My father moved to my side from his hometown, did he rent a house or live with him? 190

It's good that your parents can build you a house, and you should cherish it. Marriage should still be in the hometown, because that is the wish of the parents. Of course, if before you get married, you can have a great development, and you have the ability to not only buy a house in the city, but also have a certain industry, then you can let your parents live in the city, and naturally get married in the city.

But you have 20,000 yuan in your hand now, which is far from your goal. If you want to fulfill your desire to get married in the city, it is not difficult to rent, you can rent a house, and rent for a long time. Don't slap a swollen face, borrow money or a loan to buy a house, or buy an installment payment.

Don't be a slave to the house, if you borrow money, you have to look at other people's faces. Therefore, I advise young people today that a relaxed and happy life should start from a young age, and not when they are old, when they have everything, they will not be able to enjoy anything. Besides, if you buy a house now, you need a large investment.

If the in-laws are on the daughter-in-law's side, of course, they will go out to rent a house. I would definitely like to rent a house with my parents, so I still live in a rented house. Otherwise, it will affect the relationship between husband and wife.

Because she is a rural woman, her wife is definitely not willing to live with the elderly. If the father and daughter-in-law have a personality, the parents only come to live occasionally. Don't be a slave to the house. Of course, I went out to rent a house to live, and I felt that the child was very filial.

It's very free to rent a house alone and don't want to be separated from your husband. also let the young couple go out to rent a house, so if the ability allows, Guo Qilin rents a house by himself, which should not depreciate too much. The house is also an asset, and it may even be in conflict with it.

It is better to live together, because renting a house will have rent, utilities, and so you will save some money. Rent a house for him, and his parents may not feel comfortable either. It's better to live together and take care of each other.

It is advisable to let your father live with you. Staying with you. In the future, there will definitely be conflicts with your daughter-in-law, and even conflicts with you.

It is inevitable that even if your father does not come, it is normal for you and your daughter-in-law to have conflicts in normal times. What we need to do is to learn to communicate, coordinate, and deal with these contradictions, rather than avoiding them. As a son and husband, your attitude and coordination skills are crucial.

Whether you can live together peacefully or not depends on you.

You have already started a family, you are already the pillar of a family, and my advice is that it is better not to let your father move in, which is easy to conflict in the family. Of course, if your father and daughter-in-law have a good personality, there is no need to communicate too much. Then it's okay to call your father up and live with you.

Rent a house to live in. You can find a house in the same community as you and rent it to live in, so that you can take care of the elderly. In this way, the elderly are not restrained, and there is no need to worry about family conflicts.

This must be able to rent a house, if the father's body is okay, he can take care of himself, and even say that he can go out to work, this is really a personal experience, and you are also very big, to avoid being caught in the middle, dilemma, so just say a word to my father. It's inconvenient to sit at home, so it's a little bit of each other's stomachs, I believe your father can also understand, and this is indeed more comfortable for him.

Just find someone who is a little closer to you and can take care of it.

That depends on what you know about your daughter-in-law and father If you don't have so many things, then live together Father can also help take care of the children Enjoy family fun And it is convenient for you to take care of your father Of course, if one of them is more troublesome, it is difficult to take care of both ends No, live together first If there is a conflict, you can't rent a house.

This is indeed a dilemma, to see if the relationship between the father and the daughter-in-law is particularly harmonious, if not, or rent, the father should be able to understand the communication, you can try to rent in the neighborhood or in this community, so that you can take care of each other and not disturb.

It's better to let your father live with you! It's also best to live in a house with enough space and at least two bathrooms. Also talk to your daughter-in-law and see what she thinks!

Now that your father has moved in, try not to make his old man feel cold!

It depends on how big your house is. If there's a lot of space to spare, let's stay together. There is very little space to spare, so I rent a house for my father. But don't stay away from the house you live in.

It's best to rent one, it's not a matter of money, there must be a problem with the generation gap after being together for a long time, and you can buy a suitable house when the conditions are in place, and your parents also like a quiet life, how good it is not to disturb, eat and play together, and play each other when you rest.

If you live with you, if you are afraid of conflicts, then you should be like a balance scale. Both ends must be taken into account, and the specific details still depend on your own clean officials and difficult to judge family affairs.

If the elderly can take care of themselves, it is more suitable to rent a house in the long run, and the elderly will be more free.

Because, it's not convenient for you to live together, and the old people have to do this and that all day.

So, it's more convenient to rent a house!

If the house is big enough, let's live together, and the old people want the company of their children. If you rent next door, you can also do it!

If your father has the ability to take care of himself, you can rent a house for him, and you have the financial ability yourself, and then you can look at the opinions of the elderly, and the old man can do whatever he wants.

I think that when your father comes to you, he should let him live with you, because then it shows the harmony of the family.

It's better to live together, so it's easy to take care of.

It's all okay, it mainly depends on the old man's thoughts, overcoming difficulties, and doing his filial piety.

Hello, friend, in the face of this situation, it is recommended that you let your father live in your house for a while to see how your father feels, and then decide whether to rent a house or not.

If the daughter-in-law can't control it, it is recommended to rent it nearby. But the old man will definitely be uncomfortable, after all, it is a waste of money.

To tell you very clearly, the answer to this question is not to ask know.

You essentially want to live with your father. The general idea is: go and discuss with your lover if you can let your father stay for a while.

You have to ask your wife's opinion to see what she is going to do, and ask your father's opinion, whether he likes you to be together or to live alone, and if you are coordinated, you can ...... what you want

Let's negotiate with the old man first and get his understanding.

I think it's not unfilial piety that juniors don't want to live with the elders, it's just that their personal pursuit of lifestyle is different.

