Words hurt more than a knife, and words hurt more than a knife.

Yes, there are many times when physical damage is not as good as someone else's mental attack on you, and Coco's words can make a person make the wrong decision in a split second.

The phrase "words are like knives" here means that words hurt people as badly as knives hurt people. Verbal harm is a form of "soft violence".

There are two main aspects of verbal harm. First, bad language hurts people; One is excessive praise. The world has a consensus on the former, but the understanding of the latter has not yet fully formed.

Bad language includes sarcasm, insults, derogatories, etc. What kind of harm does bad language do to people? Take a look at the following story and you'll have an intuitive understanding:

A little girl has a bad temper. Her mother said to her, "Every time you lose your temper, you cut a knife in the carpet; If you don't get angry, find a way to fix it. "After a while, the carpet was in tatters.

The girl's mother said to her daughter, "Son, when you lose your temper with someone, your words are like knife marks. Forever left in the hearts of others! ”

This story tells the world that the consequences of hurting people are serious. For example, some parents say to their children, "You are so stupid!

You won't be able to do such a simple question! Look at Sangsang, you are all students in the same class, and you scored more than 90 points in the exam, why did you fail? And the face to cry!

The parents said that they were happy, but the children's hearts were hurt a lot! Therefore, some people say that bad words hurt sometimes more terrible than "hitting". Mild cases will cause children's behavior, psychological resistance, and rebellious psychology, and severe cases will lead to children's anxiety, depression, fear, autism and other psychological diseases.

Bad language can also have dire consequences for adults.

He once pointed out that we should be careful not to hurt other comrades with words, but we should also be able to bear when others hurt us with words. The requirements are high. If it is done, it will be conducive to the construction of a harmonious society.

The damage caused by excessive praise should not be underestimated. The so-called excessive praise is the praise of parents and teachers to children, or the praise of superiors to subordinates and colleagues, which is not in line with objective reality. If it is often praised excessively, it will make the person being praised blindly inflate himself, lose himself, and even become domineering and invincible.

And children who grow up in excessive praise, once they encounter difficulties and setbacks, they will show very fragility and vulnerability. So to say that excessive praise is actually to kill.

Practice has shown that appropriate criticism and praise are absolutely necessary, both for a child and for an adult. But "criticism" or "praise" must be grasped to a certain degree, otherwise it will go to the opposite.

Good words, three winters, warm and evil words, hurtful and cold in June, refer to the power of language.

Yes, sometimes a word from someone else can make us feel bad.

The knife mouth and the knife heart hurt the family, and the first three of them lost in Changji and finally lost both. The knife mouth is a kind of verbal violence. This kind of cold violence will gradually return the feelings of the family, and after their emotions are exhausted, they can only leave indifference, such a warm home, because of the knife mouth and gradually detached from the heart.

Everyone says that the knife mouth is tofu heart. But no one will spit hurtful words out of your knife mouth to think about your sensitive heart, because the damage caused by your words to others is irreversible. Words are only a matter of a few minutes or a few seconds, and after the words are spoken, there is no trace, but the wounds left behind can affect a person, and the damage left behind is unforgettable.

If the knife spits out of the mouth, there will be water spilled out, and when the water is difficult to collect, it is difficult for this feeling to be as passionate as before. In the end, the only thing to gain is regret and remorse.

The knife mouth not only hurts himself, but also hurts the family, affecting the harmony of a family, such as parents often say words that hurt the child, so that the child's mood is very uncomfortable, constantly hitting him, when he compromises with his parents is good, the parents will not see the good will be accepted, appropriate to the child under the steps, continue to use hurtful words, hurt the child's immature mind, so that the child's enthusiasm, creativity, enthusiasm, all in the cradle, the child will be slumped, depressed, indecisive, There is no self-confidence at all. Continue to use hurtful words to hurt the child's self-perceived heart, so that the child's enthusiasm, creativity and enthusiasm will all be stifled in the cradle, and the child will be depressed, depressed, indecisive, and have no self-confidence at all. Parents need to have good behavioural control, language management and emotional management skills.

The child is an independent individual, if the child is hurt because of the parents' knife mouth, which can break the child's heart, such a family is also a lose-lose.

At all times, you need to have an empathetic heart, a little more gratitude, and show your smile and kindness at any time, especially when you get along with your family, so as to create a harmonious family environment for your family and children. Therefore, we must learn to say some words of praise appropriately, speak hard and softly, speak slowly, control your emotions, and don't hurt your family members with a knife and mouth.

Violent language will make a person unable to raise his head, feel very hurt inside, do not like to communicate with others, slowly become more and more autistic, begin to block his heart, and even produce depression. Good words are warm in three winters, and bad words are hurtful and cold in June. Be mindful of your words.

The harm to people is very great, because many people will suffer certain frustrations in their hearts, and there will be a lot of problems, and the harm is also great.

The harm of language to people is really very great, there are many people who are hurt by words, and then they will be depressed, and some people are hurt by many people with words, and jump off the building to commit suicide.

If a person often says something unpleasant to others in his life, or pokes at the weakness of the other person. Then the damage to a person becomes especially great.

The knife of words hurts even more.

1. The person who will be liked by you in the future, how lucky, how just right, how much I envy, but I can't do anything, will he be a little similar to me.

2. The wine should be full, the words should be enough, the love is enough, and don't turn back when you leave. It's all bad to remember, what wine can solve, you must not waste tears.

3. It's okay if you're gone, my hanging heart finally has a place, otherwise, I'm always worried that you're leaving, afraid that you'll say goodbye and let me look all over the world.

4. There is a kind of happiness called bland, there is a kind of happiness called staying together, there is a kind of longing is the eternal care for you, no matter what kind of life you are in, you are always my favorite who cares about the most.

5. Some people dig their hearts into you, but you don't want it, because you don't love it; Some people dig out your heart, and you don't hurt because you love.

6. Some things are not as thick as possible, but just right. If we say deeply, we will say shallowly, and we will walk slowly on a long road.

7. How can you have love and refuse to get hurt at the same time, don't forget, Cupid.

It was an arrow that was shot, not a rose.

8. On the road of life, everyone will encounter difficulties and setbacks, it depends on whether you can overcome it, you are a hero, and you are a strong person in life.

9. You just look happy, those dark nights. Those days when I didn't dare to cry out my voice, the feeling of tears rolling in my eyes. Only you know.