In the midst of the conflict, is he worth my pursuit?

Updated on society 2024-06-27
50 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    In my opinion, you like him very much, but he refuses your love, and I think he doesn't know how to cherish you, which is very hateful, but feelings are not forced, and whether it's worth it or not, I think he's worth it, and you've said it yourself, he's a very special person, then let go and chase after you, I'll always support you, you have to believe in yourself, you have to be confident, and if he wants you to be friends with him, then start by being friends, I believe this is a good start, don't give up on him, take your own practical actions to move him I'm sure he'll one day understand your love!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Personally, I don't think it's worth it.

    There are two simple processes for building a relationship between a man and a woman.

    From the man's point of view.

    1.I like you in the beginning, and then slowly pursue you. Finally together.

    2.Slowly discover your strengths, appreciate you, and like you. Finally together.

    Obviously your boyfriend is neither, it's more like a gamble where you don't admit that you're not attracted to the opposite sex.

    Also, his infatuation with the last relationship is actually also a question for you, a man's real love is only once, and obviously he gave it all to his ex.

    If it's not a loss of something, take it slowly, as long as you don't love too much. A girl who is a little arrogant is easy to fall in love with. Be careful.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's worth pursuing, after all, there aren't many people like this in modern society. But no one else can forget his ex-girlfriend! Sometimes giving up is an option. Maybe it would be better to fulfill others?!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    To be honest, a girl, I don't agree too much.

    Respond to all changes with the same.

    You, kid, let's take a look at the romance **, what a cliché story.

    Don't find a man who doesn't take himself very seriously, if you can't reform him, you will regret it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's best to be a friend first, and then slowly approach him, talk to him, and if you don't have the opportunity, then find your own time, and it's best to observe when he's lonely!!

    If you are not friends, you will soon break up, and the chance of becoming friends after you break up is very low, and if you want to become a couple, you have to move forward from friends (remember).

    This is my own "clinical" approach that succeeded on its own (* hee-hee-hee......

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Get your friends to help you sprinkle! ]

    You can ask your best friends to reconcile in the middle.

    Maybe he's really too shy!!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Maybe you're too proactive! Try not to say that to him at this time, just treat him as a friend.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's better not to! Love is a game, whoever falls in love first loses first. Love is mutually pleasing, he doesn't love you, why should you force it. What you can't get is not always the best, and you have to believe that there are many people who are better than him, but you don't know.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't think it's necessary.

    Because of loving someone

    The greatest thing about it is making him happy

    Since he felt happy to be with that girl.

    You can't chase it, because you can't give him happiness all the time.

    If one day he feels that the girl is no longer his happiness, your chance has come!

    Thank you for giving it to me, I'm a newbie, no one has given me a point yet! Thank you so much.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Let it be! Don't force it!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If I were you, I think it would be worth it. Because you love him, but please be prepared to be ready for no hug back while paying, now you will only have a little heartache, and when you understand your mistake, the reality is very cruel, you can't say that it's worth it or not, everything is not absolute, there is a good side, of course, there is a bad side. Maybe a hard work, a harvest.

    Maybe the bamboo basket is empty. You should understand that you are the one who stands at the crossroads, and it should be you who make the choice. There are gains and losses.

    Choosing is also equivalent to losing, and you will gain something while you lose. Good luck. There are some things that don't have to be forced, maybe fate has not arrived.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If your charm can overshadow his predecessor's, you will continue to put it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Let's see first, whether a person is worthy of liking or not, it is not something that can be seen in one thing, and it is possible that he is acting cool when he refuses you, right? Touch it again.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The more you can't get something, the more amazing you feel

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Although I am still young and don't understand anything, I know that whether a person is good or not, since he makes you fall in love, you have to believe in your own vision and believe that you will not be wrong

    But don't hang four on a small tree, because although there are not many such boys, there are after all, so give each other time, it's really not good, just look at the world and seek true love!

    A sophomore stayed

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Many people think that girls are very loyal to love, in fact, I never think so, especially for men and women nowadays, some men are very persistent in love, but women are not necessarily, because I have seen, experienced, and heard of too many empathy and love of women

    Landlord, I would like to ask, are you sure that your feelings for him are love?

    I guess,You're just a girl's heart.,The more you can't get it, the more you want to get it.,The landlord thinks about it from a different angle.,If he forgot his former girlfriend.,And get along with you.,Then the landlord in your point of view in his advantages are still there? Will you ever like him again?

    Is it possible that you feel good about him, just that he is loyal to love, but at the same time you want to be loyal to you?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you love him, pursue him! Why worry so much!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This kind of person, once he falls in love with you, it will be difficult to forget you, and he can't lose you, and he may be the ideal type of girl. But when you get along, you may not really want it. It's up to you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Maybe he's not better than your suitors, because his uniqueness makes you want to get what you can't get. You should think carefully about whether you really love him or because you feel that he rejects you and is unwilling.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Yes, there aren't many good boys left! Take advantage of it!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't, I don't think so.

    Unless you're really proactive, charismatic, and cheeky, you're hurting yourself.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Love is like picking up a stone, everyone wants to pick up the one that suits them best, although it is not as imagined. But I will also work hard to polish him into the kind I want. It's normal for you to have this kind of heart.

