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The person you love the most is 30 days, but if you want to, you can put the moon cakes, because I am almost the Mid-Autumn Festival.

Of course you can, because the Mid-Autumn Festival is coming soon, although your favorite person has passed away, but it is just right to worship him and put moon cakes, you don't have to be too sad, the living people will still have a long way to go, I believe that after a long time, time will slowly forget everything,

Yes, it's okay to put anything in front of the person you love the most, and there's nothing too particular about this.

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Yes, there are no strict requirements for what must be used! Just a kind of mind, hope.

Yes, the deceased can't eat anything to worship, but it just carries the thoughts of the living.

The person I love the most has passed away It's been more than 30 days Go to the grave to worship Is it okay to put the mooncake Yes You can put anything But what you think about him.

Folk CultureFolk CultureMid-Autumn Festival is a traditional festival in China. On the day of the Mid-Autumn Festival, we are all used to eating moon cakes. However, unlike the Japanese and Chinese who eat mooncakes during the Mid-Autumn Festival, the Japanese eat emi dumplings called "Tsukimi dumplings" when they admire the moon.

Since this period coincides with the harvest season for various crops, various celebrations are held in Japanese people to express gratitude for nature's bounty. Although Japan abolished the lunar calendar after the Meiji Restoration and switched to the solar calendar, the custom of viewing the moon during the Mid-Autumn Festival is still preserved throughout Japan, and some temples and shrines hold special moon-viewing parties during the Mid-Autumn Festival. And Vietnamese people like to "moon cake war" and "toy war" between merchants as the Mid-Autumn Festival approaches the 15th day of the eighth month of the lunar calendar, which makes the festive atmosphere in Vietnam particularly strong.

Unlike the Mid-Autumn Festival in China, the Mid-Autumn Festival in Vietnam is dominated by children. The market has a variety of mooncakes, lanterns, colorful children's toys and other festive foods and toys, and children's faces are overflowing with longing for the festival. During the Mid-Autumn Festival, the big and small streets of the capital Hanoi are draped in red and green, and the red lanterns with the words "moon cakes" are hung in a prominent position in front of the store, and various brands of moon cakes are filled with shelves.

Every year during the Mid-Autumn Festival, lantern festivals are held all over Vietnam, and the design of the lanterns is judged and the winners are rewarded. In addition, some parts of Vietnam also organize lion dances during festivals, often in the eighth lunar month.

Ten. 4. 15 nights. During the festival, the locals sit on the balcony or in the yard with their families, or go out into the wild with their families, putting on mooncakes, fruits and other snacks to enjoy the moon and taste delicious mooncakes. The little ones there carry lanterns and laugh in groups.

With the gradual improvement of the living standards of the Vietnamese people in recent years, the Mid-Autumn Festival customs have also quietly changed. Many young people gather at home, sing and dance, or go out to enjoy the moon in groups during the festival to enhance the understanding and friendship between their peers. Therefore, in addition to the traditional family reunion, the Mid-Autumn Festival in Vietnam is adding new connotations and is gradually favored by young people.

1. Moon viewing.

In the Mid-Autumn Festival, China has had the custom of admiring the moon since ancient times. In the Tang Dynasty, the Mid-Autumn Festival was quite popular for moon viewing and playing with the moon. In the Song Dynasty, the Mid-Autumn Festival is more prosperous, every day, all the shops and restaurants in the capital have to re-decorate the façade, the archway is tied with silk and hung colors, some rich families enjoy the moon on their own pavilions, and put on food or arrange family banquets, reunite their children, and enjoy the moon together.

After the Ming and Qing dynasties, the custom of admiring the moon in the Mid-Autumn Festival is still the same, and many places have formed special customs such as burning bucket incense, tree Mid-Autumn Festival, lighting tower lamps, putting sky lanterns, walking the moon, and dancing the fire dragon.

2. Eat moon cakes.

China's urban and rural people have the custom of eating moon cakes during the Mid-Autumn Festival, moon cakes were originally made at home, and the practice of moon cakes was recorded in the "Sui Garden Food List" by Yuan Mei of the Qing Dynasty. In modern times, there is a workshop specializing in the production of moon cakes, the production of moon cakes is more and more refined, the filling is exquisite, the appearance is beautiful, and there are various exquisite patterns printed on the outside of the moon cakes, such as "Chang'e running to the moon", "Milky Way Night Moon", "Three Pools Printing the Moon" and so on.