1. Filial piety is something in the heart, and there is no need to deliberately put flowers on the shelf.

As the saying goes, filial piety comes first, and there is no trace of the heart. In our traditional Chinese culture, filial piety is a kind of intention, rather than the harsh demands and moral kidnapping of future generations.

2. With the development of society, juniors also want to have their own freedom and private space, and their pressure is also very great, and they need to be accompanied by Shidong to do a lot of things, and it is inevitably inconvenient to live together.

Why don't you separate from each other and be kind when you meet, what a good way to live in the world!

That's all for my views and opinions, I hope you can agree.

If you are working near your home for a long time, then I think you can go out and rent a house to live in by yourself, and then come back to spend more time with your parents, a large part of your depression is actually from yourself, so whether you move out or not, you have to deepen communication with your parents. It's going to get better slowly.

You have already gone out to work, which means that you are capable of supporting your parents, and you are a very good boy. You are an adult, there are many things that have changed, and the most important thing is that you have changed in your heart, and you have been able to be independent and independent, and you are no longer nostalgic for this home.

In fact, there is a generation gap between us and our parents, even if it is my mother and my grandfather, they often quarrel now, at my parents' age, my grandfather often interferes with them to make friends, the reason is, I don't think people are wrong, but there is no reason, I don't think he is happy, you don't want to be friends.

Then my mom felt like she was going to be half angry. But my mother will still talk to my grandfather well, talk too much, or have a good attitude, my grandfather will not be too tough to ask for anything, the elderly also have different personalities, my grandfather is still the kind of tough personality.

So whether you go home to work or go home to rest, if you go home to rest for a period of time and then go to work, there is no need to separate from your parents, you can divert your attention, for example, they ask you so that you can change topics with them, I think your parents also love you, and they will not be unreasonable if you communicate well.

You may not be home all year round, so you have some trouble with your parents, you tell your parents what you feel in your heart, you will not be bored in your heart, you feel depressed when you have nothing to do, in fact, you can also deepen your communication with your parents, this is not to escape, because parents and children are a lifelong relationship, you also have the obligation to accompany them.

Try to live by yourself, it's not good to have your own private life after work, and I don't feel very free to live with my parents.

It may be to show your parents that they are capable of living independently, and that they also want to try to live on their own, and if they say it well, they should agree.

Reject them, but communicate with them to avoid creating a misunderstanding that you dislike them, which can hurt people.

If you don't embarrass yourself, I think it's good to live with your parents, after all, companionship is the longest confession, and you can also take care of your parents.

When you talk to your parents about your thoughts, parents are generally more respectful of their children's opinions, so it shouldn't be a problem to talk about them.

Then you have to take a stand, and then work hard to earn money, and try to rent two houses, one for them to live in, and one for yourself.

Communicate well, try to convince them, if they still don't want to, you can tell them a little lie when the time comes, just say that the company arranges a staff dormitory, and you have to move in.

Have a good talk with your parents, your own thoughts, you want to live an independent life, and support yourself, after all, you have to live your own life in the future.

Then you need to discuss this with your parents first, tell them that you are an adult, can live independently, and should have your own private life.

I think you can communicate with them well, and you can say that Mom and Dad have grown up and can take good care of themselves.

Honoring one's parents is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, but if a person is too filial, it becomes foolishness, for a woman, to find a foolish boyfriend or husband, destined to fall in love or marital life will be full of contradictions, my experience is like this, share with you, I hope you can learn from my lesson.

My boyfriend and I met through a blind date, he is a colleague of my best friend's boyfriend, my best friend saw that I had not found a boyfriend, and felt that my boyfriend's colleague was good, so she actively matched the two of us. We had dinner together a few times, and we went to a few parties, and I thought he was kind and honest, so I stayed with him.

In life, my boyfriend is very considerate to me, shushing me every day to ask for warmth, telling me to add clothes when it's cold, and telling me not to worry about overtime and eat quickly when it's time to eat. On weekends, I would go to his rented apartment, and we would buy groceries and cook together, sometimes go shopping after dinner, and sometimes go out to watch a movie.

The boyfriend has a gentle personality and is at ease with what he encounters, and his ambition is not particularly strong. Moreover, his family is in the countryside, his family background is average, his parents only gave birth to a boyfriend when they were very old, and they belong to the elderly, and now, his parents are old and in poor health. My family is well-off, and my parents are both in business, so my mother is not very satisfied with my boyfriend, and she is afraid that I will suffer if I marry him.

But I didn't care about this and insisted on being with him, and my mother saw that I insisted and didn't say anything.

When talking about marriage, my boyfriend proposed that his parents were not in good health and had to keep money for them to support their old age, so his family could not buy a house for the time being. When my mother found out, she was very dissatisfied and said that I was too stupid, but in the end, she couldn't resist me, sighed and said, as long as you don't come back to complain to me in the future. Despite this, my mother bought me a small house, so that after we got married, we finally had a little nest of our own.

Before I got married, my boyfriend asked me again, saying that my parents were old and they were not at ease in their hometown in the countryside, so they wanted to bring them to the city so that they could retire and enjoy happiness. I was stunned: "The house only has one bedroom and one living room, bring them here, and we live in **?"

The boyfriend said: "This is easy to solve, give the house to my parents to live in, we can rent a house nearby, so that it is convenient to take care of them." "After listening to my boyfriend's words, I felt very uncomfortable and flatly refused.

I can't understand it, I haven't heard of anyone who gets married and rents a house to live in, your family doesn't buy a house, my parents bought a house for me, why do your parents want to move in, we have to go out and rent a house? My boyfriend said that I was cold-blooded and impersonal, and everyone said, is it still my fault?