When I smoke when I m lonely, do I have fantasies?

In our lifetime, we will meet the person you love the most, the person who loves you the most, and the person you spend your life with. First of all, you will meet the person you love the most, and then you will experience the feeling of love; Because you understand what it feels like to be loved, you can discover the people who love you the most; When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime. But sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person; The one you love the most often doesn't choose you; What loves you the most is often not what you love the most; And the longest, it's not the person you love the most or love you the most, it's just the person who appears at the right time.

How many people will you be in someone else's life? No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, he can't pretend not to love you when he loves you; In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you. When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, and if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem; If you still love him, you should want him to be happy, you want him to be with the person you really love, and you will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?

Love is not possession, you can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you; The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement. After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained; Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not strong enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment. So in the end, it is necessary to choose which one to believe in fate and let everything be.

The troubles are all because of your own excessive attachment Even if you continue like this, there will be no good results, why do we blindly give? No one is selfless, everyone wants to be rewarded for their efforts, at least they have to be recognized, in fact, the situation is very clear, but you don't face it, forget it, it just takes a while to let go, if you can't love yourself well, then what to do to love others well, yes, every truth is difficult to do, maybe it's easier to know than to do, but I can only say that no one can help you, only yourself, why practice yourself if you are ignored, maybe I am like you in the past, time can really change everything Learn to be strong.

I'm also a smoker, so I'm not averse to smoking, however, I have to admit that smoking has certain physical harms. Contains nicotine in a serious way, which is a toxic ingredient that can paralyze people's nerves and cause them to hallucinate.

For people who are a little empty and lonely in their hearts, smoking is not a bad thing, I will smoke when I feel lonely, smoke can paralyze you, let you forget your troubles in disgust, but smoking is only a temporary paralysis of your nerves, loneliness and loneliness still exist, if you are a person who just wants to escape from reality, smoking is your first choice, if they are not afraid of early death, they can even go to drugs. But if you are a person who dares to take responsibility, I advise you to be brave enough to face the reality and troubles! Feeling lonely means that you are not able to integrate successfully into the life around you, so what you should do is to find out why, whether you are not good enough for yourself, or if the environment is not suitable for you.

I would like to give you a word: when you don't have enough strength, you can only adapt to everything around you, and don't try to let the environment change for you; But when you're strong enough, it's not impossible to make the world dance in the palm of your hand. Once, when I was confused and lonely, I also went to smoke to numb myself, but soon I found that after smoking, my troubles still existed, and I had to find a way to solve them in order to get permanent peace and comfort.

Friends, it is just a matter of a thought between pumping and not smoking, don't worry about such trivial things, what you should really consider is the attitude towards life and the way of doing things.

The above is just my personal opinion on your predicament, I hope it will help you all!

No matter how you smoke, it's bad, how to talk about how to talk about smoking, it's not good, in fact, smoking is a kind of stress reliever

Someone smokes when they're lonely

Some people smoke when they go out to play

Someone smokes when they write

Someone smokes while working

Some people smoke when they are socially rewarded

Smoking is a form of sustenance, a way of thinking, a way of de-stressing, and you can smoke if you want, because I smoke, hehe

I have calmed down. Tell yourself, what's bothering? What's so annoying? Why do you add a block to yourself? If you ask questions like this repeatedly, you will still find it very interesting, and your heart will be frizzy, and the feeling of unhappiness will be gone.