What if your girlfriend and your parents don t get along, but you can t move out and live alone?

Updated on educate 2024-06-14
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's better to move out, the old man is like that, when you leave, she will think of you, and your girlfriend will think of your mother.

    After you move out, go home once a week, have a meal together, buy something for your mother, but it has to be your girlfriend's consent to buy it for your mother, whether it's expensive or low, and your mother usually likes it.

    Girlfriend should always care about the physical condition of the elderly, when it's okay, or talk more to let your mother often go out to participate in some elderly activities, singing, dancing, or something, so that your mother's mood will also be very good, naturally not too careful, some small things are suggested, find a wife for your mother, the elderly need companionship the most.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's very troublesome, you're caught in the middle, it's not good to be a person, and I deeply sympathize with that.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Have a good talk with your mother and your girlfriend to resolve the conflict, there must be the wrong party, and it is not good to move out.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Summary. Since you have decided to elope, you have to be responsible for this behavior.

    I have to force my girlfriend's parents to not agree to us being together, so can I just take my girlfriend away?

    Hello, I have seen your question and am sorting out the answer, please wait a while You can move out and live with your girlfriend.

    If my girlfriend is willing to agree to go with me, it won't be too much.

    Trust that time will give your parents an answer.

    My girlfriend's family won't allow her to see me.

    Excuse me, are you an adult?

    Both sides are adults. What will happen if you elope?

    There are no consequences.

    You're all adults.

    It's time to take responsibility for your actions.

    What behavior is elopement because?

    Since you have decided to elope, you have to be responsible for this behavior.

    You want to give her a happy home, can you do it?

    Now that the standard of living and consumption are so high, do you have a good job and a high salary to support her?

    So what to do in this case, his family can't make sense, I will be responsible for her, what other way can I do besides this.

    You don't have a stable economy**, you don't have a stable job.

    It is advisable to abandon the idea of elopement.

    Take the initiative to admit your mistakes to your parents.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If your girlfriend wants to, there's nothing reasonable or unreasonable, but at the same time, why don't her parents agree, what do you lack, and whether you can give your girlfriend happiness in the future, that's the point.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It stands to reason that now you are just boyfriend and girlfriend, and you always help her solve the problems at home, which is very good, but her parents still disagree with you, now you can think about what the gap between you is.

    If it's because of the most old-fashioned economic problems that parents don't agree with, I think you can talk to her parents about this, prove that you are only temporarily not rich, you have the goal and determination to work hard together, please ask your girlfriend's parents to believe in yourself, all the difficulties are current, in the near future, you will definitely be able to give her a happy family, and at the same time, you will always be in love with the ever, with practical actions to prove their firmness.

    If you really can't wait, you can also ask your girlfriend for help, since the two of them have reached the age of talking about marriage, then there is nothing that can't sit down and talk about it, you can ask her parents if there is anything else unspeakable, what hardships must be said, don't hang each other ambiguously, emotional things are not very consumable, so if you can do it, you can do it, and if you can't do it, you can say a word.

    In fact, I personally still think that when a man is very good to a woman but does not get any signs of gratitude, then it is necessary to reflect on the journey you have taken along the way, and think carefully about whether your girlfriend did not have the determination to go with you to the end from the beginning? If you really don't get the approval of your parents, then even if you get married, you won't be too happy, although these words are very explicit, but they are very realistic, marriage is not like falling in love, a lifelong event, you must get the blessing of all relatives and friends, you will live a happy life.

    Therefore, this kind of thing must be carefully thought through, and make a decision that satisfies you but does not regret it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Aren't you very aggrieved like this? In your eyes, you always help your girlfriend solve problems, and you are already a twenty-four filial boyfriend, but you still can't get the recognition of your girlfriend's parents, then you have to be careful, your girlfriend's parents just need you to help them get through the difficulties, not want you to be their son-in-law and become a part of their family, so that your identity has changed in a sense, and you are just a profit-driven victim in the eyes of your girlfriend's parents, and they don't look down on you at all, It's just that you have a certain value for them, they need someone who can help them get through the difficulties, someone to rely on, and you are not their ideal son-in-law. So in their eyes, you are not worthy of their daughter, it's not that you are not good enough, it's just that they don't fully see your advantages, they hope to have a more qualified son-in-law, but a family like theirs, not everyone will look at it, I know that you really love your girlfriend, but your girlfriend's parents don't accept you, this is also difficult, you can't let your girlfriend ignore her family for the sake of your love, this is against human ethics, this is not appropriate, You can't be so selfish.

    If you really want your girlfriend's parents to accept you, it's not impossible, after all, people's hearts are made of meat, as long as you are determined, nothing can't be done, I believe you can, difficulties are nothing to you, the love between you has gone through ups and downs, and there will always be a day when it comes to hardship. I hope you can persevere, as soon as possible, and don't blame your parents, the starting point of your parents' consideration is all for the sake of their children, and I hope you can understand the painstaking efforts.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The girlfriend's parents are not the problem, the girlfriend has a problem is the real problem. If you can't solve your girlfriend, you can't talk about solving your girlfriend's parents.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you really love, find a way to solve the problem. Keep your mindset!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Marriage without parents' instructions is miserable, if your girlfriend lets you be with her, and then ignores your parents, then I think you should break up, such a woman is not worth it, your problem is also very big, although it is not good to be caught in the middle, but you definitely have problems, summarize your own lessons, and improve the relationship between your girlfriend and your family.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Convince your family that it is your own lifelong happiness.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The family is important, and the girlfriend is divided and then found

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The second is impossible, break up as soon as possible.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When is there still this imbecile problem? Whether you get married or your parents get married, ,......what do you care about them?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    First of all, you have to understand that she is a filial child, and she can't pass her parents, or mother, you have to understand why they don't agree, the problem is **, talk to them, justify yourself, give yourself a deadline, a degree, if you can't do it, don't force others,

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Prove that she doesn't like you very much, so she gave up on just that. Don't want this kind of girl.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Let's just say that I married you, not your mother, it was you who married me, and not your mother, the person who can accompany you for a lifetime is me, not your mother, how can a young person believe in the same old thing, I married you and I don't disrespect your mother, you just need not to abuse my mother when you marry me,,, look at how good I am to you, look at such a good man, can you bear to slip away in vain.

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