I m annoyed and don t know if it s the right thing to do?

Updated on society 2024-06-10
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, he just rejected your love very tactfully for this reason, indicating that he no longer loves you, and being with someone who doesn't love him is just wishful thinking, and feelings are two people's affairs, and you should agree.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Time will tell. It can be seen that you are kind, but sometimes you also have to be capable enough to ensure that your kindness will not be harmed by others.

    Two people who love each other are not spending money before and after, but should support and trust each other in difficult times.

    Since he politely rejected you, you have to be more open-minded, there are many good men in the world, so why hang yourself in a tree!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    He said that in order to be able to study better, it may just be an excuse. Since that's the case, then forget it, it's happier to find someone who loves you than to love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you still like him! You just go for it! Lest you come back to regret tying yourself!

    Personally, though, I don't think he loves you anymore! Figure it out for yourself!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you still love him, you should continue to fight for it and don't let yourself have regrets in the future.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The happiness of love is bipolar and will not give up and will not be obtained.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hehe, time will make you understand little girl.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Do you want to be happy?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Beat up, beat, beat, beat, beat.

    What are you doing? Isn't it just a stinky man?

    Find one.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Why do you feel bad? Depressed. Lonesome.

    Emptiness. Upset. Vexation.

    Bored. Suffering. There is pressure.

    Confused. Alone. It's because the surrounding environment is affecting you.

    This world is inherently painful, without exception. A painful life is inherently boring, and you shouldn't be hurt by this.

    There are a thousand excuses if you want to annoy your brain. All you need to be happy is a reason or a belief.

    When you're in a bad mood. Depressed. Lonesome. Emptiness. Upset. Vexation. Bored. Suffering. There is pressure. Confused. Alone.

    You can give yourself a goal and a belief. If you don't bother yourself, others will never be able to bother you. Because of your own heart, you can't let go.

    When you are happy, you have to think that this happiness is not eternal. When you are in pain, you have to think that this pain is not eternal. Don't waste your life on a place you're bound to regret.

    Every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity. I have experienced it as the price of growth, so I have learned it. Love is not charity, and it cannot be given casually.

    Feelings have no formula, no principles, and no reason to follow. The same bottle, why do you want to hold poison? In the same way, why should you be full of troubles?

    It's going on right now, no matter what your own mood is.

    You can't dictate what needs to happen. It's a day to be happy, and it's a day to be depressed. Tomorrow is not yet here, so there is no need to worry about it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You don't belong to her, and she doesn't belong to you, so you still have to go, and when we meet again, you'll still be friends.

    Because it's the end of the year, she may have to go home under normal circumstances, and she will be busy with her family for a year, such as preparing New Year's goods or something. However, she should be the same as you, you don't belong to her, it's better not to see each other when you break up, just because she has feelings for you, so she doesn't dare to come and say goodbye to you, so you don't have to be sad, isn't it good to leave yourself a good memory?

    You should gracefully turn away and continue to force, only to make yourself more and more miserable. What you should work hard now is to be a happy self again, it is recommended that you dress up to be more confident and handsome, participate in more external activities, expand your social circle, and re-meet the girl you like, we will definitely be here to cheer for you!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's useless for you to move this feeling, she is a hurried visitor in your life, your short-term psychological comfort, on the contrary, she has always treated you as her psychological comfort.

    Take it as a memory in your life, remember that there was such a person in your heart, and neither of you could give each other happiness, and neither of you had the ability.

    Look at it a little bit, and be grateful to have had this relationship.

    In the future, if you look at the reality, you are not suitable. You are just immersed in a short period of love, you don't know what she is, you don't know her personality, personality, lifestyle, even if you are together, you can't be happy.

    Take advantage of the good memories now and leave, at least the memories will be happy in the future!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    For the love of the inexhaustible wounds, successful men are not sad about money Is there still true love in the world? Yes But I have to pass five levels and cut six generals, and the first round of the comprehensive conditions is not good, and the handsome poor bastard can survive to the second level, and as long as he does not go bankrupt, he can survive for 20 years People are so vulgar now, you see how many handsome guys in those beautiful star circles ignore it, they are all married into wealthy families, it is better to marry well, and it is worth it to get a scar with a knife in the stomach If you have time, money, and energy, how to go to Guilin? It's not our vulgarity, it's not vulgarity, it's worldly customs

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's no big deal, you don't have an agreement.

    In fact, there will be no result in your emotional giving, it will be wrong from the beginning.

    Because of your age differences, your experiences, and so on.

    Let go early, get rid of it early, and start a new life early.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Is the relationship very deep, if you are really emotional, go to him, there is only one chance, and if you miss it, it will be gone. Although he may be a little embarrassed, maybe he is waiting for you. Come on. Friend.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    After reading your story, I think you should still say goodbye to her. Once a woman's relationship has been hurt, it is basically difficult to trust others anymore. Aren't the feelings at the beginning all about vows, and in the end, they all end up with "this hatred lasts forever".

