How can I drop everything and study?

Now that you know it's not good, then you should try to overcome yourself, and you have to believe that you can let go of these things, and high school is supposed to let go of something.

If you don't let go at this time, if you can't overcome yourself, you will pay the price later.

It is recommended that you either explain the matter clearly, be bold and get to know him, or ignore him.

Have a nice day!

As long as you feel that there is no way out if you don't study, you will have a sense of panic and naturally go to study ......

You also have to know that since you have special feelings for her, you should study harder to create a good future, and if you get to know her again, you will be more likely to be together in the future!

Lower your mindset, study easily, and don't put too much pressure on yourself.

There are two aspects to learning the knowledge of management and plagiarism:

The first is the basic methods and principles of management.

On the second is to manage people, and the two are indispensable.

1) Management Fundamentals DAO Methods and Theories:

The first thing to start is to learn management theory, which not only teaches you some basic management theories, but also explains some of the "formulas" of managers, you should learn to plan, plan, make decisions, coordinate, control on the basis of the integration of managers.

In terms of specific behavior management, you can learn some books on management psychology and how to motivate employees.

In terms of law, you can learn some commonly used legal knowledge in corporate law, contract law, tax law, etc.

In terms of theory, you can study basic theories of business management, accounting and other related books.

It is necessary to establish a strong desire to manage people and pursue it as a self-realization goal.

2) Manage people: constantly summarize experience, analyze people's types, needs, personalities, commonalities, weaknesses, etc.;

First of all, learn to make friends, better to be together, and less to play if you don't fall in love. Because management is to give full play to the strengths of all people, avoid people's shortcomings, improve their positive factors, and train all people to become competent employees.

Management quote: There are no incompetent employees, only incompetent bosses, this is what it means.

Managing people is not an overnight thing, and it is necessary to study it persistently, so it is said to be treated first, but it does not mean to start at the first time.

An old monk took the little monk down the mountain, and before going down the mountain, he repeatedly told the little monk, "Don't get close to women." When passing by a small river, I saw a beautiful cutie, who said, "I am dizzy, who can carry me across the river", and the old monk said, "I will carry you". So the old monk crossed the river with his eyebrows on his back, laughing, and laughing.

After walking ten miles, the little monk finally couldn't hold back and asked the master, "You said you don't want to be close to women, how can you carry that beautiful cutie." The old monk said, "I left her down when I crossed the river, why did you still think about it after walking ten miles?" This is a Zen case, the Buddha pays attention to living in the moment, and the Buddha said, "Let go to bear it."".

The Buddha didn't know how difficult it was for us to "let go" of all sentient beings, ordinary people! We and other sentient beings are always haunted by the emotions of a certain period in the past, some failures in the past, glory in the past, the harm caused to us by others in the past, and so on. Precipitating in our own hearts is often the source of our troubles.

Many people know that they have to learn to let go, but they don't know that it's really not easy to let go. Easier said than done. We all know to live in the present, but in reality, we will always live in the past or live in the future.

But a happy life must require us to learn to "let go", because if we can't let go, we won't take it, if we can't let go, it will be difficult to have the present, and we will lose the present and the future. What is in the past will become a stumbling block to the present and the future. How to let go, my personal experience is to learn to "allow".

Allow for personal mistakes and the mistakes of others in the past. On the other hand, in the past, we always had regrets, but at that time, we had made the best choice, the "now" in the past, we were not wrong, and now you think that you should not have done that at that time, it is because you look at the past experience from the perspective and situation of the present, and at that moment, we must be the best choice. So we're right.

To allow is to be inclusive, to be tolerant of oneself and to be tolerant of others. Only after allowing it can you let yourself go, instead of lingering. Only then can we truly let go.

Only by letting go can we have a happy life and bring happiness to others.

It's always good to let go, if you can't let go, it's equivalent to worrying and worrying, suffering for a lifetime.

Take a look at the Trisomy.

Just put it down.

First of all, you have to be able to afford it before you can put it down.

The reason why people suffer is that they pursue the wrong things. If you don't bother yourself, others will never be able to bother you, because your own heart makes you unable to let go.

As the saying goes, "There is nothing in the world, but mediocrity disturbs itself." ”

In life, there are always some knots that are difficult to untie, and there are some regrets that are difficult to let go, but even if you can't let go, what can you do? Writer Yang Daxia expressed that he can only have it after putting it down.

If you are a boy, you have to learn to let go, because men have to be generous, and you will only get it if you learn to let go. If you are a girl, you must let go, because if a girl can't learn to let go, she will be weak, and only when you learn to let go, you will be strong.

To learn to let go is to let go of yourself, and no matter what you do, there will be no burden.

If you can't let go of the old one, you can't pick up the new one!

