How do you make yourself indifferent?? How can it be indifferent?

In fact, there is no need to disguise yourself, a real self is better than anything else, you can laugh uncontrollably, cry boldly...Why do you care what others think and think? If you're going to teach yourself that it doesn't matter, then I suggest you remember the saying, "What you give, you get."

Even then, are you happy? How can those little things sway you if you are happy?

You can't avoid it, if your friend thinks about her own sake and treats you as a true friend, you give her some tactful advice, and she will listen to your advice.

Do you think she's your true friend? Yes, no matter what she does, it's her personality problem, and you can't let others live according to your thinking, right?

It seems that you still value this friend, but it can be seen from your words that you already hate and even dislike this friend. But after all, you can't be separated from him (her). So I suggest that you give him or her what you think, and give him or her some enlightenment at the right time, and I think he or she will understand!

If he doesn't understand, then he can't be your friend.

Find someone who loves you, and you have to learn to care about those who care about you.

The so-called happiness is neither to be loved nor to love others, but to love yourself and love yourself.

Be indifferent to her for a few days, and then be nice to her

Sometimes, we should give up, when will he cherish you, but I am afraid that in the end, you are still sad alone.

There are two ways, either he changes or you change.

Deal with everything with a normal mindset.

The old does not go, and the new does not come. Why hang yourself from a tree.

When you don't think about it anymore, maybe you don't care anymore.

Maybe it's because you care too much about him, so you will suffer from gains and losses.

Such people should be well educated and educated.

Not wanting to make progress is not a good sign.

Only by maintaining a non-impulsive attitude can we do nothing. It's best to be as calm as water.

Calm as water means that the heart is as calm as water. Its central meaning is the heart; Jing means quiet, calm. Water, refers to the calm surface of the water.

There are no waves at all. We know that the surface of the water needs to be calm, without a single wave. It had to be without outside interference.

Because when a gust of wind blows, the water surface will fluctuate. It is impossible to be as calm as a mirror. And we live in society, and we are always affected by the environment.

We cannot be detached from society. In order to make ourselves as calm as water, we have to exert our self-control to eliminate all kinds of distractions caused by society. Try to keep yourself calm.

Even if you can't be as calm as a mirror, you can make a little ripple on the surface of the water. We need a normal heart. And the heart is as calm as water, there are four words:

Anzhiruosu, it means: to get along with the environment naturally, as usual, and not to feel that there is anything inappropriate. So.

Everything we encounter in society is a journey that we must go through. Anything can happen, and we don't need to be particularly anxious. There is no hurdle that cannot be overcome, it is nothing more than soldiers coming to block it, and water to cover it.

Let it pass. If you suffer a loss, then you will grow a wise man, and that's how you grew up. The mind is as calm as water, and when the external disturbance has passed, the natural restoration, the original state of peace, this is what we want.

All distractions are a test given to you by God. Everyone knows, "Therefore, the heavens will be hungry and the dust will be the great task of people rotten Zen, they must first suffer their minds, strain their muscles and bones, starve their bodies and skin, empty their bodies, and act chaotically, so they are tempted to grind away their forbearance, and they have benefited from what they cannot." ”

Actually, I'm also a little.,It's impossible to be indifferent.,That proves that you don't care about this relationship... All you have to do is lower your sensitivity and communicate your feelings with him more, if he really loves you, he will care. Then you have to control yourself, and when you are ready to think about it, think about him first, and understand that he is such a person?

Think about his goodness.

There is no macro annihilation? That's just 3 words to hide the loss of the heart, there is no real indifference, saying that the chaos is just a warning to yourself, maybe this is a kind of deception, not to deceive others, but to deceive the most real thing in your heart, although it is a deception, but it is undeniable that these 3 words have given yourself relief,

You can only say that you can't do it unless you don't care about anything, nothing.

No worries, no worries, hide your heart.

Not really, unless you don't care.

To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......What do you think it will be to give up, is it so easy to give up someone, and is it still called true love? Love will make you happy, and thinking of her "him" will be very happy and powerful.

But you know how you'll feel when you don't get her? Do you feel that the sky is falling, people are tired, and your heart is tired? I'm sure you've encountered it, because I've also encountered it now in trouble, in pain.

I can understand your feelings. I want to love so much, I give love, but she wants you to give up on her, I said I will, but is it really okay? When I was lonely, when I was lonely, I quietly thought of her, her voice, and every word she said, it was so unforgettable and heart-wrenching.

I really want to love, but I get a lot of pain, and my body and mind are haggard. Is this called abandonment? Therefore, it is impossible to give up a person you really love, you can only cry and remind yourself that you want to forget, to escape, although you don't want to, you are very unwilling, but what else can you do besides escaping?

I'm like that now, and I can understand your mood somewhat. If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus. Turn your attention to something else.

When you don't eat or drink, you don't care about everything, and you don't care if you're dead or alive!

But I don't mind if you do that, sometimes people should not be so careless, but they can't be indifferent. When you don't care, the world becomes boring in your eyes.

What's the point of a boring life!

If you are not stubborn and greedy for rights, you can be indifferent and afraid of everything.

Greed means craving without knowing satisfaction.

Chu Ci Lisao": "Everyone is competing to be greedy, and they are not reckless. ”

Wang Yi's note: "Love money is greedy, love food is greedy." ”

In fact, the main way to obtain property is to obtain ownership of property through labor, theft and fraud, and to achieve possession of property through power, then greed for power is the ultimate first greed.

