Read Psychological Maintenance and Psychological Maintenance .

Emotional upbringing. Emotional upbringing.

How can parents have the psychological capital to discipline their children?

1.Respond in a timely manner so that children develop attachment to their parents.

After the child is born, any parental contact is to inject him with psychological nutrition, and these nutrients go directly to the brain through his senses of sight, hearing, smell, taste and touch, and become an important part of psychological growth.

2.Rich emotional companionship allows children to trust the outside world.

Establish attachment relationships with parents when children are young. Next, parents should use rich emotional companionship to give their children a sense of security. In fact, a lot of psychological distress in adulthood stems from the lack of people who believe in happiness in the early days, and people who are unhappy in their childhood use their childhood to live in childhood.

Therefore, it is necessary to communicate more with children and achieve love.

Be loving.

The missing companionship can never be remedied. If you don't have enough money, you should spend less, and the most important thing is to be together as a family.

If you don't have enough money, you should spend less, and the most important thing is to be together as a family.

Father's love is not missing, so that the child's life has a complete beginning, often with the father of the child more confident, the mother gave a rich and delicate emotional training, the father should work the child's rational thinking, exploration spirit and hands-on ability.

Yu Xiaohong The 22nd issue of the Central Plains Focus Team Network continues to share excerpts from the 756th day: Family is the starting point of life! Human beings, in fact, are the products of "nurturing and education."

Family upbringing before school education, especially the quality of psychological upbringing, can affect and even determine a person's life. People who don't have time to think are easy to get lost in life, small wisdom is for things and has short-sightedness, while great wisdom is for life. If you don't just focus on what is in front of you, but weigh your whole life, then this way of thinking is very good.

People are often faced with the question of how to weigh the pros and cons in their lives, which requires a little time to think and be able to look beyond the limitations of the moment.

Insight: When I read this passage, I remembered the word "upbringing". Cultivation means education and cultivation, which is manifested in the state of moral cultivation in the way of behavior.

It is the result of social influence, family education, school education, and personal cultivation, especially the moral standard of behavior cultivated in the family from an early age, which belongs to the manifestation of other laws and education. Politeness refers to the expression of modesty and respect in speech and action; Cultivation generally refers to the cultivation of culture and morality. When people evaluate a child's performance, they often say how well he is raised, which actually shows the importance of the family to the child's education and growth.

Family is the starting point of life, parents are the first teacher of the child, the enlightenment and education of the family will form a child's upbringing, only parents with great wisdom and wisdom can raise children with great wisdom and wisdom. As a parent, in order to educate your children, you must first grow yourself, which must be done.

I am grateful: enjoy the hustle and bustle of life, coming and going, rare.

It took me a week to finish reading Teacher Li Meijin's "Psychological Parenting", and I felt very deeply, this is a book worthy of every parent to read seriously. In the past, I have also listened to Ms. Li Meijin's education** and audio, and I have also learned some knowledge about education. But after reading this book, people will have a more comprehensive understanding of the upbringing, upbringing, and character formation of children, which are closely related to the family and parents.

The book is divided into 7 chapters, the author begins with a case to describe the family is the starting point of life and the importance of family to a person's growth, and then uses two chapters to analyze the formation of people's psychological behavior, the development of psychological behavior and the relationship between early family parenting and family parenting style; Then, two chapters are used to tell readers that psychological education focuses on the education of the heart, and the education of the heart focuses on the influence of language, emotion, cognitive style and parents' behavior and habits on children. The last two chapters explain that in the process of parenting, psychological upbringing determines a person's character, and a person's character determines his fate. This paper uses criminal cases in recent years to analyze the causes of juvenile delinquency and the family background of the behavior, and uses logical reasoning to tell us what the warning signs on the road ......of parenting and the correct parenting should look like

As the saying goes, "ten years of trees, a hundred years of people", after reading the book "Psychological Maintenance", I deeply realized this sentence, an excellent child is not formed in a day or two, but the parents have been operating with their hearts for a long time, and constantly improving and changing themselves to inspire and guide the gradual realization. Nowadays, the general educational anxiety in society cares about children's academic performance and pays attention to the cultivation of various abilities and specialties, but ignores the cultivation of children's emotions and characters. A person's ability to perceive the joys and sorrows of the world and the feelings he brings to others and society will determine whether he can give back to his family and society.

In fact, when parents are first introduced, everyone hopes that their children can live happily in society in the future, be optimistic when they encounter setbacks, and face difficulties head-on...... when they encounter difficultiesHowever, as their children enter primary and junior high school, more parents are anxious about their children's scores and rankings. Anxiety is an emotion produced by a person's unclear perception of things, as parents will understand that child parenting will not stop at which exam, which mistake, but a path of exploration that accompanies their lifelong growth.

As parents, we are not perfect human beings ourselves. From the book, we can see the traces of our parents' upbringing of us in our early years, which has formed the advantages and disadvantages of the present. For these, we should refer to the ants should accept them calmly, learn from them and continue to grow in order to improve themselves.

It is also in this kind of growth that you constantly revise your own parenting path in order to guide your child to become what you want. It has been said that "nobles are raised for more than three generations." "Therefore, raising people is a kind of practice in life.

There is a long way to go on the road of nurturing!

Recently, I have been thinking about parenting, and I have ...... about how to be a good mother, how to raise children correctly, and how to raise a child who is physically and mentally healthyI don't have a deep and clear understanding of other issues, although I often listen to the people around me to share, I can get some fragmented, each with its own merits of parenting experience. But it still doesn't make me understand how to solve these problems. A classic quote comes to mind:

Changing myself is the key to solving everything. The best way to change is to learn, to learn what you don't know, to understand it. So I bought the parenting book "Li Meijin" series of parenting books.

1.Family is the starting point of life, and education and companionship in the early years of a child is very crucial, so that children can feel love and feel the warmth of home.

Parents are a mirror of their children, and if you want to raise a good child, you must first be a good role model. Establish the right habits of behavior.

2.Psychological nurturing focuses on nurturing the heart, and this is the core. It also made me finally understand why I feel that parenting is not easy, and why I can't find a way to raise children.

It is because every child is different, it needs to be different from person to person, it needs to be carefully observed, it needs to be discovered with wisdom, and different methods are used to observe the code to do the forest, and the different stages of the socks are used in different ways. Be a "wise" mother. Follow the child's discovery rules, growth trajectory, do a good job in early character education, give emotional satisfaction, establish rules and boundaries, and establish correct behavior habits.

To be a wise mother, in addition to responsibility and learning, we must also maintain a growth mindset, an open mind to accept children, and accompany children to grow.