I can't let it go, I feel that it's just a state of mind, if I want to say that those who are content are always happy, don't judge heroes by success or failure. If you can't let go of something, it means that you are still not satisfied or don't know whether it is success or failure, and you want to get it or complete it, but your current ability is not enough (maybe you can do it with all your might, but the gains outweigh the losses), so you will have this state of not being able to let go (your own understanding, see and laugh). The world is full of contradictions and challenges, when you resolve a contradiction and conquer a goal, you will feel happy from the heart, this situation is the most during school (I am, think about the situation at that time, you will also smile leisurely), but you have nothing in return at that time, why can you be happy?

Let me say that it is to fulfill one of my wishes, and when I am happy, I will conquer the next goal. When you come out of school, there is rarely this kind of experience, dealing with people in the world makes people tired, you may have a good relationship with a colleague, but unconsciously and another deteriorated (this kind of thing is too much), after many blows, people are more and more sleek, and they can't find the kind of momentum when they go to school (find that there are difficulties to go, there is no difficulty to buy a question bank to create difficulties), people will be sentimental. Saying so much has not yet entered the topic, hehe, can you let it go, although the objective conditions are a big factor, but do you dare to say to me, "I just want to let go, I don't care about anything else"?

I didn't dare, so the root cause was that I took care of too much, and I didn't have the ease I had when I was in school. If you can have the same momentum as you did in school, I dare say, it doesn't matter to you at all. Don't judge heroes by success or failure, those who are content are always happy, these two sentences need to be understood well.

It's easy to hold and put down, but it's hard to do.

It can only be slowly diluted as time passes.

Every piece of land here, you have been born and died, and every living being has been your parent.

He came, fate gathered, he left, fate scattered, you look for him, fate, you don't look for him, fate is extinguished, found is fate, can't find is fate, the road walked, the people you have seen, each has its own cause, each has its own fate. Do more good deeds, and meet each other when you get together!

To learn to let go.

You have to know the cause and effect of the three lifetimes.

The hurt that is being done today, the injustice, and so on.

It's the retribution of what we hurt others in the past.

If you know this concept, you will let go of your resentment.

Not only should you let go of your resentment, but you should also sincerely apologize to others.

In this way, the cause and effect of each other are settled.

The clouds also opened to see the sunny day.

Letting go of resentment is not letting go of the other party, but letting go of oneself. This is what I learned from a friend, and I can't quite do it yet, but do what I can. Holding resentment all the time is not good for your health and life.

I have resentment in my heart, I am in a bad mood, I am easily depressed, and I hurt my liver, and I think about it all day long, and I can't lift my energy to do other things, which seriously affects my work and life. It's better to look away, do what you like to do, and make yourself happy.

My child had a conflict with a classmate at school, it was not a big deal, everyone looked at each other and passed, but the child has been unable to get by, has been targeting my child, and is still doing all kinds of small actions behind his back, which makes my child very depressed and very depressed. I told the child to let go, don't take that person seriously, if you don't take him seriously, he won't fart, and he won't hurt you in the slightest. Put all your energy on your studies and crush him in grades.

The child listened, and sure enough, he was left far behind in the recent exam. And I don't care about the little actions he does anymore, and now I'm having a good time.

It's not easy to do, but let's work hard, and everyone encourages you.

Life is only a hundred years, learn to let go, and the years will be fine. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke described that letting go is the beginning of hard work.

I don't want to, I don't read it.

Naturally, I forgot about it.

There is no better way to study quietly than to build the strongest motivation from the depths of your heart When you want to study, when you want to study, even if you are in the middle of the city, you can eliminate all distractions and focus your attention on the textbook in your hand When you don't want to study and hate learning and don't know the purpose and meaning of learning, even if you are in a quiet garden, your attention will be disturbed by other things outside the book No outsiders can really solve your problem. Side-knocking can only be an external factor that cannot play a decisive role One Think about why you want to read? Who is reading for? Is it okay not to read?

Think about this question clearly, although your parents or teachers have repeated it many times, this is already a commonplace question, but this is really a very important question, this is the key to your learning, and you don't even understand the purpose of learning, so what books do you read? Second, you can go to investigate a few people with low education who have gone out to work and have tasted the hardships of no education or education level, ask them how they feel, and ask them about their understanding of learning and reading, which may be helpful to you. How much strength do you have now to achieve your dreams?

Degree? Technology? Ability?

Think about the fierce and cruel competition for survival in the future, and then consider the attitude towards reading Fourth, think about your relatives, the white hair on your parents' heads, the wrinkles on your forehead, think about their almost heart-wrenching eyes on you, and ask yourself, are you willing to let them have a happy and happy old age? .