Whether puppy love is conducive to physical and mental health development

I'm a junior high school student, I'm actually a bit precocious, and I have personal feelings about your question. I think this is very bad for physical and mental development, we are still too young, we don't know too much about many things, blind love, will only cause our suffering, and it will be extremely bad for our future growth, physical, mental, and spiritual. Although I am precocious, I am against puppy love.

Many people my age think that love is beautiful and want to taste what it is like to be loved, and everyone has this thought, and I admit that I have it too. But, in the end, it's just harm, not good. So, I firmly disagree with puppy love!

It is not conducive to the growth of physical and mental health.

Too young to control and grasp your emotions well.

For example, when there is a quarrel, the girl will often think about it, and she has no heart to do anything else.

It is certainly not conducive to a person who is truly physically and mentally healthy, and will have a very orderly arrangement of life and study. Instead of indulging in ignorance, how can it be conducive to the growth of physical and mental health?

Of course not good, and even more harmful.

It is good for a person's maturity, good for learning, if you can use it correctly, promote learning with each other, and if you have poor self-control, it's better not to.

Puppy love is like a small fruit that has just borne fruit.

It looks cute but it is green and sour.

Every one of us wants to try it.

So each of us will do something that we know is stupid and do it.

In fact, it's good to say that early love is good.

Saying that puppy love will ruin yourself may ruin yourself very badly.

Let's grasp the scale.

It is normal for adolescence to like someone.

Just like a person who has to look after himself.

Don't ruin your realization, and ruin others.

Lady, I hold neutrality

Yes, it can help with learning

It should be ok. It is beneficial for a person's maturation.

It's normal to want to do puppy love, because puppy love has to study hard, not collapse because of it.

For middle school students who are going to school, early love often becomes a psychological problem, and children with psychological problems will have psychological counseling. So, in real life, middle school students encounter annoying early love, and they have no way to solve it, how do psychological counselors help them get out of the predicament? Let's take a look.

Some people have long compared early love to a green apple, the implication is that love is immature at this time, if you are in a hurry to try, then the taste will not only be more sour than sweet. However, in the psychological counseling of middle school students, early love is a very common problem, especially for modern middle school students, because of the emergence of many incidents due to early love, the root cause of which is the immaturity of love psychology.

In recent years, there has been an increasing number of problems in students due to puppy love, and this real-life case that happened below is a stark example:

As a middle school student, because he was robbed of his "sweetheart" by his "rival in love", a student in Triangle Town actually spent his own money to buy the murderer and hired someone to chase and slash the "rival in love" with a knife, although the rival escaped by luck, but was seriously injured.

There are many violent incidents caused by early love like this, which can reflect that the psychology of early love among middle school students is immature and unhealthy. The middle school age is the first period of growing body and knowledge, and falling in love will inevitably divide the expectation and energy, affect academic progress, and affect the physical and mental health development. Once a setback occurs, it will bring more trouble and pain to yourself, and even cause serious consequences, bringing you lifelong regrets.

There is information that many of the current juvenile sex crimes, violence, and theft crimes are caused by early love.

There are many harms of early love, but there are still many such examples in middle school psychological counseling cases, which shows that early love is repeatedly banned. Of course, this is not entirely a problem for students, so in order to really let students consciously stop early love, this also needs the correct guidance of parents and teachers, that is, not blindly resisting, but slowly channeling psychologically, so as not to make students resist and make early love more and more intense.

Puppy love has always been a headache for parents and teachers, in the article, it does not tell us how to deal with it, but in the face of children's psychological counseling, I think, in the actual process, it is necessary to let parents and teachers further cooperate. The occurrence of disease is also an environmental factor, and parents should also treat it correctly.

1. Affect learning and wear out ideals.

Every young person has his own ideals, grand ambitions. If you are entangled in love problems during this period, you will definitely be distracted from your studies and waste a good time, which is tantamount to ignoring the great future of your life.

2. It is extremely detrimental to the psychological maturity of adolescents.

Adolescent early love, self-knowledge will be blamed and discussed by parents and other people in society, and at the same time, their thinking will produce a lot of burden, affecting the normal development of adolescent psychology. Some will even change their personalities, and the originally lively and innocent girls will become withdrawn and cold, and the phenomenon of overage will appear psychologically, which is extremely detrimental to healthy growth.

3. Treating love hastily will lead to lifelong bitter fruit.

Adolescent children often act hastily when distinguishing others and things and dealing with interpersonal relationships, and they are impulsive in their feelings, overpowering reason, and establishing a love relationship with the opposite sex, thus affecting the healthy development of adolescents' spiritual life.