3. Moon worship. There is a custom of worshipping the moon in the Mid-Autumn Festival in Chaoshan, Guangdong, mainly for women and children, and there is a proverb that "men do not have a full moon, and women do not sacrifice to the stove". In the evening, when the moon rises, the women set up a table in the courtyard and on the balcony to pray in the air. Silver candles burned, cigarettes filled the table, and the table was filled with fruits and cakes as offerings.

4. Eat osmanthus duck and drink cinnamon syrup.

Osmanthus duck "should be in the market when the osmanthus is fragrant, fat but not greasy, delicious and delicious. After drinking, you must eat a small sugar taro and pour cinnamon syrup, which is beautiful. "Cinnamon syrup", named after Qu Yuan's "Chu Ci Shao Si Ming" "Aiding the North and Drinking Cinnamon Syrup".

Cinnamon syrup, a sugar osmanthus, picked around the Mid-Autumn Festival, pickled with sugar and sour plum. Jiangnan women are skillful and turn the poems into delicacies on the table. Nanjing people enjoy the moon together and call it "celebrating reunion", group sitting and drinking is called "full moon", and going out to the market is called "walking the moon".

5. Hit the Mid-Autumn Festival cannon.

During the Mid-Autumn Festival in Wuyuan, Anhui Province, children piled a hollow pagoda with bricks and tiles. The tower is hung with ornaments such as tent curtains and plaques, and a table is placed in front of the tower, and various utensils for worshiping the "tower god" are displayed. At night, the interior and exterior are lit with candles.

Jixi Mid-Autumn Festival children play Mid-Autumn Festival cannons. The Mid-Autumn Festival cannon is made of straw tied into a braid, soaked and then picked up and hit on the stone, so that it makes a loud noise and has the custom of swimming fire dragon. The fire dragon is a dragon made of weighing grass, and there is an incense pillar on its body.

When the fire dragon is swimming, there is a gong and drum team to accompany them, and after swimming through the villages, they are sent to the river.

The Mid-Autumn Festival has the following customs:

Eating moon cakes: Eating moon cakes during the Mid-Autumn Festival is an unchanging custom, and moon cakes are generally bought a few days before the Mid-Autumn Festival. There are many types of moon cakes, such as Cantonese moon cakes and snow skin moon cakes.

Moon appreciation: The Mid-Autumn Festival moon viewing is also one of the folk customs, the moon of the Mid-Autumn Festival is big and round, move a stool to enjoy the moon outside, it can be said that it is very poetic.

Reunion: During the Mid-Autumn Festival, the moon is big and round, and people also want to be reunited. People who work outside the home or work part-time will go home for reunion and get together.

Viewing lanterns: Viewing lanterns during the Mid-Autumn Festival is also one of the folk customs, and you should write your wishes on the lanterns. In some places, there are also tile lamps.

Mid-Autumn Festival customs:

1. Moon viewing. China has had the custom of admiring the moon since ancient times, and the "Book of Rites" recorded the "autumn twilight and sunset moon", that is, worshipping the moon god. In the Zhou Dynasty, every Mid-Autumn Festival night was held to welcome the cold and sacrifice the moon. Set up a large incense table, put on moon cakes, watermelons, apples, plums, grapes and other seasonal fruits, among which moon cakes and watermelons are absolutely indispensable.

2. Eat moon cakes.

As the saying goes: "August 15 is full, and the Mid-Autumn Festival moon cakes are fragrant and sweet." Moon cakes were originally used to worship the moon god, and the word "moon cake" was first seen in the Southern Song Dynasty Wu Zimu's "Dream Lianglu", at that time, it was just a cake-shaped food like a rhombic cake.

Later, people gradually combined the Mid-Autumn Festival moon viewing with the tasting of moon cakes, which symbolized family reunion.

3. Worship the moon. Under the moon, the statue of the moon god is placed in the direction of the moon, the red candle is burned, the whole family worships the moon in turn, and then the housewife cuts the reunion moon cake. The person who cuts it calculates in advance how many people are in the whole family, and those who are at home and those who are in other places must be counted together, and they cannot cut more or less, and the size should be the same.

