If friends lose their value in using each other, will they still be friends?

Updated on society 2024-06-28
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    To be willing to believe that the beauty of the moment is always happier than the person who doubts meaninglessly. Happiness is like an hourglass, always flowing away inadvertently, give yourself a reason to let go, maybe you don't actually understand him. If you care so much about your friend, then please don't doubt easily, if you don't care about him, then he has never entered your heart, and when is it your friend!

    Follow the voice in your heart, touch him a you may seem just to take advantage of your concern, forgive him for not coming to the station to see you off, maybe he is more free and easy than you, forgive him for not appreciating you, just not good enough, forget him he left you alone, he just wants to give you some space, if he wants to invite you to dinner, please don't refuse, because this is the first time you are willing to tolerate him, he will ask you to at least hope to talk to you openly and honestly, understand his nonsense, but he thinks you are so strange, Aren't you wrong? He just wants to dissolve the ice in his heart with a seemingly hypocritical smile, why leave no room for himself and others, how far can he accompany you! We will always be separated, all happiness and sadness will draw a rest, when QQ lights up a familiar avatar, but people are so unfamiliar, you will understand the regret of that moment, is it hard to forgive a person?

    Did you see his sadness when you first said we knew each other, and did you feel his embarrassment when he came to your place and you weren't very welcoming? Have you ever asked yourself when he is drifting away from you?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There are many such people.

    To distinguish whether it is intentional or inadvertent.

    So there are three kinds of people.

    1 A person who deliberately takes advantage of others.

    Shame on such people.

    2. Unintentionally taking advantage of others.

    He's using you without even knowing it).

    Such a person is fundamentally different from the person above.

    The following people can understand that the understanding of friendship is not deep enough.

    It can't be said that they are not good.

    3What about the third kind of people.

    Not the two types of people above.

    People are selfish, they are all looking out for their own interests, and no matter how good people are, they are selfish.

    It depends on what the situation is

    If you believe, there will be, and if you don't believe, there will be none

    The answer is yes and more.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    First of all, I don't know if the friends you are talking about are in life or in business!

    I have a few friends who were classmates in middle school, and although we are now separated from each other, although we rarely contact each other on weekdays, we are still as eloquent as children during the New Year's holidays! If this kind of friend is competing with me, I would rather choose a friend than give up my interests! It's a friend of life!

    In my current life, there are also a few friends who are in contact with each other very frequently, but we rarely communicate our hearts, although we often drink and have fun together, and flatter each other from time to time, but when we have entanglements of interests, I think that both parties must think about their own problems first, and that friend naturally has nothing to do! It's a friend of business!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If friendship is measured by the value of exploitation, then there are no friends in this world. The situation you said depends on the character of the other party.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think there is, especially at work

    If there is no interest, it may be better to get back.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Your premise is wrong, so there's no need for the following questions.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If the word friend is based on the word profit, it would be too insulting.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Well, people like you are destined to have no friends.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    1. In terms of mental distance, it is very close. They are unsuspecting of each other, and they are very casual with each other, and they don't need to be polite or disguise anything.

    2. Be loyal to each other. This friend is not for sale, he will be happy for his progress, worried about his troubles, and desperate.

    3. Cherish each other very much. When you leave, you will be very nostalgic, and you will miss it very much when you don't see it.

    4. Be willing to make gestures for the other party. Everyone has advantages and disadvantages, and good friends will tolerate each other's shortcomings and shortcomings; Understand the other party's difficulties; Be considerate of the other person's own shortcomings and never dwell on them. And sincerely wish each other happiness, happy events, and progress.

    5. There is a tacit understanding between each other. Good friends also have a certain distance, respect each other, and easily do not intervene in each other's secret space.

    6. Be able to provide the other party with a shoulder that can lie on and cry. When a friend is wronged or encounters psychological pressure, he or she can become his or her loyal listener, the object of confiding, and the source of comfort.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    True good friends help each other, and there is no such thing as taking advantage of each other!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Friends, it's very simple to say, it's difficult to be a real friend, in fact, a real friend is a lifelong confidant, only a real friend is called a friendship between friends. Not all friends are real confidants, and there are many kinds of friends, ordinary friends, ordinary friends, sincere friends, and the most confidant friends. A true friend is a confidant who can make himself worthy of cherishing and trusting, and also the most trusted person in his heart, a friend is a person who will know how to be grateful and reciprocate, be righteous and trustworthy, and have a conscience, and friends should be mutually giving, not taking, and can share weal and woe with you, and can take the initiative to stand up and speak for you when you need help the most in the most difficult time, give you comfort, do things for you, help you, and relieve your troubles.

    A friend is a mutual considerateness, trust, respect, care, support, help, understanding, tolerance, and mutual willingness to pay for each other, and a loyal guardian for each other. Friends: Not necessarily reasonable, but certainly knowing; Not necessarily inseparable, but certainly sympathetic; Not necessarily the icing on the cake, but it must be a blessing in the snow; It doesn't have to be in touch all the time, but it's always in mind.

