Since you chose to give up on me, why did you turn back and redeem it when things didn t turn around

When I went back, the two people on my parents' side slowly enlightened.

Do you still love him? Does he really still love you? You are not choosing between your parents and him, you are choosing later in life!

Don't remarry your daughter for the sake of wanting to remarry him. Don't refrain from remarrying for the sake of your parents' attitude.

The second option should be well considered. The attitude of your parents is not a problem, they will respect your choice.

After all, you have already been married, and marriage is not a palace that can be entered and exited casually, we should learn to bear it.

It's really not easy to build a wonderful family. You should show your parents that you will be happy in the future! You should make this clear to your husband as well.

Have you met a man you love more now?

If not, then do you love your ex-husband? If you still love him the most in your heart, then you can consider going back. The premise is not to think about the child, to think about your feelings for him!

The ancients said: Heaven is constant, not for Yao, not for death.

In fact, there is no such thing as providence to make people, just because of the expectation effect in our own hearts, just like I often complain about taxi, when you don't want to sit, the net is dangling in front of your eyes, when you want to sit, but there is no one, and some are no longer empty.

Buddhism says well, everything is fate, you insist on it, give up is also fate, that is, if it is fate, you must let go in time

Hehe, of course, there is an explanation, that is, you are not persistent enough, of course, since this is already the case, what's the use of regretting, it's better to be free and easy, forget the past, live in the present, and stride forward

This is the reality that teaches people to persevere to the end no matter how difficult it is, otherwise the previous efforts will be in vain, and they will regret it.

Because the abominable fate plays tricks on people. When you work hard with confidence, fate will not let you succeed. When you've given up after countless blows.

That's when the opportunity presented itself. Perhaps there are dark forces in the universe that control this world. As long as you persevere in your struggle, you can defeat the dark forces of the universe.

Take the initiative to succeed.

Because it is to make you give up after the 99th failure, only to find that you can succeed after the 100th time.

Yes, this is the real society, and there is no way that the Destiny Stone is in the hands of God.

Life is incomprehensible, and if you can't change, you have to adapt.

No one can say this clearly, but I can only sigh that there is no endless road, and the peaks and loops are turning.

Don't you think it's best to give up when you're powerless??? In fact, giving up is also a kind of beauty and a kind of love.

In fact, there is nothing wrong with love, it is only us who is wrong, because we ask too much for love, too perfect, there is nothing wrong with loving someone, because everyone has the right to love and the right to be loved! If you really look at this love, go on bravely, you will find that life is so beautiful with love, because when you love someone, whether you are worried about him or miss him, it is a very good thing in the world! However, if you don't love, or this relationship has no result, then you have to give up decisively, because giving up is also a kind of beauty, if you don't give up your life, there may be only one possibility, that is, pain, if you let go, your life is 10,000 possibilities @ Which is more important and which is lighter, I believe you will know!

Your life is in your own hands.

What you once had, don't forget; What has been obtained, it is more important to cherish; What belongs to you, don't give up; What has been lost, keep it as a memory; If you want to get it, try for it. Love someone: to understand, but also to understand; To apologize, but also to thank; We must admit our mistakes and correct them; Be considerate and considerate; It is to accept, not to endure; It is tolerance, not connivance; It is support, not domination; It is a condolence, not a question; It is to confide, not to accuse; It is unforgettable, not forgotten; It is to communicate with each other, not to explain everything; It is to pray silently for the other person, not to ask for many of them; It can be romantic, but don't waste it; It's okay to hold hands at any time, but don't break up casually.

If you really love each other, then you should work hard to fight for it, maybe you will succeed through your efforts, then maybe, if you work hard, the other party still thinks it is impossible. Then you better give up, because forced love is useless, that is meaningless, right? It's better to plan for yourself, and life will always be beautiful.

Why bother with a relationship that isn't yours, isn't that too unworthy?

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun... Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude.

Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up. Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...

Persistence is not stubbornness! Give up, give up! The main road does not pass, and there are small roads. There is no way to go by land, and there are also waterways. Giving up doesn't mean giving up forever, failure doesn't mean forever failing, just as smiling doesn't mean I'm happy!

Landlord, four words, let it be.

The man is a **, and the woman is a fool.

What do you think you're doing with a fool?

Brother, the reality is very cruel, and compassion should not be too competitive.

Don't use the excuse that you can't forget, it just means that you don't want to forget.

You must not be friends with this woman, because he will treat you as a spare tire.

You have to go chic, you have to QQ blacklist, you have to blacklist your mobile phone, you have to cut off contact.

Even if we meet one day, we can only say hello and then leave quickly under the pretext that something happens.

There are thousands of women in the world, with her and without her, find a more capable one, and piss her to death.

She used to love you and really loved you, but if she doesn't love you now, she really doesn't love you.

I'll tell you from the standpoint of a girl.

If you've tried your best to say good things, she won't come back.

She's just tired of being with you.

And she's going to repeat and can't be with you.

The disparity between you.

She will also have pressure in her heart.

If you don't love, you don't love.