Admire the moon, eat moon cakes, and eat reunion dinners. According to historians, the custom of moon viewing during the Mid-Autumn Festival was originally arose by the literati of the ancient court, and then spread to the people. As early as in the Wei and Jin Yuefu "Midnight Forty Songs", there is a song "Autumn and Moon" that describes:

Look up at the bright moon and send a thousand miles of light".

The Mid-Autumn Festival, also known as the Moon Festival, the Autumn Festival, the Mid-Autumn Festival, the August Festival, the August Festival, the Moon Chasing Festival, the Moon Festival, the Moon Worship Festival, the Daughter's Festival or the Reunion Festival, is a traditional cultural festival popular in many ethnic groups and countries in the Chinese character cultural circle, which is on the 15th day of the eighth month of the lunar calendar; Because it coincides with the middle of the third autumn, hence the name, and some places set the Mid-Autumn Festival on August 16.

The Mid-Autumn Festival began in the early years of the Tang Dynasty and prevailed in the Song Dynasty, and by the time of the Ming and Qing dynasties, it had become one of the traditional Chinese festivals on a par with the Spring Festival. Influenced by Chinese culture, the Mid-Autumn Festival is also a traditional festival in some countries in East and Southeast Asia, especially the local Chinese and overseas Chinese. Since 2008, the Mid-Autumn Festival has been listed as a national holiday.

On May 20, 2006, it was included in the first batch of national intangible cultural heritage lists.

The Mid-Autumn Festival has the customs and habits of eating moon cakes, worshipping the moon, admiring the moon, and worshipping the moon.

1. Eat moon cakes.

According to the Luozhong Chronicles, Tang Xizong ate moon cakes during the Mid-Autumn Festival and felt that the taste was extremely beautiful, so he ordered the imperial dining room to wrap moon cakes in red silk and reward them to the new scholars. This is probably the earliest record of mooncakes that we can see. In the Song Dynasty, moon cakes were known as "lotus leaf", "golden flower", "hibiscus" and other elegant names, and their production methods were more exquisite.

2. Moon viewing. Moon Appreciation**In the sacrificial moon, the solemn sacrifice becomes a relaxed pleasure. The folk Mid-Autumn Festival moon viewing activities began in the Wei and Jin dynasties, but they did not become a custom. In the Tang Dynasty, the Mid-Autumn Festival was quite popular for admiring the moon and playing with the moon, and many poets had verses about the moon in their famous poems.

In the Song Dynasty, the Mid-Autumn Festival was formed centered on moon viewing activities, and it was officially designated as the Mid-Autumn Festival.

3. Worship the moon. In ancient times, there was the custom of "autumn twilight and sunset". The setting moon is to worship the moon god. Set up a large incense case, put on the moon cakes, watermelons, apples, red dates, plums, grapes and other offerings, of which moon cakes and watermelons are absolutely indispensable, and watermelons should be cut into lotus shapes.

The customs and habits of the Mid-Autumn Festival are:

One is to play with lanterns. During the Mid-Autumn Festival, there are many game activities.

The second is the fire dragon dance. It is the most traditional custom of the Mid-Autumn Festival in Hong Kong. Starting from the 14th night of the eighth lunar month every year, a grand fire dragon dance is held in the Tai Hang area of Causeway Bay for three consecutive nights.

This fire dragon is more than 70 meters long, and the dragon body is tied with pearl grass into 32 sections, which is filled with longevity incense. On the night of the event, in the streets and alleys of this district, the winding and undulating fire dragons danced happily under the lights and dragon drums, which was very lively.

The third is to worship the moon. According to legend, the ugly girl of the ancient Qi country had no salt, and when she was a child, she worshiped the moon devoutly, and when she grew up, she entered the palace with superior morality, but she was not pampered. On August 15 of a certain year, the Son of Heaven saw her in the moonlight, thought she was beautiful and outstanding, and later made her the queen, and the Mid-Autumn Festival moon worship came from this.

The girl worships the moon, mainly to pray that she is as beautiful as Chang'e and as pure as the moon (**good).