    Even if you do a good job, or if she really loves you very much, she doesn't have the courage anymore, she doesn't have the courage to get hurt again. What's more, under the atmosphere of material marriage, she can't explain it to her parents. It's good to love her, see her for the last time, forgive her, and let yourself go.

    I wish you to find happiness soon.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Maybe it's right, maybe it's wrong, the two are not on the same track, they are destined to be inseparable, you are still young, your road is still very long, if it's not yours, it's not yours, "sometimes you have to have it, and you can't force it all the time in life".

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    What do you love about her? Have you thought about it?

    You just want to be warmed and cared for.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I want to say that everything is your own self-inflicted amorous From beginning to end, you actually know very well in your heart what kind of woman she is, her feelings for you, you also know very well that the relationship between you has no future, it can also be said to be a play, you are a lover, maybe you have imagined that she will fall in love with you during this period of being a lover, and will change for you, I think you should have had this childish fantasy, you seem to be very simple, but I think you are at least a good man Give your care and feelings to the good girl who really loves you in the future Love is to love each other first to have a future So that you can have a sense of security Finally, I hope you will come out of this relationship quickly Because you are really not worth it to shed tears for her I wish you can find a girl who really loves you I wish you happiness.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Dude, looking at your description, you should be moved by real feelings, I want to know what you mean by leaving, is it a simple distance to leave her, I think you need to talk about your relationship now, she must have a lot of unspeakable secrets in her heart, she needs your good comfort, she doesn't care how rich you are, she only cares how much you care for her, so if you don't have anything urgent, just wait a minute, talk to her, if you disappear so suddenly, I think she will be sad again, Finally found a person like you who can care for her in every detail, a spiritual support, and now it has suddenly disappeared, her already fragile heart will be worse, if you really love her and care about her, tell her.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Yes, like you are dating now, but her ** number and some dating requests do not agree to you, and even tell you that she has four lovers. I think a man who can tolerate this is already a good man. But until you find out anything about her, it's best not to give too much, otherwise you'll hurt yourself.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Friend, I can understand your mood very well, but maybe she didn't really love you, you are just a confused relationship, some people say: love is like pulling a band, the injured one is always unwilling to let go! She is indeed a very temperamental girl, but she may not belong to you!

    You must say goodbye to her! And truly show her that you love her! Even if it's useless, you have no regrets.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Yes, time will tell, goodbye.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You should definitely make your life wonderful once, and if you don't succeed, you will become a benevolent. Life is just like this, only if you work hard will it be wonderful and colorful. In this way, when you are old, you will not regret giving up at that time when you are recalled, and you will make every effort to make the right way for a man!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Yes, that's right, you'll be even more uncomfortable to see her.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    She doesn't like you much! The twisted melon is not sweet, let it go.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Alas, if he really loves you, can he not come?

    Don't be stupid, I know you're sincere, but the more you do this, the more you look cheap, and the current one only shows that she has a crush on you at most.

    It's not that I love you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Pretend to be you, you just didn't pull her up, and if you don't get it, it's the best.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Frankly I don't know which direction to point in to you because I'm having the same problem as you :

    I'm also dealing with a sensitive person, and I'm a sensitive character myself.

    But he always said that I was thinking too much, and that he was actually very simple. But he also thinks of me very complicated! In fact, living in such a chaotic real society, who can be simple?

    I think when a problem arises, we should choose to face it, and what about him? He chose not to retreat, not to move forward, but to dodge, sometimes it disappeared like air, there was no news, and when I decided to give up, he appeared in my life frequently, and I couldn't laugh or cry.

    That's how I see it, the emotional thing is that you can't force it, and the second is to understand your heart and understand what you really want (sometimes it's difficult). I feel that love is like a spark, beautiful but not lasting; Feelings are different, when you decide to accept or pay for a relationship, you have to take care of it with your heart, because the road to emotional growth can not only be harvested, but more to pay, just like sowing, if you only think about how to harvest in the harvest season, and forget the hard work that should be paid during the sowing period, imagine that there will be fruitful fruits in the harvest season?

    I once read a quote from Dale Carnegie: When you ask someone to do the same thing, you have to do it yourself. Life is like this, often the more you want to get something, the less you can't get it, which doesn't mean that you are unlucky, but that you ignore what you have got.

    I want to say that the reason why you are struggling with this relationship shows that you care about it very much, and you are full of expectations for it, expecting it to be closer to your requirements and be perfect. But where is there perfection? Relax your mind and take a step back to think, maybe you will get more, as long as you restore the effort you thought about the relationship.

    Of course, you can't be a man without principles, and giving is not a fearless sacrifice, you can tell your boyfriend what you think in the right situation, and tell him how to do it to make you happier. You can say these things generously, listen to what he thinks, whether he didn't notice, or he doesn't care, and then it's not too late for you to make emotional trade-offs, you say.

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