I broke up with my girlfriend of four years and haven t been able to pull herself together

Two people who love each other do not continue to walk because of each other's habits, but because they love each other to be happy. Now that you are a person, you can devote yourself to your work, and after making some achievements, you can choose whatever you want. Don't let yourself think about her, it's best to forget.

Why should a great husband have no wife?

It's better for him to leave you now than if you got married and divorced. If you want to open up, there is no need to be sad for people like him.

I don't know why people should be so realistic now.

Hey, I'm in the same situation as you, and I've been in love for more than 4 years, and my girlfriend who has been in love for more than 4 years has left me and barely eaten for a few days, and I think about reminiscing about pain every day, hehe, but you also ignore a lot of things, she didn't leave you because of these things before, but now she leaves you, I guess the reason is not here, that is to say, her departure from you is not accidental, but inevitable, don't put your mind on this, how long have you not done what you should have done, the past is always the past, memories are always memories, there is no point in living in it, there is a wall in front of you that you think you can pass through In the end, it's just a bloody head.

I understand you, so I don't want to persuade you. Breaking up with someone you've been in love with for four years is really not something that heals quickly, it takes time.

Not long ago, my boyfriend and I, who had been in a relationship for four years, also developed to the point of breaking up. To this day, I still feel that his words hurt me deeply.

Because he was busy for a month, we only met four times a month, and he usually didn't call ** a day, and there were no more than 5 messages, and gradually, I felt that he had changed. For the first time, he admitted to me that he had indeed changed, and that he had lost the patience he had with me. After hearing this, I really broke down, the man was haggard for a few days, and I really didn't believe that he would change me.

Although he said sorry afterwards because he was too busy with work, he said that he still loved me.

But I really found that my heart was hurting, that's a fact.

Two people really can't be together for too long, and if they have been together for a long time, there are only two best outcomes, breaking up and getting married.

We can understand you, you're a good man, don't figure it out, what she said makes sense. But it also shows that this woman is realistic.

Whether she has a good development, a good goal. Such a woman is also difficult to raise.

You want to live more beautiful than when you had her, you have to be happy to see her, and she feels more right to leave you when you are like this.

Develop your career well, for the future, for the future, and even more for her sentence that can't support her, the most feared sentence by men.

I'm sorry to hear such a sad thing.

But trust me, time can change everything, and since she chooses to break up, you, as a man, should bless her even more, because you have loved her, and you will want her to have a better life

Time will dilute and may be a lot longer for you.

I want to open it a little!

There is no grass at the end of the world!

Agree with the upstairs, if she doesn't love you, will she care if you suffer? Is > worth it? Also, if a girl asks too much of you, of course, it's a good thing, but if you can't meet these requirements, don't you feel annoyed?

So maybe you'll do better without her.

Are you a man who can't live without love? If yes, all I can say is that your girlfriend was right to leave you at that time, you broke up and couldn't even take care of yourself, and it's hard for me to imagine what else can I do to take care of her? To give her happiness?

Men don't have the ability to take a blow at all, how can you make people feel that you are safe. Think about it for yourself