If you have a quarrel, should you calm down or solve it in person?

。。If you have a quarrel, should you calm down or solve it in person?"How to solve it, it should be said that it depends on the situation.

For example, you are in this situation now, you are very. I'm sure you understand what I'm saying, get into the topic:

He's going to be separated from you for a while 'temporarily' on the grounds that both need to be calm. A very reasonable request, at least you have no right to refute, his pressure is created by you, and you still want to be with him ... Do you feel the reality?

You also said, he can't stand it, what can't he stand it? Is it just work? If it's a matter of work, why should he separate?

Do you understand?

Now you're in a bad situation, why? First of all, his will to separate is very strong, and it is no longer something you can stop. It's an outburst after a long period of repression.

If you are still the same as you were before ... You can imagine the consequences. So you can't stop it, to be precise, with your current ability.

Since it can't be stopped, then the 'temporary' separation is certain, and now that your crisis is coming, can you see what it is? All I can say is that you're likely to lose him, and I use 'maybe', but I did add a 'very'. It's not just his factor, but we also have to beware of 'others' taking advantage of it.

The solution is divided into two situations, the first is to reject his request, which ... I said that you can't do it now, but it doesn't mean that you can't do it after the change. Do you understand? It's up to you.

The second agreed to his request, and what about after that? Obey the destiny of heaven and do your best.

So, you just have to choose the first one, hold your destiny tightly in your hands, if you are willing to change, not just talk ... It's to take action, then it's easy for him to come back.

Summary: You continue with your current self, and he is likely to leave; Change him and it's easy to stay.

It shouldn't be addressed in person. Try writing a letter afterwards. Not bad

Yes? That's how my girlfriend and I broke up.

We agreed to be apart for a while, quiet with each other.

As a result, I heard from others that she broke up with me. Speechless.

When you have an argument, you may feel embarrassed or overwhelmed. Here are some of the things you can do to pretend to be a frontrunner:

1.Stay calm: Try to keep yourself calm and don't be easily influenced by other people's emotions. Try to figure out the ins and outs of the matter, and analyze your position and remorse in a cold and quiet manner.

2.Try to resolve the conflict: If both sides of the argument have calmed down, try to find the problem, think from the other side's point of view, and try to resolve the conflict. Care should be taken to avoid criticism and accusations and maintain a harmonious atmosphere as much as possible.

3.Ask someone for help: If you feel like you can't control the situation or if you're feeling uncomfortable, try asking someone for help. You can ask for help from nearby police, security personnel, or community workers.

4.Leave the scene: If neither side of the argument can calm down or if the heated argument has affected others, you can leave the scene and try to avoid conflict. If you feel that there is a safety risk, you can seek help from ** or a professional.

No matter what the situation, staying calm and taking care of your own safety is always paramount.

Introduction: Although people will have a variety of perceptions, this emotional shift can easily affect people's mood throughout the day. In particular, the situation of quarrels is generally unbearable.

It's easy to do things that you can't adapt to. Therefore, many netizens are very distressed, how to maintain a calm and comfortable state, the following is a brief introduction to you, readers can have an understanding in advance.

First of all, when people perceive such a situation, it is important to quickly stop the discussion. Because the remarks made in this mood are not very friendly, and it is easy to hit the other party. Therefore, it is also a good idea to shut down the speech as soon as possible.

Many people think that this approach is not much different from the Cold War, but in fact it will bring a lot of effective results. Cold treatment is very disgusting, but in such an aggravated situation, a temporary stop is more effective. So people have to make trade-offs.

Otherwise, it is easy to affect the harmonious relationship between each other.

Secondly, in the face of this situation, there must be a quick response from one party. Only when one party becomes soft, the other party will have nowhere to vent and will naturally calm down. If the two sides have maintained a high-intensity output standard, the quarrel between them will not be resolved at all.

Therefore, only one party quickly releases the summation message. In this way, subsequent injuries can be avoided.

In addition, this may have a lot to do with people's personalities, so when making friends with each other, be sure to understand each other's psychological state in advance, so that you can quickly find the right way to speak in the subsequent communication. And it is quite possible that the quarrel is just a difference of perception. Therefore, people must elaborate their ideas so that they can quickly understand each other.

Only when you truly feel each other's feelings will this state of quarrel be reduced, otherwise there may only be a fight between each other that cannot be stopped.

It may take two people to stop the rhythm of the argument first, and then calm down and think about it, and one of them gives the other a step down.

After a big meal, both of them calm down, press a good press, and you will figure it out if you think about it.

I have a lot of say on this issue.

Some time ago, the frequency of quarrels with my boyfriend increased, not to mention arguing every day, two or three times a week, and it was basically a trivial matter, but what I want to say is that if it is not a matter of principle, you can't break up casually.

I've been fighting with him for a week or two.,I'm not good-tempered.,The kind that has something to say.,My object thinks I'm talking too sharply and gets angry.,So it's best to suggest that girls don't be too fierce.,Don't study like me.。

Girls are more emotional, some words are easy to blurt out when they quarrel, they must learn to control their emotions, especially when they are angry, they feel that the cruel words are in their mouths and take a deep breath and drink saliva first, if they are fighting ** quarrels, they will mute and scold him (hahaha), boys don't go to fight with girls about right and wrong, many times girls actually know that they are doing wrong, but who will admit their problems when they are angry, so boys can learn not to care about the content of the quarrel first, Tong Shen controls the girl's emotions, After a few hours or the next day, I will have a good chat, and I will be able to talk very well at this time (my own personal experience).

In any case, communication cannot be refused! Good communication can increase feelings (preferably face-to-face, two people speak calmly). And you have to face up to the problem of quarrels, quarrels are normal, maybe you are in the run-in period, and you will get through it.

The most taboo thing is that after two people quarrel many times, they are unwilling to reflect (never feel that they are not wrong at all), and I have learned to reflect in this relationship to get to this point, otherwise we both have strong self-esteem and would have broken up a long time ago.

The most important point is that as long as two people love each other enough, these quarrels are not a problem!! Thinking about it, you are going to go to the end with him and her, and I think it's all trivial.