How do you develop a sense of communality in your children?

When a child is born, the values are imperfect, and everything depends on the education of the parents. From an early age, children should develop a sense of nurturing and politeness, which is the basis for children to cultivate a sense of public awareness and respect for others in the future. We must start with the small things in life, start with the small things in life, so that children know the importance of politeness and the importance of respecting others.

Don't make loud noises in public places, take the subway to lead children to wait in line, don't litter, and show children to listen to them.

It is to tell the child at a very young age that he lives in a collective, and his every move may affect others, so he should not be presumptuous.

In public, first of all, you should lead by example, and secondly, when your child is not doing well, you should immediately point it out and tell him why he is wrong.

Don't make loud noises in public places, and follow the rules in public places at all times.

Parents should improve their public awareness and awareness, and parents in Western countries have a different public awareness of their children than many of our Chinese parents. Western parents will tell their children not to throw garbage everywhere because sanitation workers are very hard. And many Chinese parents not only throw garbage everywhere themselves, let their children throw garbage everywhere, but also tell their children that the cleaner is responsible for cleaning the garbage, and I have even heard someone say, if you don't throw garbage, what do you want a cleaner to do?

Can such parents raise publicly-minded children?

Words and deeds, parents' and elders' daily living habits, language, dressing and so on all the time affect children. Therefore, the school teachers taught them earnestly, and when they returned home, their parents and elders should always pay attention to their words and deeds.

As a parent, you must set a good example for your child, dress neatly in public, do not smoke, do not litter, be humble and polite to others, and take your child to do it with you if you have the opportunity.

A person's degree of civilization is always reflected in ordinary small things: such as queuing in an orderly manner, blocking the door for others, standing on the right side of the fast lane by rolling elevators, not talking loudly in public places such as subways and buses, making way for the first person in the elevator, and loving the grass and flowers around him, the civic quality of a country is reflected through these small things. From an early age, pay attention to the training and guidance of "public awareness" for children, and they will become a civilized person with public consciousness when they grow up.

The development of a sense of rules is not an overnight thing, and children's self-control is weak, and sometimes there will be cases of violating rules. At this time, parents should guide their children calmly instead of punishing them. However, it is feasible to apply natural punishment appropriately.

The formation of a sense of rules sometimes requires a certain price to be paid in order to make children move from "other discipline" to "self-discipline".

Invite children and adults to set some rules together, because parents always tell children to do this, not to do that, and in many cases, children do not understand why there are such rules. In the process of establishing rules, you can communicate, discuss, and explain patiently with children, which not only sets rules for children, but also makes children more determined, and adults lead by example and adhere to the rules with children. We often hear a sentence that parents are the first teachers of children, children are the shadows of parents, and every word and deed and every action of parents is the content of children's imitation.

Some living habits in daily life: such as regular work and rest, hygiene habits, polite habits, etc., parents ask their children to do, they must first do it and do it well. The requirements of social life, such as traffic rules, parents should consciously abide by them when traveling with their children, emphasize public morality and order, and influence their children with their own behavior.

Parents themselves should not speak loudly in public, especially in the presence of children. Teaching by word and deed, persuasion can only achieve the effect of conveying the wishes of parents, and only the personal demonstration of parents can really affect children's behavior and habits. When stopping the child's noisy behavior, parents should pay more attention not to scold loudly, but they can be stopped with behavioral interventions, and generally when I encounter this situation, I will take the child to a relatively closed place for education, he.

When he is four or five years old, there is a lot of noise, and in extreme cases, we will send him home and deprive him of his right to participate, which is also a form of punishment.

Parents should set an example for their children. Parents who ask their children to do it are the first to do it, and parents who ask their children not to do it, parents take the lead in not doing it. For example, before going out, put your own garbage into the garbage bin in the community with your children, and tell your children that the sanitation workers are very hard and should minimize their trouble.

Teaching by word and deed has a profound impact on children, and parents who abide by social morality will naturally bring out children who abide by social morality.

In order for their children to grow up to be qualified citizens, they should cultivate a sense of citizenship from an early age. If we say that a citizen refers to a person who has a certain nationality and enjoys certain rights and assumes certain obligations in accordance with the provisions of the constitution or laws of the country. Then, letting children consciously understand the truth of being such a person is a necessary prerequisite for our family education.

We are cultivating Chinese citizens, so let our children realize that everything that Chinese citizens do must conform to China's national conditions, inherit the fine traditions of the Chinese nation, proceed from China's reality, and follow the provisions of the Chinese Constitution. To cultivate a sense of citizenship, it is necessary to publicize that citizens enjoy all the rights stipulated in the Constitution, but after all, children have not yet obtained citizenship rights, and they belong to "quasi-citizens". Therefore, it is more about instilling a little civic duty in the child.

The goals of civic education are, of course, the same as the goals of national education as a whole. In terms of content, it is moral, intellectual, physical, aesthetic, and labor, which are the necessary conditions for being a qualified citizen.

In the process of establishing the concept of civic consciousness, we should not only sing happy songs, but also talk more about difficulties to children, and parents should not be too pampered with their children. We, the citizens of the future, must gradually establish the ambition of worrying about the country and the people, working hard to start a business, and the ambition to go all out to make progress.

Yes, it's mainly related to their teaching model.