With such a boy and such feelings, what s wrong with me? What should I do?

Updated on society 2024-06-27
50 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It doesn't matter what you become, it's what you really want in your heart that counts. Sometimes people can't seem to see what is going on in their hearts, sometimes they just do things for their own dignity, and sometimes they just make decisions for someone's words, or a gesture and a look. The end result is like the moon at night.

    As long as you don't do things right with your heart, then it doesn't matter what the result is. Some people will cheat on the person they like because they love someone, and some people will say the opposite thing about their love. The original intention was just to love the good of his lover, but he was willing to be a man in his lover's heart** and not to see the person he loved sad.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I feel a little understood, to be honest, a man really uses his true feelings to date a person, he will remember some of this person, rarely talk about it with others, only tell her, there are many men with affection, depending on what kind of man you are encountering, if he realizes that he has shortcomings: the scare ...... he told youIf he really feels that he is really at fault, I think he will always pay attention to you and silently care about your ......Now you have to know what kind of feelings you have for him, whether it is the love of friendship or the love of love, you have to distinguish clearly, don't be busy making decisions, because to love someone is to love him from his heart, understand him, love him, and love all his ......There is also a kind of love called giving up.

    Friends can be made, ordinary friends, not close friends. Don't get to know him too much ...... eitherI don't know how you feel about the reply, I'm still very young, and I can only say these ......I also value feelings, and I have always been good to her ...... loveMake a friend.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Yes! Sometimes I feel like I don't want to be friends anymore when I break up. There is no such need.

    There is a saying about the signature, after a breakup, you can't be friends because you have hurt each other, and you can't be enemies because you have loved each other. My story is similar to yours. But I think that whether two people love each other or not, there is no need to contact each other after a breakup.

    It's good to bless silently in your heart, some things can be revived. So whatever is in each other's hearts, let it be a thing of the past. Never see you again.

    It's good to bury it in your heart. If you really meet it unexpectedly, it will smile in your heart. I think it's good.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's been so long, and how much hatred has faded, as long as you explain to him with your heart, everything will be fine.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It shouldn't matter now, don't look for him in the future, don't give him hope, after playing, people still want people to forgive, it was your mistake in the first place, this has been made up, everything else is enough, don't look for him in the future, otherwise he will entangle you again, frankly speaking, I have seen a woman like you, you know how happy it is to be accepted by a woman, and how cruel it is to tear it apart with your own hands when you give someone happiness, and then wait for that man's wound to heal after a while, Did you come to him again and try to rub salt into the wound? Cruel woman! Don't go to him if you don't love him, it's best for him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Or a word.

    If you love, you will persevere, and if you don't love, you will leave.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Is love omnipotent?

    No, don't force it.

    It's better to give up.

    If yes, work hard.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Which man is definitely the first love.

    Otherwise, it won't be like this.

    I hope you can be friends in the future.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Fool, you shouldn't touch this matter again after two years, you are reminding him of the pain of the year, and it is impossible for you to be friends

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can be friends, but not close friends.

    Don't get too close to each other, don't talk about too personal topics.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Of course you can be friends.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There are some things that you can't actually blame, a lot of them are common to human nature, of course you can be friends, but I guess it's hard for you to break off with him again.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    lz I can only say that you are so happy, I am a person who can love but dare not love. No one to love!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Possibly. But don't keep in touch too often.

    ..Like a normal friend. It's good to pass a ** once in a while. Otherwise, he will have some kind of illusion. Thought you might be bad.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's hard to be friends in situations like yours.

    If I were a boy, I wouldn't have contacted you again when I tried to forget, and I advised you not to contact him.

    If he contacts you, treat it as usual.

    Everything goes with the flow.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The fourth floor is right, when it is short, it will be broken, don't connect the lotus roots, otherwise there will only be disadvantages and no benefits.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I feel that this relationship is not good, it is better to break it off Once the friendship deteriorates, it will never come back, and it is also because I want to renew my old dreams in the future.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Well, this person must have it. It's just that it hasn't appeared yet. If it hasn't shown up yet, you'll need to be patient. If you don't wait for today, it doesn't mean that you won't wait for tomorrow, and if you don't wait for tomorrow, it doesn't mean that you won't wait for the day after tomorrow.

    Or maybe it's already there for you, but you don't have that much affection for him. That is to say, if there is already a person with such a possibility around you, then you have to grasp it well.

    If this person shows up, you treat her well for the rest of your life, and he will be very happy.

    So, if you can think so, you will definitely be happy.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Feelings are hard to come by

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It is recommended that you consult a psychiatrist, and the time to come will always come.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The person who is worthy of your life to her may not have appeared, there is always someone who is worthy of you waiting for her to appear for him It is only a matter of time, the person who does not accept you is their loss, why care too much?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Why don't you take the initiative to find a girlfriend?,If you don't take the initiative, do you still let people take the initiative?,Find someone you love and someone who loves you.,It's okay.。。

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Remember that the long pain is not a short pain, talk to A well, let him know that the feelings he doesn't like can't be happy, apologize like him, and then talk to him well, sometimes it's good to let him hurt, and at the same time you have to carefully consider the relationship between you and B, and whether B is worth it for you to hurt a person who likes you, and follow him, if it's worth it, do it, there is no right or wrong in this thing, only whether fate is like, don't force it, there is no perfect way on the road to feelings, Instead of living so tormented, it's better to let yourself go and give yourself and A an answer, otherwise it will hurt not only A but also yourself after a long time, if you think it's worth it, then you should judge it, those things on the TV series are all bullshit, don't believe it all, there are no such beautiful things in the world, you think about it and make a decision that you don't regret, but be cautious, if you can't, talk to A, don't torture yourself so much, I think A will be able to feel it after a long time, and be decisive.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Ask the question: Yes. I don't love him in my heart.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Break up with A peacefully, and then be with B, and if you can't get by, you will find O(O

