Are the children raised by loving families all excellent? Why?

Updated on parenting 2024-06-02
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    No. Loving families teach children to feel secure, and they always have family members standing behind them, so it is easier for them to be at ease with what comes their way and do not need to struggle to fill their inner turmoil. The loveless family taught them to be cruel and uneasy, they had no backing, no support, everything was on their own, so they had to keep fighting to fill the uneasiness in their hearts.

    And most of the excellence is forced out. ‍‍

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    This is not necessarily, this love also depends on how you love, some families are too tolerant and indulgent to children, and some are too harsh and harsh, but in their opinion, this is a manifestation of love for children, which will imperceptibly affect the child's "three views", and the three views will shape the child's character, but the child's character is related to many factors such as the environment itself. Excellence is related to many factors, not just knowing how to love. ‍‍

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The family atmosphere is very loving and harmonious, which is one of the excellent conditions for children, and the parents' sense of value is healthy, friendly, reasonable, and so on. Love is the main theme of the family, reflected in the father loves mother, mother appreciates and respects father, if you live with the old man for a long time, it must be that both father and mother are filial, the old man does not have much to do, there will not be too many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law contradictions. ‍‍

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The children cultivated by a loving family are certainly better than those cultivated by a family without love, because the parents are friendly, the children will also have love, the parents are gentle and considerate, and the children will also follow the knowledge.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Not necessarily, love in the family, love, love, love, don't forget to dot! Let's talk about the family atmosphere, which I think many women in the current death marriage should pay attention to - too many women, the so-called want to give the child a complete home, and strive to maintain it in the death marriage, feel that the broken family is harmful to the child's psychological growth, but as everyone knows, it is not the integrity of the family that really hurts the child, but the family atmosphere you mentioned. So for this kind of thing, I always say, children who grow up in single-parent families are not necessarily worse than those in intact families. ‍‍

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can observe a little about the people around you, whether it is friends of the same age, or children, if they are relatively loving and easy to get along with, then most of the time their parents will be easy to get along with, there must be a father and a son, this sentence is good or bad, it is very reasonable, otherwise it will not be passed down through the ages, in fact, most of the ancient precepts can be handed down contain a deep philosophy, are thousands of years of experience accumulated by the ancients. There is a positive correlation between loving families raising loving children. ‍‍

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think so, because the atmosphere of the family has a great relationship with the parental upbringing of the family, and the children of loving families know how to pay for love and be grateful from an early age. So when he grows up, these will affect the bits and pieces of his life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In my opinion, no, with love, children do not experience setbacks, and they are not as good as they are, but children who have experienced setbacks since childhood will be more adapted to the rules of survival when they enter society.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Not necessarily, loving families also produce mediocre people. And there are good and kind people in bad families. It's all something that can be cultivated the day after tomorrow.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Not necessarily, because this is not necessarily related to excellence, it can only show that the child's emotions are not lacking.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think so. For family education, parents can create a loving atmosphere in the family, and educating their children will get twice the result with half the effort.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This thing is not absolute. The child's acquired growth is also very important.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's not absolute, there's a kind of love called doting, it's not so absolute.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When it comes to educating children, one of the most important educations is family education. Family education is very important to children, and the quality of family education can affect the future growth trajectory and development direction of children to a certain extent. Therefore, every family should pay attention to the cultivation of children from an early age, learn more about children's education, and reflect more, so that children can receive a good education and grow up healthily from an early age.

    So, what kind of family can raise an excellent child?

    Harmonious, united family. Family atmosphere also plays a non-negligible role in children's growth. If a family is harmonious and united in the process of children's growth, then the child will grow up in a stable family life from an early age, can be cared for by his family, has a sufficient sense of security in his heart, and can be stronger in society when he grows up and make his own big career.

    At the same time, the unity of the family allows children to subconsciously know that unity is strength, and in the future, they will also pay attention to the unity with others and build good interpersonal relationships in their studies or out of society.

    A patient and hard-working family. We know that although a well-off family can bring a lot of resources to children, so that children can learn a lot more than others when they start. But it doesn't mean that a family that is not wealthy can't raise excellent children.

    Whether or not you can raise excellent children depends on whether the family is positive. Because the enthusiasm of parents will also affect the child's mobility. After all, a very lazy father will definitely affect a child.

    At the same time, patience is also very important, a child is successful, but without patience, he is not a good child at all. Therefore, parents should try to be patient in everything from an early age, only in this way can they cultivate their children's good habits and make them become patient.

    In short, the family still has a great influence on children, although the factors of influence are endless for a while, but I hope that every family will pay attention to it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, it should be a family that is very loving and has the right education method to educate an excellent child.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It must be a particularly happy family that can raise an excellent child, and the child will feel special happiness in such a family, and will be very happy. That's why we can grow well.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The family atmosphere is very harmonious, there will be no quarrels, and you can also think about problems from the other party's point of view, so that children can become very good.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I believe that a family with a harmonious family and a good family style can raise excellent children, because such a family can make children grow up healthy and happy. Parents really want their children to be the dragon and phoenix among people, and they also want their children to have a better future. As a result, they may devote more time to educating these children and also want their children to receive a better education.