    A friend is a friend who reaches out to you on the road of your life, especially when you encounter difficulties; When you are happy, it is your friends who laugh and cry with you; When you are most painful, it is your friend who holds your hand to give you strength, the weight of your friend is not in words, not in material, not in wine and money, but in the care, understanding, help, and support between friends、、、 if you are in a lonely journey, remember what your friend said, you will no longer indulge in it, if you can feel your friend's hand by your side in the painful days, the whole person is suddenly full of strength; If you dial your friend's ** when you are depressed, and when you hear that familiar voice, even if you don't say a word, you feel that the hesitation is no longer shrouded, then this is the weight of a friend. The way each of us treats our friends is how we give to our friends, how to always leave an oasis with our name written in the hearts of friends, how to make friends always feel that there is a light ahead, a signpost to guide them, and a heart to hope, express and cherish in the same way、、、 such friends are real bosom friends. A person will have a lot of friends, but the real confidant is very few, the confidant is able to meet in the heart, can understand each other, when you are troubled, even if he is troubled, will not tell you, confidant does not have mutual possessiveness, when you are happy, he will also tell you his happiness to share that joy with you, confidant only silently dedicate himself, confidant is each other's heart, confidant is each other's heart, life is enough to have a confidant.

    We have to cherish what we have gained, and if we lose it, we will not come back.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's normal for people to take advantage of each other. Why do people call them friends? Because he or she is in love with you, has a common language, and needs friends to confide in each other, eliminate emptiness, and drive away loneliness.

    Isn't that exploiting? In fact, it is just the perspective and purpose of the use of goodwill. Maybe you don't agree, but don't you use scheming when making friends?

    Favored by the deed). Anyone is useful, including ourselves, just to see if your intentions are good.

    Definition of a friend:

    Friends have the same smell as themselves, and share common hobbies and languages. Be able to help yourself when you are in trouble; Being able to confuse yourself is a good suggestion that should be on your own; Be able to give encouragement when you are negative.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Not really. There are pure friendships in the world, but there are very few of them. Generally speaking, friends are based on interests.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Friends are made for use, not for use.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Friends have a lot to say.

    Of course, there are many kinds.

    In the bottom of his heart, he hugged his shoulders, patted his chest, and touched his wine glasses, calling him a brother and a brother is also a kind of friend;

    Quietly paying attention, not saying anything, only silently handing over a handkerchief and a cup of tea when you are frustrated is also a kind of friend;

    Once you do something for the other party, you blindly tell the other party, I have to help you no matter what, and I give up something of myself for you, which is also a kind of friend;

    Loving the love for you, hurting your pain, but never making any promises, giving you a caring person you don't know is also a kind of friend;

    When you are down, you are happy in your heart, but you look like you care about you and sympathize with you, which is also a kind of friend;

    Maybe because of a difference in opinion on a certain thing and a certain point of view, the person who blushes in the face, but then looks at each other and smiles is also a kind of friend;

    Holding an attitude that it is not relevant to the other party's faults, and blindly attaching to the other party for fear of causing the other party's unhappiness is also a kind of friend;

    We rarely see each other, but it's also a kind of friend to show up when the other person is in the dark to light a lamp for you, and to stretch out a hand when you step into the mud.

    Anyone like this can be called a friend, which one is considered a true friend?

    Now in society, friends.

    And how it should be, everything is changing.

    But the most important thing is to pay back yourself, you are also a friend of others, if you are very good, there will be many people who will become friends with you.

    With the precipitation of time, in your circle of friends, you must find out what friends should be dated for a long time, what friends are just passers-by, and what friends are just nouns.

    As for the (no good people exist.)

    Can't you be friends with him? It's not entirely impossible.

    But first of all, your consciousness must be very clear, there is no innocent good in this world, and there is no innocent love and hate.

    Now it's up to you to see if this (the person who doesn't have any benefits) is genuinely friends with you or something else.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Friends don't have to be with you all the time.

    But when you are sad, he is sad, and when you are happy, he is happy.

    There is no value of interests between friends, there is no intrigue, only mutual concern.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No, the friendship is still very innocent, I firmly believe it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Friends are like you and your partners who help you in your life.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Your love. Can't give you the friendship you need.

    Everything has a value for its existence.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Friend: In the 80s, it was called mutual help, in the real world, it was called mutual use, and some people said that it was resource sharing.

    Friends who can communicate sincerely with each other without any interests are true friends!

    The most basic condition for becoming friends is: you have to be friends with each other to be friends!

    It is not that he or she will be the first to think of you when he or she is in trouble, but that you will be the first to think of you when you can help him/her.

    A friend who knows that you will do your best to help you when you are in trouble is true friendship.

    In today's real society, those who have financial interests are good friends.

    Ordinary friends only chat together occasionally, good friends want to take advantage of you, intimate friends are ambiguous relationships, and friends and friends will try their best to help you when you are in trouble (really know which is a friend or friends only if there are big changes in your economic environment (for the better or for the worse).

    When you encounter difficulties, the people who don't help you are also friends! That's just a friend of wine and meat.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    A true friend is one who comforts you when you are distressed, helps you when you are in trouble, and looks at you with a smile when you are happy. That's what friends are. The kind of people who take advantage of each other are just passers-by in your life.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There is only one reason: people are selfish.

    Am I going to tell you that my classmates in school were unconditionally trusting, but since they have been in society, they have become more selfish and greedy? Remember, in a word, reality is not a fairy tale, leave yourself a little scheming. Remember!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    No, no, no, I just haven't met a true friend.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Alas, how many good friends are there now, just a little profit will betray you, dear, be cautious when making friends, and don't tell some secrets in good friends.

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