Don't make excuses for yourself.

Pretend she still loves you to live.

I'm also a girl who plays online games.

is also dependent on the husband in the game.

A lot of girls really get caught up in the game.

Nothing is unforgettable.

A wound is not about how to forget.

It's just a matter of whether you have the courage to start over.

It's a university, and there's a new environment.

There will also be the next girl for you.

Nothing can't be put down.

The only constant in this world is change.

Brother, I sympathize with you too.

Because if that girl loved you.

Then I'm sure she's not sincere.

Forgetting a person is not so acceptable.

If you really can't let go of her.

Then you go ahead and chase her back.

After all, you still have feelings for her.

If you give up now, you may be affected in the future.

Chase her back.

That way, if you can't catch it back.

Then you don't have to think about it.

This woman doesn't deserve it.

You did what you had to do.

You'll feel much more comfortable that way.

I also believe that your girlfriend is angry in the moment.

4 years. It's so easy to give up.

Go chase her back. Tell her what you really mean.

I hope you can "kill the rival in love".

Find your true love.

Brother is sympathetic to you first of all.

From my point of view, she doesn't care about you at all, I know you like her, and you love her, but a woman makes a decision It's hard to undo, how many good girls are waiting for you, but have you cherished it, she doesn't deserve you, we want to live better than her, what is a woman?

Don't bother with her, if she still looks for you, don't be soft-hearted, men's face and dignity!Brothers.

Friend, I advise you to give up, such a girlfriend is not worth cherishing!

You persuaded her, but she won't listen to you.

Maybe she won't think of you until she finds out she's been cheated, well, after all, you've been together for so long.

But I want to tell you something.

To miss is to miss.

There is no grass at the end of the world.

There is no need to redeem it. I think one day she'll probably come back to you when she finds out that the man is lying to her. When the time comes, don't think about what you've been together with or whatever.

It's better to give her a sentence. I tried my best to get it back, you. Give up our love for a man we have never met in person. You don't deserve my love anymore.

Such a woman is really not worth it. She was the one who regretted it later. You have a great future ahead of you, why do you want to do this because of a woman.

There are more good women in college. Nothing is forgotten, it's just a matter of time. Slowly, you will forget.

Just think about it, she doesn't deserve you like that. It's really not worth it. Give it up. She'll regret it.

I hope you can take a step back to look at the problem no matter what happens, if you always think of yourself as the protagonist of this story, I think you will never be able to see the essence of the matter, and you will never see the solution to the problem, the authorities are confused, the bystanders are clear, if you can take a break from your story and sit in the audience to watch your own story, I think you will be able to understand more things! You must also know what you should do now.

In fact, love is a kind of fate that does not clean up more chaotic, in your own love, only you know the ins and outs of things best, other people's answers can only be used as a reference for you, the final decision is still your own decision, you must not take other people's answers as the standard for solving your own problems, because who will know your own things better than you? You choose to go into love, that is, you also choose the ups and downs of love, there may be a day of breakup, since we choose a process from the beginning to the end, then, we have to face the process of love, separation is not a difficult thing to face, because two people are together for happiness, if separation is to give each other more space to find their own happiness, then what do we have to be sad? Happy is a day, unhappy is also a day, we don't have the courage to escape from this world, we still need to live every day, so since we choose to live, then why not live every day?

How about making yourself happy every day? When you don't plan to love someone else sincerely, please love yourself well! Think about it, how much have you loved yourself?

Isn't it? With a calm mind to face all the things happening around you, you will find a way to live in peace!

Have fun!

Know how to let go. Because she doesn't love you anymore, no matter what you do now, you can't save this relationship. Even if it can be reversed temporarily, can you guarantee that she will not make such a mistake in the future?

Or worse than that. No matter how much you can't let go of her, it's time for you to let go. She is not destined to belong to you.

Think of this relationship as an unforgettable relationship.

There's a girl who suits you better and is waiting for you. Go men should be able to afford to let go and be happy to find your true love, a partner who loves you, understands you, and can spend your life with you

Good luck

It's been two years since I graduated from college now, I was with her in my third year of high school, and I broke up after graduating from college (junior college), and after 4 years, I really can't forget my previous memories, I really can't let go of this unforgettable love, I really can't let go! In fact, it is more accurate to say that she can't let go of this relationship, not her, after all, after being together for so many years, there are joys and sorrows. However, that night she told me that she was already with so-and-so, and my heart was really like a pinprick (I'm sure you can relate to it)!

It's been more than 2 years since I broke up, and I have gradually forgotten those memories in my mind, there are many things waiting for me to do, as a man, I should have a sense of responsibility, I want to take it and let it go, I can't live in the previous world, whether it's good or bad, never indulge. You just took the college entrance examination now, don't think about it so much, there are many good girls in college, believe me, I'm also a person for you, but I think most of the real love happens after leaving school, and the time in college is really precious to study, so take advantage of it! In addition, I want to tell you, let it go, you also need a better life, there are still many things waiting for you to do, let time dilute all this, everything will be .........

Bless you .........