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In the countryside, there are many strange customs, which seem a little incomprehensible now, but these are indeed old customs that have been passed down from generation to generation in the countryside and are difficult to completely change. Although society has developed and the thinking of the peasants has been greatly influenced by social trends, some bad old customs have been abolished, but there are still some old customs that are still used today. There are five taboos about visiting the door, and if you don't know, you will not only be disliked by others, but you may even be kicked out of the house.

In the countryside, it is fulfilling and happy to cope with the sunrise in the morning, work gradually for the day with a shovel, and go home with the sunset at night. However, this type of busy farming usually lasts for three to two months, and the rest of the time is spent at home. Sometimes it's really boring to be alone at home.

The next-door neighbor chatted and reminisced. Everyone is so happy and comfortable together, but some people come to my house all day and night when they are free. As the host, you need to be there for you again.

In that way, you are getting in the way of someone else's normal life.

The countryside is a small social development where everyone knows each other, understands each other, and is related to several generations. Therefore, there are some people who are always concerned about other people's affairs during visits. However, some people always like to listen to other people's family affairs and gossip when they visit them.

In particular, it is very easy to cause misunderstandings between neighbors.

In rural areas, when visiting someone's home, the next-door neighbors will ask for help from each other, but if they can't, they must resolutely refuse, and the next-door neighbors can understand. However, knowing that this is impossible, I still want to show off the face of Haikou City. In conclusion, not only did I lose trust, but I also got bored with other people.

The next-door neighbors know each other and couldn't be more familiar. Everyone trusts each other and never justifies it. The door to the courtyard was also opened. However, it is taboo to visit others when they are sick, so it is best not to visit at this time.

There is an old saying in the countryside, "If you wear filial piety, you don't go to your neighbor's house." If a person's family dies, Dai Xiaoren can't come. This custom is widespread in most rural areas of the country.

Because for outsiders, a visit at this time will bring bad luck to the other party. So is there such a custom in your hometown? Do you think these customs in the countryside are reasonable?

Under normal circumstances, don't go to the door when you are eating in someone's house, and don't go to the door when the neighbor has just woken up or is about to go to bed, and don't take your own very naughty child to the door, and don't let the child move around in other people's homes when you take the child to the door.

Don't ask others if they have eaten when you visit the door, don't be arrogant, be sure to speak quietly, don't always say some bad things, saying that other people's families are very poor.

Don't go to someone's house when you visit the door. Be careful to carry some gifts on hand. And pay attention to the way you visit the door, but also pay attention to the respect for others, but also pay attention to talk to others in advance, don't suddenly go to other people's homes.

Don't say things you shouldn't say, don't conflict with others, don't scold them, don't deceive them, and you must know when to say something.