Should I reject him, accept him, or leave it as it is?

Updated on society 2024-06-26
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I think you should ask him to give you some time to recover, but don't tell him how long it will take If he's really serious about you, then I'm sure he won't mind waiting for you, and then one day you really let go of that previous relationship, and then you can try to date him, and as for whether it's suitable or not, you have to wait for a while to find out, you just broke up with your ex-boyfriend, and if you fall into another love so quickly, it's not good for you, him, and him, after all, that relationship still has some weight in your opinion Don't let others feel that they don't care about feelings It's not terrible It's terrible What is terrible is that if you keep going like this, you may not know who you love in the future At that time, the most painful person is definitely yourself I hope these thoughts of mine will help you Finally, I sincerely wish you to get out of the predicament as soon as possible and find the happiness that truly belongs to you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If he doesn't come for real, don't promise him, otherwise you will fall out of love again and ask for your own suffering. But if he's serious, you might as well accept him, because the older you get, the harder it is to find someone who can fall in love and get married, and you'll know this when you're older. But if you don't really mean it to him, you don't want to be with him, and you just talk nonsense with him, I suggest you don't promise him.

    Love is to agree with each other, unilateral is not enough.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You have to think about whether you really like him, although like is not love, but love is from like to love. Even if you accept him, even if you don't dislike it, it won't produce liking and love! Because you're just treating him as a better friend!

    Now all you need to do is to put your emotions in order and get out of the shadows of the past! Think about what kind of love you want. Then make the right choice!

    Now that it's a thing of the past, let's let it go. It's hard, but it's your only option!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you want to pursue true love, then ask yourself if you have real love for him, if not, refuse it, and of course maintain the other person's self-esteem. Euphemism expresses the meaning of self-sufficient.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you really like him, you accept him......Don't procrastinate......It's not good for everyone......

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm a boy, but my opinion is that if a person has a crush on another person, it's not so easy to like it, it's his right. It's your right to accept or not to accept. You live your own life, proper with him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can agree that he will look everywhere first and see if the two sides are suitable!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Tell her to wait for her and you'll be dating in a month's time, and let him know that he's tired right now.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Accept him, you don't lie to yourself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Love looks at some point. It's a game of one game at a time.

    They may all be passers-by in your life. It doesn't matter if you accept it or not.

    I believe. Even if you accept him. You won't forget your first love either. The first time is always unforgettable.

    I think it's better to keep the status quo a little bit. At least in the short term, it's better. It allows you to slowly step out of the past.

    Let you discover. When he's really the person you want. It's not too late to accept him.

    I think. If he really cares about you. Don't do stupid things.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Accept , cherish, and don't regret it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You should talk to him. It's better to be happy than to be miserable.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

    When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

    But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

    The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

    What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

    And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

    It's just that the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

    No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

    In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

    When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

    If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?

    Love is not possession!

    You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

    In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

    Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

    You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

    The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

    After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

    Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

    When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

    The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!

    knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;

    Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

    When making a promise, don't make a promise that can be fulfilled, it is best to promise what you can't do, anyway, what you can't do, it doesn't matter if you talk about it, remember: "Promises that can't be fulfilled are the most moving".

    In love, one thing is said and another is done;

    The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......

    Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again...

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Love is inclusive rather than indulgent, love is caring rather than pampering, love is intermingling rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness.

    True love doesn't have to be a perfect match in the eyes of others.

    It's about the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other.

    It is to make the hand accompany each other to live a better life and silently dedicate.

    This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts, and true love is to know how to cherish when you can love.

    True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

    Because, letting go is having everything...

    When you cherish it, please love it well.

    When you let go, I wish you good luck....

    True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words.

    Feel it with your heart.

    There is no right or wrong in love, only suitable and not stupid love, true love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others, but the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other, in order to make each other's lives better and silently dedicated.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Do you want to be in love? If you want to, you agree, if you don't want to, you refuse, love, hurt, sad.

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