How do you get along with roommates who are spoiled by the family?

Examine how you behave. Making friends is not exhaustive, and everything is demanding. There is no such thing as a perfect person, and you have to be good at dealing with all kinds of people, which is the way to make friends.

In fact, when you feel that he really has a lot of shortcomings, according to the degree of closeness of the relationship, a kind reminder is a help to him and an improvement for yourself. If the other party is really stubborn, just stay away.

Need to persuade each other, after all, this is not a good habit, nor is it a very correct way to behave in the world, since everyone is a roommate together, it is also a kind of fate, but also a kind of friendship, I definitely don't want the people around me to be so unbearable, and I also want to create a good atmosphere.

In this case, if you have good conditions at home, you may choose to rent a house near the school, live alone, and want to be quiet, but the rent for these 4 years is not a small amount, and you will lose a lot of the fun of living with your roommates Or you can persuade the counselor to let you change the dormitory, if the bed is tight, even if you convince the counselor, you have to persuade a classmate to exchange beds with you, but it is estimated that few people are willing to change with you.

Unfortunately, I also met a roommate who thought I was spoiled by my family. For this kind of person, or this roommate, my conclusion is that you can't rely on her for everything, you have to have your own attitude, and if you are wrong, ask her to apologize, because for a self-centered person like her, she will not appreciate you.

If you are good friends, I suggest you point out these bad things about him directly, tell him that this is in college and not at home, no one will get used to him like his family, let him, and if he keeps doing this, he will always suffer in the end.

This situation is actually a person who is too lazy, and my advice is that roommates should never get used to it. At the beginning of our dormitory, the head of the dormitory put all the problems on the table, stipulated who cleaned the dormitory public health, and everyone made a dormitory rule, which everyone must follow.

When you feel that he really has a lot of shortcomings, according to the degree of closeness to each other, give a kind reminder, which is a help to him and an improvement for yourself.

Don't care too much about others, focus on yourself in life, and live well is really good.

Since many of the students are only children in their families, they have developed a self-centered personality for a long time, and I think that we may be ashamed of ourselves if we isolate such a roommate.

If you are doing the same, you should say it out loud when you are right or wrong, and don't get used to him.

The issue of a roommate's private life is a delicate topic, and different people have different opinions and ways of dealing with it.

First of all, if your roommate's private life doesn't have a bad impact on you, others, or public facilities, then as a roommate, you shouldn't get too involved in his private life. In this case, it is appropriate to respect the privacy of the other party.

Secondly, if your roommate's private life has had a negative impact on you, others or public facilities, such as often bringing some undesirable people to the dormitory, affecting the order and public safety of the dormitory, then you need to find an opportunity to communicate with your roommate in time to make him aware that his behavior will cause distress and discomfort to the people around him.

However, it should be noted that the attitude and tone of communication should be gentle and respectful, and mutual equal communication can increase the effectiveness and understanding of communication. If the roommate does not change his behavior, he can report it to the relevant person in charge or ask for help at the right time.

However, if it involves the physical hygiene or mental health problems of the roommate, such as staying up late, skipping meals, being stupid or feeling down, etc., you need to be cared for and reminded in time, so that he can change his bad habits as soon as possible or seek help from a professional doctor in time. In this case, care and concern between friends is essential, and you can appropriately remind him to pay attention to his physical health and maintain good habits.

In conclusion, the issue of a roommate's private life is a relatively complex and sensitive issue that needs to be dealt with on a case-by-case basis. However, when dealing with such problems, it is necessary to pay attention to respecting the privacy and rights of others, communicating with others on an equal footing, and maintaining friendliness and calmness, etc., so as to help solve the problem and achieve a harmonious roommate relationship.

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First of all, it can be seen that this classmate should have been a very good classmate before, but between the freshman and junior years, something should have happened that hit him so hard that he would become what he is now.

I don't know if he still has close friends or classmates at school, if so, it is recommended to let someone who has a better relationship with him or knows about his family situation persuade him, not necessarily how much he can change, at least it will not disturb you and other classmates.

The worst plan is to move to the dormitory in two shots, and now they are all juniors, and they are about to face all kinds of ** examinations or internships in outside units, everyone's energy is very precious, no one is a virgin, and he can control how he will go in the future and what kind of person he will become. It's good to take care of yourself.

I have such roommates, everyone is an adult, and once or twice they say that they will do their duty, study hard, change the environment, and never get along with each other from now on, I think so.

Ask the school teacher to react and say that you are mentally ill, and you want to kill people if you continue like this.

You can communicate with him privately about this ... I want him to call other people's thoughts more.

This is the way to live in a group, where you will meet many people who have different values from your own, and even when your values are challenged.

When I first went to college, I met a lot of people, and it was really strange, and I couldn't accept their words and deeds for a while. During that time, I was extremely unhappy every day, often thinking about how they could do this, hurting others but not doing anything, they had a lively attitude towards everything. There are even many times when you are sincere and kind to the people around you, while others turn around and sell you.