4. Excessive behavior, causing crime.

Adolescent early love is mostly due to emotional impulses or out of mystery and curiosity of the opposite sex. This sense of mystery, curiosity, leads them to blindly imitate adults. When a teenager's intense curiosity and emotional impulse form a combined force, the very fragile intellectual defenses can be broken.

It even causes irreparable losses and trauma to the minds of young people. If you still have questions, you can consult Mr. Ai Fang; (Courtesy of Beijing Aifang Education).

Lack of understanding of love 3The other party may not be suitable for you, and you may meet someone who is more suitable for you in the future 4Without a clear view of love, not knowing how to plan for the future, and not daring to guarantee that they can be together when they grow up, one party may like someone else 5

Falling in love costs money, and we're consumers ourselvesFalling in love is not about following the crowd, not about showing off 7Young people are impulsive, and if they don't dare to promise, they won't do stupid things 8

Love is understanding, love is tolerance, love is mutual respect, many people who fall in love do not understand, and they are prone to emotional problems. 9. Early love is not conducive to the development of physical and mental health. 10。

If early love is not appropriate, it will lead to a sense of fear in the future!

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2.If it fails, you will never believe in love again.

3.Often a person is tired, which can affect mental and physical development.

4.Constantly forgetting the love of family members can lead to a short temper and sometimes hurt others.

5.Because of inexperience, they will do something wrong.

6.There is a certain amount of damage to the heart.

Disadvantage: 1Some people are not well controlled, which affects their own learning.

2.If it fails, you will never believe in love again.

3.Often a person is tired, which can affect mental and physical development.

4.Constantly forgetting the love of family members can lead to a short temper and sometimes hurt others.

5.Because of inexperience, they will do something wrong.

6.There is a certain amount of damage to the heart.

Because young love doesn't understand love, it is still a student and does not have complete values and worldview, and the ending must be incomplete or even tragic!

Puppy love is like knitting a sweater, a stitch and a thread when it is established, and it takes a lot of hard work to dismantle it, and the person you once loved the most becomes the most familiar stranger. The thread of this sweater is dragged in the hands of two people, happiness or pain, often in a thought.

There are still many harms of early love, which can be summarized as follows:

1. Affect learning and life. Some secondary school students mistakenly believe that "as long as two people are like-minded, it will not affect learning" or "promote mutual learning". However, from a medical point of view, young lovers are often centered on love, and their emotions are restrained by each other, coupled with physical and mental immaturity, it is almost impossible to not affect learning.

The reason why many parents and teachers can find out about their children's early love is often because their academic performance has declined.

Second, early love is easy to get hurt. Adolescents have an unstable attitude, are prone to contradictions in love, are psychologically immature, fragile and have poor tolerance, and are easily hurt by emotional twists and turns. Some teenagers doubt their lives because of the frustration of early love, casting a shadow on their emotional life, and even affecting their future married life.

3. Early love is prone to sexual negligence. Teenagers have a germinating sense of sexuality, are easily excited, and are reckless of the consequences of their actions because of their whims. And after deviant behavior, they will be ashamed to speak up and be afraid.

These will have an impact on the rest of your life. The inferiority complex and frustration that some people develop can even seriously affect their later life. In a survey of sexual offences, both male and female offenders were between the ages of 15 and 19 years of age when they committed their first sexual offence.

Fourth, it is extremely difficult to succeed in early love. The blindness and immaturity of early love, as well as the intervention of parents and schools, and too many factors such as going on to higher education, changing schools, and working make it extremely difficult to succeed. According to a study by social psychologists in the United States, men who marry before the age of 23 have the highest divorce rate.

The psychological causes of puppy love may be the following:

1.Growth environment: The influence of family, school, society and other environments on individuals may make individuals fall in love in advance. For example, the influence of the family on the individual, the influence among peers, etc.

2.Self-identity: Some individuals may have a strong need to identify with their identity, gender, social role, etc., during puberty, so they will seek a sense of self-identity through love.

3.Desire to explore: During their teenage years, individuals have a lot of questions and desires to explore their own identity and future, and falling in love can help them better understand themselves and others.

4.Social needs: During adolescence, individuals have strong social needs, and falling in love can meet their social needs.

It is important to note that puppy love may have a negative impact on an individual's physical and mental health, such as affecting academics, social relationships, mental health, etc. Therefore, it is recommended that teenagers should think carefully when falling in love and maintain a rational and healthy concept of love.

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