How to maintain a relationship out of 50

Relationships have periods of love and periods of lull

Many people are in love, once the lull period comes, the relationship cools down rapidly, and the likelihood of breaking up greatly increases

This is the case for many couples.

Passed the period of passionate love. Entered a mature period of understanding each other really well.

Faults, willfulness, perception of things. There will be more and more disagreements.

Find your most romantic feeling.

For example: go to the place where the first love met.

Go to the playground. Go play in the water.

The most important thing: you tell her. How much you care and love her.

If you get tired, separate them.

Otherwise, it's painful to stay together.

Do everything with your heart.

Don't have a clear conscience on it.

Don't deliberately maintain it, it's better to be separated for a period of time, not to break up, but to separate, pay attention! Xiao Bisheng newlywed, Xi'an is separated for a period of time, don't meet, send a message, call** There will be a little freshness when you say goodbye.

1. Learn to take the initiative: If you fall in love for a long time, it is easy to cause the feelings between each other to fade, which is very normal, everyone has a certain amount of time to appreciate everyone's good feelings, and the feelings are also, if you spend a lot of love, it is easy to fade down. Therefore, if you want to make each other's feelings in a state of love, you need both parties to pay more for each other, only by taking the initiative, can you make each other surprised and happy, and create opportunities for each other, and there will be more communication.

2. Learn to cherish: In the relationship, we must learn to cherish each other's feelings, and only cherished feelings are precious. Although it is said that the relationship will fade over time, as long as both people cherish it, they will understand that plainness is the truest.

Therefore, both parties must learn to understand each other, and if something is wrong, they must learn to be considerate rather than blame. In this way, the relationship between each other can be further developed.

3. Don't be too demanding: everyone has their own ideas, because everyone is a different individual, if you are always demanding of each other, it will make people feel troubled for a long time, which also has a certain impact on each other's feelings. So don't be too harsh on the other person, because what the other person does for himself is not obligatory.

Therefore, mutual understanding and not being overly demanding are the most basic things in getting along.

Maintenance of other people in the relationship:

Whether encountering difficulties and obstacles in life or psychologically, empathy, empathy and psychological comfort from peers, especially those of the opposite sex, are the most effective.

A harmonious mood can stimulate energy, and energy will be used more and more due to the harmony of the mood. For the child's matter, as a parent, we must look at it from a positive aspect, that is, urge and encourage her to create happiness, joy, pleasure and love in the future, and believe that the child will also redouble his efforts for the happy life of himself and "him", so what parents should do is to appreciate and motivate the child, cherish the present, study hard, and finally have a happy life.

Go with the flow.

If you can't maintain it for a long time, it's useless.

Feelings are the most real.

The most self-reflective.

If one party is working hard.

The other side is not impressed.

No matter how much you maintain, you can't maintain it.

A lot of men and women meet like"x"In the same way, only when there is a resonance at that intersection, and after the past, that one is lost, and then there is a discussion about who is right and who is wrong, who has left whom, and who has hurt whom! In fact, no one is wrong, they all hurt themselves, and they made a mistake in choosing fate at the intersection without judging the situation, so the pain must bear the consequences, and the breakup night is bound to be a cruel appearance!

When we learn to find our other half with heart and affection, we will find it according to our thoughts, hobbies, fun, etc., and we must develop each other"y"Shaped, so that two people at the intersection of the complete fusion, help each other, common progress, perhaps this idea is a kind of perfection, but perfection is after all the pursuit of this society is a result, sure enough, this result seems too far away.