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There is no need to be selfless, people are inherently selfish, you have to be clear about this, this is not a shortcoming, it's just nature, two people together must have one party to pay more, the other party to accept more, this is a problem of character, but the party who pays more is not called selfless, but what he needs is the feeling that others depend on him, he pays, and then gets the affirmation of others, then he is satisfied, and usually this kind of person thinks too great, that is, he thinks of himself as a bad person, and one day they will always be unable to stand it, no way, in fact, many people are like this So you don't have to have doubts about yourself, pursue what you like, although there is always a lot of helplessness in reality, but there are still so many people who stubbornly pursue what they yearn for, maybe many times it's just that we complicate things ourselves, so the results are never expected, this is life, remember whether it is to give or return, it is about how much we have done, not how much we have thought about it, and it is enough to try to do what we want to do as much as possible.

You made one of the biggest mistakes.

It's that you never know.

Want people to be selfless for you.

You have to be selfless first. Complete.

If you want to be mature, you must first have a city government, and selflessly treat you well except for your parents, it is estimated that you also know,

Yes, it's a pity that after you are done, others think that although you have a purpose, because they don't believe that there are selfless people in the world at all, they add their subjective consciousness to the things that are selfless, and they will do all kinds of things, which will hurt you to the extreme, and finally turn you into selfishness, and if you stay on the earth, you will eventually be assimilated by the earthlings and fade into an earthling! I hope the landlord will change his mind as soon as possible, and don't wait until after a thousand cuts to figure it out!

The world has always been beautiful, and you want to be optimistic about yourself.

Well, because parents always guide us on the right path in life and educate us on how to behave ......

It depends on the situation, if you are wrong, and you don't admit it, of course, parents will take "force" action, and parents will not beat you for no reason.

Most of them! But some parents beat their children because they are in a bad mood and get angry with their children!

The reason for the stubbornness of parents is related to their own cultural cultivation.

Friend, I think that if you can think like this, it means that you already have dialectical and mature thinking.

Nietzsche's words may be enlightening to you. He said that a mature person should realize that it is selfish and disrespectful for parents to bring their children into this world without their consent.

But that's just in a philosophical sense.

First of all, who can be selfless in everything and respect others in everything?

I'm afraid most people love themselves first.

Specifically, the matter of having a child.

It's not that parents want to be selfish, it's that parents can't decide whether to have children with their children's consent first.

I believe that most kind-hearted children are not only for themselves, but also to give their children a happy life. Modern people live under a lot of pressure and receive more education, so more and more people must have good material conditions before having children, which is a kind of responsibility and selfishness.

Most parents have done everything they can to fulfill their children's happiness. If the child is not happy, should you find the reason from yourself?

Of course, no one gives birth to children to find fault for themselves, and of course they hope that the younger children will be equally responsible for the elderly in the future.

Parents raise their children and try their best to give them happiness, and children try their best to live and try their best to give their parents happiness. It's a process of giving and paying. It is also the basis for the harmony and order of all things.

No one wants to give back, it's just that many people don't mention it, but it doesn't mean they don't care. Just like parents, they give, but they never mention anything in return. But of course, they also want their children to reciprocate.

Therefore, children's filial piety and pension are affirmations of their own efforts. Who wouldn't want to reap that kind of family fun?

Besides, parents think more about themselves or their children are happier, I think these two aspects are not contradictory, they want their children to be happy, but also hope that they will be happy in the future, and the happiness of their children can achieve the happiness of their parents.

From human psychology, I feel driven by the fundamental optimism of human beings. We know that it is hard to live in the world, so why do we all try to live? Because people have hope, people are optimistic, and they feel that the future will be better.

Therefore, parents give birth to children in the hope of a happier life. Whether it's a child, or yourself.

It's easy to have a baby, but it's hard to raise a child.

For the vast majority of parents, they feel as if having a baby is a great thing. In fact, humans are also animals, reproduction is instinctive, as long as the body is fine, what is the technical difficulty?

But what makes man human is that he is able to transcend the physiological instincts of animals and gain wisdom, not just begotten.

Nowadays, many parents simply do not have a clear and correct concept of parenting.

Raising means to let the child grow up healthy and strong, and avoid anything that may harm the child's health as he grows up.

The meaning of education is to let the child receive a positive and optimistic education, and avoid anything that may mislead and harm the child's soul in the process of growing up.

Therefore, since ancient times, China has had the traditional virtue of repaying the kindness of parents, but there is no saying that repaying parents for giving birth to their own kindness, which shows that it is not important to have children, but it is really important to raise children, and this is the fundamental difference between human and animal reproduction, and it is also the fundamental difference between human beings and animals.

If you want to define absolutely, there is no such thing as altruism in the world.

There are several considerations for having children, first, human instinct, second, family mission, third, comparison psychology, etc., fourth, raising children to prevent old age, and fifth, maintaining the family.

If it is said to be selfless, it is also relatively selfless, the reason why people are selfless to their children is mainly out of instinct, rather than people's subjective thoughts, before life may be a game mentality, after birth is more responsibility.

In fact, thinking about this question is very simple, and you can know it by experiencing it yourself.

Ever heard of this term? Raising children to prevent old age!!

That's right, so you are born to cry, and you are a warrior when you leave your mother's arms.

In this world, no one should be good to you except your parents, and if someone is good to you, you should cherish it more.

I believe it, but their good for me is on their side, sometimes it's not all right, but the starting point is for our good, there is no doubt about it, never doubt that no parent will harm their children.

It's not easy for parents, but they will also take their own interests into account when they help you make heavy choices.

Believe it or not, you will be a parent in the future, and you will realize it when the time comes.

Of course I believe that tiger poison does not eat children

Believe! 100% convinced!

Why else would your family spend money to support you and provide for your education?

You'll understand this when you're older.

The 2nd floor is very right, parents are indeed not all right sometimes, and the starting point is still for you.

Parents quarrel with you, scold you, and even beat you, all of them hate you because iron is not steel.

So try to be considerate of your parents.

It's good that you can appreciate this, most people will experience the hard work of being parents only after they get married and become parents! Don't be sad, you can understand these in the future, just care more about your parents, usually go home to see, if you can't go home often because of work, then play more** Go home, chat with them, talk about family life, this is enough for them, the older people are, the biggest hope in their hearts is that their children can be happy and safe, as for your girlfriend, you also have to communicate with her more, first of all, you must honor your parents, if you can't do this, don't waste time! Your burden is heavy! Come on.

The most hated are people who are now married and divorced.

They don't care, you know how much it hurts their children?

How can I look up in front of my classmates and friends!

I don't think the laws of the country are complete

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read