    But you also said it. You know He loves you. Then you should believe in Him.

    Don't be suspicious of him. People like to see beautiful things. Of course, there are also beautiful women.

    We girls will take a few glances when we see beautiful girls. But whether you are tempted or not is another matter. If he wants to be moved.

    No matter how much you manage him, it's useless. Of course. Love is also like sand.

    The tighter you grip, the more you lose. So don't worry about it that much. Don't think about how he might change his mind.

    If you love him. You should believe him. Believe in the love between you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    A repeater?

    Can a little kid in school be called mature?

    You are so innocent ... When you're really tired, let it go and think about it...

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    He's stupid enough, two years older than you and graduating three years later than you. Leave him alone and leave him to fend for himself!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Why is it so similar to me, my current boyfriend is also my junior brother who is a year older than me, in fact, you shouldn't ask if you should continue, if he really loves you, even if the beauties around him are like clouds, he won't look at it, this is the power of real love, love can withstand loneliness. If you simply control his time on yourself, then can you control it for a lifetime, or give him enough time, this time is also the time to test your love. If he just steps on a few boats, then he is not worthy of your love for him.

    Isn't it? So let's take a look at his performance first!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Forget it, don't love if you're too tired to love, just let it be.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Actually, your problem is a minor problem, so you don't need to be so bothered! Really, you don't have to make the problem so serious! Maybe it's because you care too much about the other person!

    Since you also know that he also likes you, it means that you are in love! So what's there to worry about, hehe! People who love art like beautiful things, that's for sure, because art is originally a thing that pursues beauty!

    I love art too! I also like pretty girls, but that's just admiration at most, and just like me, I don't like my girlfriend all my heart! Believe him too!

    I wish you all happiness!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Features: amorous, good to make girls happy; There are many female friends, with a wide area, all over the north and south of the river; There are many kinds of female friends, from 8 to 80 years old, from illiterate to Saint Seiya (exaggeration); Wake up late, less than 30-40 years old don't know how to cherish.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Life is like a ruthless knife that changes the way we look. Everyone changes over time, but the main thing is how much the person has changed, and where he has become. That's the most important thing.

    If his change has seriously affected your happiness and your mood, then whether he is right or wrong, you should leave him. After all, it's your own happiness that counts. Why bother with him.

    Life is like this, there is no right or wrong, only what is not suitable. His deviation has been detached from your value track, go and let it go boldly! Go and re-pursue that true love that belongs to you!

    I wish you happiness and happiness forever!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You love him as a person, your thoughts have changed, people have changed, just give up, he is no longer the person you loved!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    People change with the change of life environment. No matter how he changes, it's okay if he still loves you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Perhaps, he has not changed. It's because you care more about him than before, that's why you think he's changed. Feelings are a matter of two people, and whether you give up or not is also your own business.

    No one can help you, feelings, in fact, you just have to be true to your heart, you just have to think that it is worth it, it is worth it. Even if you love or get hurt, but you have that process, at least you don't regret it, right? Leave it to the rest.

    Love is destined to hurt.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you still love him, it's worth it; If you don't feel it anymore, let it go.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Everyone will change more or less with the passage of time, in the advertising slogan of FIYTA: the only constant in this world is change.

    The key is to see if you are on the same page, or if you are in the same direction.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Everyone changes as they grow, and it's a matter of two people, have you talked about it?

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Personally, I think it depends on whether he deserves your love!

    First of all, does he cherish you! Do you care!

    Secondly, there is nothing that no one can live without, and your personal thoughts are important! You have to think about why two people have to be together, time has changed, people have changed, whether you (or he) will still cherish what you have now, whether you care about this!

    Don't let go of anything!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's better for women to be rational, so that they are not easy to get hurt ......

    In fact, liking is a habit, not just a habit, you have to have something in common.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Not necessarily, try to adapt to him now! If it doesn't work, give up.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Emotional problems like this, others generally can't help you, you have to think about it yourself.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I think it's definitely not realistic for men to be inattentive!

    Maybe now hugging you, and a beautiful woman walking next to him, he will still glance at it a few times.

    You don't have any evidence that he's stepped on several boats, and none of them have been confirmed, so you're too sensitive.

    All you have to do is show your charm and capture his heart!

    Also, it's really hard to get a man to only be a woman!

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I think he'll cherish you.

    As long as you truly repent and treat him well.

    As for whether he will cherish you or not, it can be seen from his actions.

    I believe you will be happy.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Girl, listen to the answer you want to be most inclined to, and don't let yourself regret ......

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I guess you have a show when you go back, go and try it.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    You can try to contact him to see if he still likes you, if you do, as long as you are willing to pay for him, I believe he will cherish you.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Whether it's worth it or not, you should ask yourself. In the dead of night, sit down and think about what you expect to get in a relationship between two people and what he can give you.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Of course it will, the world is not as cold as most people say. It's good to you, such people should be cherished.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    If there are no other women around him, then he must have not forgotten you, you can try to find him, and the two of them will communicate more.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    If he's still as nice to you as ever, go back to him.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    1 All Obviously Not Worth It · Obviously, you have to let go, love, don't be so humble, you know, he doesn't care about you at all

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    In fact, you don't have to care too much, you don't have to marry him, you are free, you can do whatever you want.

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