Speak ill of you in front of other people. Putting you in a difficult situation, but those so-called good friends in your heart are waiting to watch you do useless struggles.

Slowly, I began to give my heart to everyone at every turn, and not to do useless work. Let's all live under the same roof! As long as it's not something that involves your principle, let it go!

Don't think about changing him or her, hello, as long as you can keep your bottom line. No matter how others belittle, as long as you are right, you must keep doing it.

Go out for a walk, you go to see the world, you will find that those are not things, open your mind. Or just ignore it! Don't bother with her, he'll let him perform alone!

After a long time, it was boring, and he didn't do it. If you're really angry, stay away from her or her as much as possible, or you'll want to hit someone. If you really feel that you can't bear it anymore, just fight!

The premise is that you have to win steadily and at the same time grasp the measure, otherwise you will lose a lot. If you can't beat someone and don't want to stay in a dormitory with him, apply for another dormitory, or just go out and rent a room. If you can't afford to provoke, you can always afford to hide!

Go back, go back!

I've also had very bad roommates.

Stingy, selfish, or something can't be compared at all.

Bad is the kind of malice that hits the heart, and it is not good to see people.

A roommate in junior high school, Su Xiumei.

A bit dwarfism. When I was in the first year of junior high school, I was less than a meter tall, black and thin, and I had a mouthful of big yellow teeth that had not been washed for many years.

Su Xiumei is always the first to get up every morning, and when the winter morning is very cold, Su Xiumei takes the hot water from other roommates to wash.

The point is! She didn't bring it back when she ran out!

When her roommate asked her, she said, "I'm so thin, what's wrong with using some of your hot water?"

A look of righteousness.

Angered that roommate to death.

And, she's aimed at all the dorm owners!

If someone else's comb is used badly, they will throw it away, and they will say that the quality of other people's combs is not good.

One thing is to let us see her badness clearly.

At night, a roommate suddenly had a high fever, and everyone didn't know what to do.

Suddenly, someone remembered that Su Xiumei was not in good health and had a lot of medicines prepared.

We asked Su Xiumei for fever medicine.

Su Xiumei disagreed at first, saying that after she wanted to use it herself, this roommate would just endure it.

We repeatedly persuaded her that we should always talk to her about it, and she took out a box of broken fever reducers and said dissatisfied.

We hurried to give the roommate a suit.

After a while, the roommate's discomfort became even worse!

Throwing up all the time! We thought something was wrong, we obviously took antipyretics!

I picked up the box to see if I had eaten it wrong, but I didn't expect that this box of medicine had expired for half a year!

Someone hurriedly ran and knocked on the door of the dormitory management for help.

I was so angry!

Pointing at Su Xiumei's nose and shouting, what kind of heart do you have! Expired medicine for people to eat!

Su Xiumei looked calm, she didn't die, what does it matter to me, the medicine is what you asked me for.

We haven't spoken to her since.

Of course, it is useless to resist, and it is useless to blindly retreat. There will always be someone who takes your good temper as the capital that he can and pee on you.

I have a friend who has a boy in their dormitory who confessed to another roommate in the dormitory in the second semester of his freshman year, of course, real life is not as "the world is the same" as written in Tanmei**, and his confession was rejected. That's not the point, the point is that the other people in their dorm start thinking the boy is sick and start bullying the boy.

I asked my friend why he didn't resist? My friend said he didn't dare.

It's really sad about its misfortune and angry with it. Why endure it, it's them who are at fault. There are a total of 6 people in their dormitory, and there is still one who does not read.

If you really have the heart to help him, can two to three suffer to the point of **? Or can that boy really muster up the courage to resist, one-on-three, is there really no hope at all? Are they all half-grown children, can their hearts be so bad that they can go to **?

In most cases, bullying occurs when the person concerned does not resist and others condone it.

I see a lot of people saying forbearance, why endure, don't want people, your retreat is to connive at the arrogance of those people, to say something unpleasant, if you don't resist, you deserve to be bullied. What are you afraid of, it's a big deal to change the dormitory.

My friend also figured it out after being scolded by me and began to really take it to heart. He guided the boy to stop being cowardly and learn to muster up the courage to resist. He communicated with the classmates who bullied the boy, and bitterly persuaded them to be under the same roof and stop there.

They are all boys, and after talking to each other, they get drunk and cry, and then return to normal dormitory relations.

Therefore, when encountering this kind of thing, you must first reflect on yourself and see if you have done something wrong and provoked your roommate. If it's your fault, you apologize and reconcile. But if not, don't put up with it, your concession will only make others think that you are cowardly and easy to bully, not guilty.

You can't dodge this problem, but find a way to fix it. Only mutual respect and understanding can build a normal and harmonious dormitory environment.