When people have greed, they will have scruples, and they will unscrupulously obtain the right to possess benefits, and obtain the enjoyment of the benefits brought by power, and rights will become the root of all evil.

So, if you want to be okay with anything, then learning to give up the greed for power is the best option.

You should think twice before you do something.

In this way, slowly everything will not matter.

When you look at something that makes you emotional.

Say to yourself: It doesn't matter.

Close your eyes, take a deep breath, and don't care.

I thought so too.

Of course, this is only most of the time.

Someday. You're going crazy about one thing.

Just try to be as indifferent as possible.

If the day has come when Annai will not live.

Well, the one who makes you unable to calm down.

It's the most important person in your life.

Cherish her him.

Once upon a time in a temple in the mountains, there was a little monk who was asked to buy oil. Before leaving, the temple cook handed him a large bowl and sternly warned: "You must be careful, you must not spill the oil." ”

After the little monk agreed, he went to buy oil. He carefully carried the large bowl full of oil, and the more he thought about it, the more nervous he became. Unfortunately, when he was about to reach the temple gate, he stepped into a pit and spilled a third of the oil.

The little monk was very annoyed, and his hands began to tremble. When I returned to the temple, the bowl was only half full of oil. The cook was very angry, he pointed at the little monk and scolded:

You idiot! Didn't I say be careful? Why is so much oil wasted, I'm really angry!

An old monk heard it and came over to ask what was going on. After understanding the situation, he said to the little monk, "I will send you to buy oil again."

This time, I want you to observe more of the people and things you see on the way back, and you need to make a report with me. On the way back for the second time, the little monk found that the scenery on the mountain road was really beautiful. Majestic mountain peaks can be seen in the distance, and farmers are cultivating the terraces.

In this way, while walking and looking at the scenery, I will return to the temple before I know it. When the little monk handed the oil to the cook, he found that the bowl was full of oil and there was no loss at all.

A person who knows how to find joy in life through life experiences will not feel that his life is full of stress and worry. This is also the magic weapon for living a more positive and optimistic life.

The reason why people are called people is because they have seven emotions and six desires. It doesn't matter, it's just an attitude towards things, it's hard to become an indifferent person, in my impression, there is only the founder of the Taoist school - Lao Tzu, Lao Tzu's advocacy of "Wu Wei" probably means this!

This is a bit difficult, and it is very difficult to win people without going through strong winds and waves, and to persuade everything to follow fate.

When you really don't have a heart or lungs, you can do it, people have feelings, can you really do it? From nothing to something, it's because you have a so-called that you don't care about other things, don't you, it's not that I don't care about anything, but I understand what it means, and it's not that I don't care

Hehe、、、 I'm also studying Bland.

Love is gratuitous giving, is willing to help, is each other's heart induction, since you choose love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is in difficulty, failure is with encouragement, when he (she) is happy, happy together, sad together. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him happy forever, to be her eternal safe haven, to protect her, even if it is the slightest harm.

Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a ...... that will not fadeAll this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love.

The most important thing to love a person is to respect his (her) own independent time and space, let him (her) devote his (she) energy to the struggle for his ideal career, and urge him (her) to make full use of the time at his or her disposal, help each other in the short space with each other, support each other, share weal and woe, contribute to each other's ideal cause, and strive for a better future together!

Eternal love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, eternal love is your love. Love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, the reward of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other party, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. As long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

Whenever this happens, you can distract yourself and think about something else, or go to the beach to blow the wind, keep yourself noble, don't make noise, be happy for a day, be unhappy for a day, why not let yourself be happy? Let it all matter, I wish you success!

It's not a bad thing to care about someone, it means that you love him very much, let him know, and he may love you more! I'm not shy

Don't try to forget something or someone, it's counterproductive—not only can't you forget it, but you keep remembering it and adding to your troubles. People should always look forward, the road they have walked, the people they have loved, they will not come back after the past, and coming back is no longer the original scenery, the original mood, why should they be so persistent? Let go of your baggage, relax your mind, and live happily in the present minute, maybe in the near future you will meet more beautiful scenery and better lovers at the next intersection of life.

People are always wonderful, when you have loved someone with your heart but have to break up with him, you will feel that life has lost all its color all at once, and even have the idea of ending your life, but when you stubbornly survive, you will find that in fact, the so-called unforgettable love turned out to be just a beautiful and illusory dream. Don't worry too much about everything, let the past pass, forget the bad completely, let the good be buried in the depths of memory, don't think too much, live every day of the present full and happy, and face the people and things in the future happily. Time will tell, and maybe one day you will discover what a wise choice it was to leave him.

Time will tell, maybe one day you just want to think about him again, but you can't remember anything! You may even wonder if the story of the past belongs to you. It's really about fate between people.

Since you propose to break up, no matter what the reason, it can only mean that your fate can only go so far. In that case, why can't you let go? To be a man, you should always be able to afford to put it down!

No matter to people or things, if you just can afford to take it but can't let it go, it is not a good thing for yourself or others, I hope you can understand the truth. Finally, I wish you health, happiness, happiness and luck, and I believe that you will be able to adjust your mentality and live, work and study well. I also believe that the god of luck will come knocking on your door at any time.