    But not all families succeed in raising better children, because it is a difficult task and requires skill. So what kind of family can raise such a child? I think there are three conditions that should be met:

    First, the family is happy.

    I believe that only when the family is happier and happier can we raise truly excellent children. Because when children are able to enjoy the pampering of their parents and are in a happy atmosphere, children are able to develop their hobbies and also be able to do what they want to do. They can become smarter and more independent, and that's what makes a good kid.

    2. Parents who can lead by example.

    Parents should set an example if they want their children to be better, and they should also be their children's first teachers. Because children will not only learn the behavior of their parents, but they will also be influenced by their parents. When parents are able to lead by example and excel, children are able to become more self-disciplined and well-rounded.

    Three late generations, with excellent family style.

    Family style is not only an important part of the family, but it also greatly affects the family members because it is an invisible force. When the learning atmosphere in the family is stronger and the children can be exposed to it, the children will be able to work harder and take the initiative to learn the knowledge they are interested in. This not only shows respect for the child, but also gives the child more choices, which can promote the child's development in a better direction.

    That's it for my fight.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First of all, filial piety must be clever, the family must be harmonious, and the family and everything will be prosperous. Secondly, parents must respect their children, and finally the family must give their children a good education and establish correct values for their children.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think it should be a strict family that can raise excellent children, and a family that likes to read can also raise excellent children.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think that a warm, loving and harmonious family can cultivate an excellent squire child, first of all, parents should set an example for prosperity, parents are the first teacher of children.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I've never thought about such a question before, and I've always thought of myself as a child in my heart. But after the birth of the child, I, a man with a big grin, began to pay attention to the knowledge of parenting. Subconsciously, I also began to pay attention to my words and deeds, for fear that my behavior would have a bad impact on my children.

    I was born in a small rural village in Henan, and my grandfather died early, so early that my mother never met my grandfather. My grandmother was also a very ordinary old lady from the countryside, and she was still a very unshrewd old lady. My father was able to get married in his life, and the main reason for marrying my mother may be that my grandmother is also very poor, and my father is more practical and able to work.

    After my parents got married, they had no time to estimate my growth and education. Being able to take care of the crops in the field as soon as possible, doing odd jobs when the farm is not working, and working as a small worker in the countryside to build houses for other families and earn some money is the last important thing. Therefore, my preschool years were basically spent at the homes of 2 uncles and 3 aunts.

    It wasn't until I was 7 years old that I started to attend the Yuhong class, and I really started to get along with my parents day and night. At that time, my father was so tired from working in a nearby paper mill every day that I didn't have any strength to go home, and my mother was not only responsible for three meals a day and housework, but also had to take care of more than four acres of farmland. Whenever I said that the teacher had to pay money, my mother would tell me that I would be a good freshman, that our family conditions were not good, and it was not easy for my father to earn money, so I must study hard at school and not compare myself with others.

    Whenever there is a little meat or delicious food at home, my mother always says that when my father comes back to eat together, my father is so tired from working. Whenever my mother had her birthday, my mother would visit my grandmother and tell me to know how to be filial and remember my parents on my birthday. It was this little by little earnest teachings that made me realize my mother's love for my father and my mother's love for my parents, which deeply affected me.

    Now that I have grown up and have children of my own, I can appreciate the hard work of being a parent and think that I can give my best things to my children. That's why I started to pay attention to my behavior and learn the latest parenting knowledge, but I have always known that love is the best education, so that children can feel love, so that the seeds of kindness can be planted in his heart.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    What kind of family can raise very good children? Most parents are very curious about this question. Because for parents, they want their children to become excellent, and they also hope that their children can be satisfied with themselves, so I will talk to you about this issue carefully.

    But many people will feel that they attach great importance to their children when they see this sentence, otherwise they will not ask this question, but the importance of children is to respect children, not to blindly persecute children. Valuing children means valuing children's opinions, and it is the child's choice that can really be triggered for the sake of the child, not for the sake of themselves, and there are many parents who let their children do what they want to do under the banner of being good for their children. Obviously it is to satisfy his unfulfilled wishes, so is it very unfair to the child?

    I hope you will think about it.

    There are many families who will throw their children in the face after finding out that their children's grades are poor, and in this case, the children may become very timid, and may also behave in some bad ways. I remember watching a film and television drama once, and the general content of this film and television drama is a little girl, and his parents are very strict with his study management. After poor grades, parents will force their children, and children will be disqualified from the exam because they can't help plagiarizing.

    Through this, we can also see that some behaviors of parents will directly affect the performance of children.

    An excellent child is not the same as a child who learns well, an excellent child means that the child is very happy, and that the child is very educated. Therefore, it is also recommended that you do not always put your child's academic performance first, but also pay more attention to your child's mental health.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    A family with a particularly good family education can cultivate an excellent child, and it will also make the child become particularly qualified, and the child will become very polite.

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