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A promise. At the end of Qin, there was a man named Ji Bu, who had always been a man of his word and a very high reputation, and many people had established a strong friendship with him. There was even a proverb circulating at that time:
If you have ** 100 catties, it is better to get Ji Bu Yinuo. (This is the origin of the idiom "a promise of a thousand catties") Later, he offended Liu Bang, the ancestor of the Han Dynasty, and was arrested with a reward. As a result, his old friends not only did not get deceived by the heavy money, but also risked the destruction of the Nine Clans to protect him and save him from disaster.
If a person is honest and trustworthy, he will naturally receive a lot of help and gain everyone's respect and friendship. On the other hand, if you are greedy for temporary comfort or a small advantage, and lose your trust with your friends, you will ostensibly get "benefits". But for the sake of this benefit, he ruined his reputation, which is far more important than materialism.
Therefore, losing faith in a friend is tantamount to losing a watermelon and picking up sesame seeds, and the gains outweigh the losses.
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Chengmen Lixue is not, you can participate in the killing of pigs.
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A promise of a thousand golden Ji Bu.
The idiom "a promise of a thousand gold" comes from "Historical Records", a story called Ji Bu. When Ji Bu was fighting between Chu and Han, his basic position was on Xiang Yu's side, and he helped and secretly helped Xiang Yu many times, so that Xiang Yu won the victory and trapped Liu Bang in a difficult situation. Therefore, after Liu Bang finally seized the world and defeated Xiang Cun, the overlord of Chu, Liu Bang, the king of Han, wanted to kill Ji Bu.
Under Xiahou Ying's strong persuasion, Liu Bang understood that he should not be narrow-minded, and he should do his best for the Han Dynasty with Ji Bu's talents, so he was retained.
Ji Bu has a fellow villager named Cao Qiusheng, who can speak well but loves to tie up with the powerful upper class**, so Ji Bu looks down on Cao someone. However, once Cao Qiusheng came to visit Ji Bu and said: "I heard that things about you are circulating everywhere in Chudi, and everyone says, 'It's better to get ** thousand taels, it's better to get Ji Bu Yinuo', you promise to be so powerful, I want to publicize it to the whole book of Guoguang!."
Ji Bu saw that Cao was sincerely visiting him, so he treated him politely, treated him as a guest, and stayed for food and accommodation. Later generations compressed it into "a promise of a thousand gold" according to "get ** thousand taels, it is better to get Ji Bu Yinuo", and this idiom has spread since it was trapped.
"A promise of a thousand gold" reflects the high style of a wise man and a gentleman, and people can win credit only if they have no lies, which shows the importance of promises.
In daily life, as small as setting a meeting and talking date, to signing a contract agreement, as long as there is a "promise", you should be sure to talk and count, and you should not change, prevaricate, interpret indiscriminately, or change concepts to violate the agreement or tear up the agreement. In this way, it can win the trust of others, and "Yinuo" will be as noble as "a daughter", so as to be respected and trusted by friends and even the world.
Shang Yingli wood won the letter.
The regulations of the law had been completed and had not yet been promulgated, and Shang Ying, fearing that the people would not believe in him, erected a three-zhang high log at the south gate of the national capital bazaar, and recruited people who could move it to the north gate to give him ten gold. The people thought it was strange, and none of them dared to move, and Shang Ying said: "The one who can move will give him fifty gold."
A man moved the wood, and Shang Ying gave him fifty gold. Shang Ying used this to show that he did not deceive the people, and finally issued the decree.
Maybe he's more childish, although he broke up with you 6 times, but he hasn't left you in the end. But I didn't go to someone else during the breakup You can try to talk to her more formally, because your girlfriend is using emotional chips to save it every time, it is estimated that you are about to be disgusted, if you want to keep it, you can call her such behavior willful, you yourself should also be properly moved, don't blindly give in, girls always hope that there is a man who is very good to him to take care of him, he can't fight back, he doesn't scold back, it is estimated that she is too insecure, you should treat her gently, You can also try to find out the reason for every quarrel Is she jealous, or unreasonable, or her own fault, you have to reflect on it, there is no right or wrong in the emotional world, you want to find a girlfriend who doesn't break up, in other words, you should find someone who can spend your life with you and understand each other, rather than a girl who is trustworthy, and the relationship is maintained by the two of them, not unilaterally.
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