let's start with your depression, first of all, because of introversion and low self-esteem, you are not good at communicating with others.

When you meet someone who cares about you, you will feel that this person is a lifesaver in your life! ~

But the reverse can also be your deadly poison.

I have also met many relatives and friends who are depressed, and some of them are asking friends; In fact, you just lack love and attention in your heart.

always hide his thoughts and silently admit love by himself; Learn to open your heart and learn to trust others.

It's like this little sister of yours, there are many people who are worse than you; Why bother to draw yourself as a prison and make yourself uncomfortable! ~

It can be seen that you are a very kind girl, because your friends who are depressed are kinder; The personality will be a little introverted and even not cheerful! ~

If you trust me, I am willing to help you open your heart. Let the heart regain light.

How are you and this little sister doing now? I've had the same thing with you......I was also studying abroad, and because of the common hobby of cross talk, I met such a woman by accident. The difference is that she is 33 years old and I am 26 years old.

She has a stable job, her home is in Beijing, and the conditions in old Beijing will not be much worse. As for me, I originally came here with a dream to study for a PhD, but because of loneliness, I am getting farther and farther away from my dream, and I want to go to her side more and more and live a similar life with her.

But I don't think it's possible for me, economic difficulties, gender issues, geographical location, age gap, ......It's doomed that this kind of thing will not end well. But I'm really moved, facing such a person who I have only seen **, but is willing to ...... with me every morning and night

Be brave and be yourself.

Stick to what is most true in your heart.

Nothing different.

Find a man who cares about you in a relationship.

You should go to the Middle East to fight, and that's not the case.

It's a matter of personal cognitive and emotional distortions, and you have only yourself to save yourself.

Don't see him, you can try to like an alien.

Come in with a confused face and go out with a confused face.

Don't be in contact, don't be alone together, avoid embarrassment.

The happiest thing I've ever encountered is that I met you in the most beautiful moment. Even if we can't be together in the end, thank God for having you in my life and letting me know that there is a person in time who can make me unhesitating, even if I am the enemy of the whole world.

There is no right or wrong to love someone, only whether you want to or not. Love can be individual or mutual. Love alone is unrequited love; And mutual love is love.

Love does not distinguish between right and wrong, as long as you like someone in your heart, love someone, whether the other party loves you or not, and whether the other party can be with you or not, it no longer matters. Love without regrets, love sincerely, and love frankly. Perhaps, after many years, you will find that the best of what was once has quietly settled a nest around you.

Love has always been with you, from the moment you have love, until eternity.

I love you more than I love God.

Love you, love you. I love you like crazy.

Speak up.

God will bless you.

Good luck, I'm sincere and sincere, and I hope to get your affirmation.

A colleague told me that her relatives were going crazy. When a relative's child asks the teacher to transfer his place, he doesn't want Yuji to be the same table as the current first place, but has to sit with the last person in the class. And he didn't want someone else to be at the same table with him.

I asked him if he was at the same table and if he was of the same sex or the opposite sex. She said with a bitter face - both of them are boys, I'm so worried now, I won't say I'm in love! I didn't dare to give any hints to my relatives, and I died of depression.

I advised her to want to drive a little, don't be nervous, it doesn't matter if you really fall in love, it doesn't necessarily be caused by a genetic defect, so everything should still have a turnaround. I saw such an example a few years ago. A girl's mother came to us for help with her daughter's diary, and the mother's eyes were bloodshot, unkempt, and haggard.

Her daughter's diary is unsightly, full of descriptions of her and her best friend's various intimate behaviors, except that she has not hit home run, and basically everything a lover can do. Her future career plan is even more terrifying, to be an X worker. She said she couldn't figure out why life was so hard, and she thought that she could earn money by lying down, instead of working hard.

Which mother can accept her child like this, that mother is so anxious that she slaps her face. Our advice to her is not to pay too much attention to it, and the child may be a bad catharsis caused by too much stress. In fact, after the college entrance examination, Shi Qing's judgment and distance separated them.

A few years ago, the girl got married, and now she has two children, and her best friend is also married and has children normally. So the child's momentary confusion is not so scary.

Three years ago, there was also a girl who faced the same problem, also a same-sex relationship. Parents are more open-minded, and there is another reason that A is particularly sensitive, parents are afraid that something will happen to her, and they feel that the lesser of two evils is the lesser of two evils. Falling in love is more difficult to accept than suicide.

Later, they were divided into two classes in coordination with the school. At first, the female character A was still a little uncomfortable, and the male character B quickly played with the female classmates in the new class. In A's jealousy, whining, suspicion, and complaining, B feels too tired and chooses to end the relationship.

A was sad for a while, and couldn't figure out whether A was in revenge or something else, and soon everyone found out that A talked about a boyfriend, and in this relationship, she was a big heroine, and the boy was a little milk dog.

Therefore, don't pay too much attention to the problem of your child's gender identity, maybe after a while, they will find it boring and break off. On the contrary, they think that everyone does not understand them and wants to break them up, so they have to huddle against the whole world, so as to prove that they love each other, and once the tug-of-war is generated, it will be countless times, emphasizing and even recognizing their false gender identity. Give them time, and they, like heterosexuals, have conflicts in a relationship, then reconcile, then conflicts, and then get bored.

And if it is really caused by genetic problems, people in the outside world think that forcibly intervening has no effect at all except blessings. In short, when encountering this kind of thing, just give them time to solve it on their own.