How do you choose between the person I don t love and the person I love?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-29
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    No need to choose, it's best to go with the flow There is no need to escape, and there is no need to pursue it excessively

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It doesn't matter if you're going to be loved or you're going to love, at least now you're in a triangular relationship, do the two of them know? You've thought about telling you what happened, which one will leave you, and which one will stick to you!

    The person who loves you, he will tolerate everything about you, the one you love, you can't say, feelings can be cultivated, just like the colleague upstairs said, you will really feel very happy to be loved by others!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The person you love also loves you, do you still have to choose? Just make it clear to someone you don't love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think everyone is too kind People who don't treat love well have the qualifications to pursue happy love! Ask yourself, are you in love? Once you have the answer, you don't need to say more, people can't be too selfish!! That's the way to drink soup in hell.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't choose either, you won't be happy if you choose.

    It's not hard to find someone who everyone likes each other! ~!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I have chosen the person I love now, and if there is an afterlife, I will choose the person who loves me

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Which one do you yourself think is reliable.

    year, choose which.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't love someone, let it go so that others have a chance to love them. If someone you love gives up on you, let go of yourself so that you can give it to others. There are some things that you like no matter how much you don't belong to you, and there are things that you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are.

    There are many kinds of love in life, but don't let it be a hurt. Some fates are destined to be lost, and some fates will never end well. Loving someone doesn't have to be having.

    It is a kind of happiness to be understood in feelings, and it is a kind of loneliness to wait to be understood. The price of rediscovering old dreams is often something we can't afford.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you want to be happy, choose the person who loves you, otherwise choose the person you love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    He loves you and you love him, so why choose someone you don't love!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, to tell the truth, it is not painful to give up a person who loves you very much, it is painful to give up a person you love very much, it is even more painful to fall in love with someone who does not love you, it is destined to be a tragedy, some losses are doomed, some fate will never have results, you don't have to have someone to love, but you must cherish someone if you have one. Since you don't love, then let go in a word, there is a kind of love called letting go, only letting go is a kind of relief, but also a new beginning and having, let go of the burden of the mood is much easier, in the moment the tears fall turn around and leave, don't let yourself hurt, why hang on a tree without sweetness, no happiness, no happiness, people don't love you, then, how to tie up people, twisted melons are not sweet, why embarrass yourself? Why let yourself lose your self-esteem and self-love, indulge in pain, let yourself walk physically and mentally exhausted, scarred, why bother?

    It's not interesting, love is two-sided, it's not wishful thinking that there will be results, meeting is the fate of life destined to cover God, you can't force it, you will only get it if you lose, and those who refuse to lose your luggage will never swim to the other side. Make yourself strong, have confidence and courage, live your own life, look back at the shore of the sea of suffering, and find someone who really loves you and what you love, which will comfort your soul's creation and dismantling, make up for the shortcomings of your soul, and let you have and cherish. In fact, life is like this, when you lose a beloved thing, there will inevitably be another item for you to like, and when you break up with your lover, there will be a better relationship waiting for you.

    At the very least, you will not live in sorrow, and you will find your own paradise, your own sweet, happy and happy life.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think about him (her), you will be excited when you see it, your heart beats faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you also get another kind of happiness in the process of this investigation! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

    In contrast, I believe in myself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Dear landlord.

    Glad for your question.

    In fact, there are things that you like and will not belong to you, and there are things that you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, love is a song that can never be sung in life. People may experience a lot of love in their lives, but don't let love become a hurt. There are fates everywhere in life, and fate seems to be fateful; Some fates are destined to be lost from the beginning, and some fates will never end well; You don't have to have someone to love, but to have someone you have to love her well.

    If sincerity is a hurt, choose a lie; If a lie is a disservice, choose silence; If silence is a disservice, choose to leave. If love is a hurt, don't come close. But there are many cases where this is not the case, because you can't help but choose.

    If loss is suffering, are you afraid to pay? If obsession was suffering, would you choose to end? If the pursuit is suffering, will you choose to be obsessed?

    If separation is suffering, to whom do you confide? There are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but the expression is imperfect.

    There is a kind of love that knows that you want to give up, but you are not willing to leave. There is a kind of love that I know is torment, but I can't hide it. There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart is not easy to take back.

    Love can be a momentary thing or a lifetime thing. Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love?

    A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely. It's only when you care too much about someone that love becomes a burden.

    In fact, life is like this, when you lose a beloved thing, there will inevitably be another item for you to like, and when you break up with your lover, there will inevitably be a better relationship waiting for you.

    Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I have thought about such a question before, and my answer is, I will choose someone who loves me! Because love can be cultivated slowly, he loves me, at least I don't hate him, I will slowly learn to love him, maybe in the near future I will find that I am happier and happier when I am with the person who loves me! So that's my choice

    If you choose someone you love, maybe you are so fiercely in love with him now, and when you really live together, you will slowly find that there are so many incompatible with each other! I have to be careful everywhere and pay attention to him together, for fear that there is a little bad for him to see and no longer love me, such a love, so tired, so tired, when a person feels that love gives him the feeling of tiredness, then this love will not last long!

    So? Choose wisely, choose the !! who loves me

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Affection requires both parties.

    Neither choice will be happy.

    Because if you choose the person you love, you are hurt; If you choose the person who loves you, then the girl will be hurt, because you don't love him at all, blindly paying, you will not be happy, it is recommended that you find someone you love and love you!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    What is love? Love is what you want to do. Love can be one-way, and the love between men and women must be mutual, blended with each other, that is, they will make some changes for each other.

    To be human you must love all that is good. First of all, you must love your own life, without which there is nothing. Just live to fulfill your love.

    Don't copy the universe of despair] What life is is the life of man. That is, first of all, you must be born and live. Life allows ordinary, but not mediocre.

    Life is wonderful, simple, happy, and painful, depending on how you understand the original meaning of life, which is also a person's outlook on life. We must love ourselves and others, but also love the earth and all the animals and plants in the world. [Don't copy the universe of despair] is not only to make your life meaningful, but also to make human beings continue, but also to make your own contribution to the progress of human civilization.

    The love between men and women needs to be heart-to-heart, and the marriage between husband and wife is to join hands until old age, and the longest life in the journey of life is two people working together, taking care of each other, helping each other, raising children, and mixing people to complete their lives. [Don't copy the universe of despair] love is not to share blessings, but to share difficulties, only when the wind and rain can still be connected, hand in hand, that is worthy of all of us to look up to the ordinary and extraordinary love. Men and women in love, if they love this person, they have to worry about this person, if they are always concerned about him (her) in their hearts, it is only to show that each other's feelings have come to fruition.

    The mutual concern for each other is really blazing and sweet, which is enough to show that each other's love has penetrated into every corner of your life, then you can get married. Happy to you!

    Desperate Fruits of Cosmic Labor].

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Two people are together for happiness, and breaking up is to relieve pain, you can't make me happy anymore, and I can only leave, me.

    When I left, it was also painful, but you must be more painful than me, because I said goodbye first, and pursued happiness first.

    It's me...

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When time passes, we forget that we once loved someone without hesitation, forgot his tenderness, forgot everything he did for me. I don't have any feelings for him anymore, I don't love him anymore. Why is this happening?

    It turns out that our love has been lost to the years. First love makes you forget time, and then time makes you forget love.

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