The fourth is to admire the moon and eat moon cakes. The custom of moon viewing ** in the moon sacrifice, the serious sacrifice has become a relaxed entertainment, forming a Mid-Autumn Festival folk festival centered on the moon viewing activities, and many poets have verses of the moon in their famous articles. Moon cakes, which were originally just a sacrificial food, later became a small snack when people admired the moon.

It is not that important throughout the Mid-Autumn Festival.

There are also river lanterns and so on. Mid-Autumn Festival river lanterns are a very interesting activity for girls and children.

The Mid-Autumn Festival symbolizes reunion, and the main customs are:

1: Eat moon cakes, every Mid-Autumn Festival, moon cakes are indispensable, it symbolizes reunion, means fulfillment, and is our sustenance for family affection. On the occasion of the Mid-Autumn Festival, relatives and friends give each other mooncakes, which is a manifestation of family affection and a connection of social relations.

On the night of the festival, the family will gather around the incense table to cut mooncakes to eat, and everyone will eat them, which represents that they are part of the family and symbolizes reunion.

2.Set up incense case, mid-autumn is also a festival to worship the moon, people will set up incense case, light incense, put fruits, moon cakes, etc., incense case placed in the courtyard, expressing the worship of the moon, but also express people's worship of God.

3.Moon-watching, this day the moon is very beautiful, initiated by the ancient literati, their poems and works to promote this activity gradually became a custom, this day the family together to enjoy the moon that is called perfection, a person wandering outside to admire the moon, will be extremely lonely. In any case, on this day, we can't help but look at the moon a few times.

Autumn Festival August 15 is the Mid-Autumn Festival, commonly known as the Reunion Festival.

There is a saying about the origin of eating moon cakes during the Mid-Autumn Festival: at the end of the Yuan Dynasty, in order to consolidate their rule, the Mongolian aristocratic rulers did not allow the people to use iron knives, and stipulated that ten families shared a kitchen knife. Gaoyou Zhang Shicheng secretly connected and sandwiched a small note of righteousness in the moon cakes, and on the night of the Mid-Autumn Festival, every family broke the moon cakes, saw the leaflets, and seized kitchen knives one after another, and held an uprising against the rulers of the Yuan Dynasty.

Since then, people have to eat moon cakes every Mid-Autumn Festival to commemorate this festival of struggle of the people.

During the Mid-Autumn Festival, people in Fuzhou prepare offerings and burn paper clothes to worship their ancestors. Set up a family banquet at night, gather the whole family, drink and admire the moon. In this festival, the folk also have the custom of respecting the old and loving the young, and the younger generation gives a large moon cake (that is, a gift cake) to the elders, and the elders give small moon cakes to the younger generations, expressing good wishes to each other in the festival.

The customs of the Mid-Autumn Festival, according to the records of "Fujian Tongzhi Customs", are slightly different in various parts of Fujian. In the city of Fuzhou, "the Mid-Autumn Festival scholars and women climb the Wushi Mountain to enter the incense, and the Shenguang Tower lamp is lit at night, and it is the night women who travel arm in arm, which is called 'walking a hundred diseases'"; Yongtai County "Mid-Autumn Festival Moon, Gentleman Wishes Kuixing"; Minqing County "Mid-Autumn Festival moon cakes, set up wine to enjoy the moon, eat chestnuts and taro, the boy prepares kueh, and uses tiles to build a tower to worship each other"; "Changle County Chronicle" states that "the Mid-Autumn Festival is omitted, and each family is just drinking." ”

The Mid-Autumn Festival "swings the tower" is a great fun of the festival. The peasants pick up tiles, build tiles, light them with firewood at night, shine in all directions, admire the moon with poems, and entertain each other. People in the city buy clay sculptures or ceramic figures, including historical figures such as "Journey to the West", "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", and "Water Margin", and there are candlesticks, vases, incense burners, etc.

Some of the rich and noble families set up a "pendulum tower" in the hall, less than three layers of tables, more than ten layers of tables, the highest floor is placed with a mud tower or an iron tower, the lower floor displays a pair of seedling pots, green onions spit green, in order to show a good harvest. The middle floors are lined with celebrities and opera figures, and the entire courtyard is brilliantly lit with candles, adding to the festive atmosphere.