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You can quarrel with him and break up with him because of a trivial matter. Don't feel guilty.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you go on like this, you're going to have nothing, so choose one that you like the most, and explain it to another, so that it's better to have a long pain than a short one.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Tell him everything as soon as possible, otherwise it will hurt more and more.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Then make good friends with boy A and boy B.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Don't delay whether it's good or not, just tell them if you don't like it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you don't like it, just make it clear. It's always inevitable that someone will get hurt.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If there was a good C, would you still like it?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Chick .........It depends on what kind of girl paper you are.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Hehe, I still prefer to help others

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Can you add me, I'll help you answer.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Men should be man... This estimate is not for you ... Men who don't have other ideas like msn, blogs and such things as simply won't keep their girlfriends a secret...

    If you don't have any other ideas. I also keep these things secret from my girlfriend.。。 That's a bit of a psychological problem...

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Since two people have a reason to break up, then there must be more or less problems. Now that you're separated from him, it seems like he's fine, but it's not very rational.

    You quit the game and look at your feelings. The reason why you broke up in the first place, was it really that you were vexatious? Not necessarily. Today this problem is over, and tomorrow you will still have the same problem when you are together.

    I don't think it's necessary to be nostalgic, you can be an ordinary friend.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    After reading it, I feel like a man

    I gave my QQ password to my girlfriend.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's better to be a classmate, I think.

    You have to learn to love yourself. It's easy to get lost if you always put don't worry too much.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Normally, it's your little boyfriend who is still having an awkward relationship. If he really wants to give up on your relationship, he will try to avoid your previous emotional exchanges, let alone send you movies or something. This situation requires one of the two of you to put down your body, and the relationship needs mutual understanding from both parties to cultivate, try to take a step back and take the initiative to explain it to him.

    This is just a little personal opinion of mine, the decision is still up to you, is it important to save face or is your relationship for so long important?

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    You are a girl, sometimes you don't understand a man's heart, a man is the best face, when he is with his friend, when he has something, you can't doubt him, and since you love him, you shouldn't doubt him, you say that he is still very good to you, proving that he still loves you, but he may feel that you are not suitable to be together, you can try this change, don't doubt him, give him enough free space. Welcome to it! Thank you!

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Girl, I've also experienced something like you, I can't let go of that boy like you, this is dependence, maybe that boy is also dependent on you, who knows! Have a good talk with him, do what you should do! Be happy

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    You don't have contact with other men, you can try to contact other men, you will find that he is so bad, you think a little farther, think about the future....

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    That's only your fault! In this world, you must know that there is no law between feelings and love, and everything that changes will change!

    You are with him like this, you play with feelings, and he plays with needs! So I suggest you leave early! Otherwise, it will hurt you a lot in the future!

    Remember that the bargaining chip in love is to lose yourself little by little! When you fall into it and can't pull it out, you lose completely

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    This is normal, whoever is with whom

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Why don't you find someone who really loves you and you like? Why torture yourself like this!!

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    If it's not what you like, ask yourself if you'll accept it and then reject it. It seems that he likes you very much, and as for whether you accept or reject it, of course it is up to you. The most romantic thing in the world is to grow old with you, and I agree with that.

    Talking sweetly every day, but can't be together, what's it? Plain is a blessing, money is inexhaustible, no money to spend less, money may not be happy. Besides, everyone has their own ambitions.

    It also depends on whether you have a common topic, whether you have an environment to integrate into, and consider all aspects well. Together is together, don't hurt anymore and say it's over; If you don't get together, don't contact you at all. Even no one will be happy.

    Hope it helps.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Listening to what you said, I think he is very good to you, he will take your words to heart and do it, and he is also very righteous towards his friends. But I don't know if you are ** people, he is 29 and 1700 is really not much. I feel like you really don't have any feelings for him, and he still has to be divided in the end, and he won't be happy if he continues to be his girlfriend in order not to lose his friend, and if someone chases him or something, it may delay him.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    I would like to say seven words:

    1.From what you wrote, I see that there are a lot of boys who are a little bit - sincere and true, responsible, mature and calm, etc.

    2.You don't like him, that's for sure. So you can't see at all, or rather turn a blind eye to the good aspects of him.

    3.I'm also a man, and I don't have any big ambitions so far. My friends, many brothers around me, they all live ordinary lives, walking in the ordinary, finding the direction of life. How many people have big ambitions? What about your ambitions?

    4.I can't see that you're 25 years old, you're immature. But obviously, we're all immature. When I was looking for it, I always said that the standard was not high, but I had already too high expectations of the other party in my heart.

    5.Tell it to you, but also to yourself. Before asking others, I still look in the mirror and weigh how many pounds and taels the person inside has, and how perfect he is.

    I don't know how many people are peaceful, I can't do it anyway. If you think you're okay, then you're narcissistic, and then look at those excellent people and feel inferior.

    6.Contentment is always happy, ordinary is true. Take a good look at him again, and if you suddenly really think he's good, then cherish it. If there is no happiness, warmth, touching, a sense of identity, and a sense of belonging, make it clear, don't delay others, let alone yourself.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Don't look at whether he likes you or not, whether you have feelings for him in your heart, if you don't feel it, then be a friend with him who is worse than your boyfriend and better than an ordinary friend, calmly accept his concern for you, and care about him, and then continue to find your true love!

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