What do you know about the people in society after work?

When I was tired, I made a wedding dress for someone else.

MAN LIVES WITH DESIRES ... There are many kinds of desires.

It turns out that there are really unspoken rules.

The team is the same boat ferry. There is no consistent direction of the common crossing will be scattered.

Form and reality! Even a new employee was beaten up for not accompanying the training for a wrong thing, and I ran away.

Say what others like to hear, do things that are satisfying, and don't let yourself suffer, that's called ability, start by caring about others.

It's so hard to be a good person.

Don't be led away by the sophistication of others, and it is not completely selfish to go your own way, it is my most understanding of the sophistication and pride of human feelings!

That unreasonable partiality drives me crazy, and I always feel like she's telling a lie. I especially like people who tell the truth what they are.

Human affection is also a kind of debt, a responsibility, which invisibly restricts people's freedom, so that people get emotional security at the same time, but also make people feel the pressure and obligation to repay debts, and even feel that they are living for others, there is an indescribable concern and uneasiness. In officialdom, favor and social credit are the entanglement points of internal contradictions, and they often have to choose between becoming lonely and abusing power.

We don't come to work to make friends, and it's good to meet like-minded friends, but it's unrealistic to expect to be friends with all of our colleagues and bosses.

I have been working for several years, I understand a lot of people sophisticated, such as when eating with leaders or colleagues, we should take the initiative to order, don't stupidly give the menu to the other party, this is a kind of respect, because only you order food for others is to express the importance of the other party, if you are afraid then you can't pinch the other party's taste, you can ask, this will not damage your image in the hearts of others. When I first graduated, I also asked others to order food, and after a long time, I became familiar with it, and an old employee told me not to do this, it is very disrespectful to people. ‍

Without relationships, it's as bad as taking a class, you don't have a book, and no one wants to lend you a copy......Work is not foolproof, there will always be accidents, and if you don't have extra support, you will definitely be crushed by yourself.

All of them pay the cost, but they are the beneficiaries. In today's prevalent commercialization, the countryside still retains the traditional concept of human favor and credit, which constitutes a unique local value. The humanistic values of urban people have been further developed and are moving towards commercialization.

The existence of human affection not only distorts the seemingly universal credit values, but also disintegrates many business credit models, and complicates social and business relationships.

When I first joined the company, I often encountered some problems, and I didn't dare to ask others, for fear that others would be afraid, so I made a lot of mistakes. Many people are often shy to ask questions when they come to a new environment, fearing that others will doubt their abilities. In fact, there is no need to be like this at all, the more you don't understand, the more you have to ask, ask your colleagues, ask your boss, and do everything you can to solve your doubts.

Don't think that someone will notice your problem and take the initiative to answer your questions, know that everyone is busy and you are not the center of the earth. ‍‍

Work is to do things, not to make friends, this is probably the first truth that I understand after work. Good people may not be liked, and they must learn to refuse. ‍‍

It is convenient for others and oneself; The hustle and bustle of the world is for profit, and the hustle and bustle of the world is for profit. Favor is a major feature of Chinese social values, and favor and credit are a pair of half-brothers. Both have a corresponding value, and the relationship between the two is very subtle, sometimes difficult to discern, sometimes interchangeable.

If you treat work with the mentality of friends, there will be a lot of mistakes in your work. ‍‍

After entering the society, it is really important to be sophisticated. Sometimes, no matter how good your ability is, but you are not good at dealing with people, then your work may be hindered. Even if you perform well, if you fail in human affairs, many things will be difficult.

The simple phrase is that people like to listen to good words. If you don't understand the world, then you will encounter difficulties in your work and promotion. If you have the ability to be sophisticated and powerful, then a promotion and salary increase are just around the corner.

I think it is very important that we live in this society, we can't avoid human feelings, especially in life and work, understanding human feelings can better integrate us into the workplace and society, so that we can deal with things more smoothly.

It is indeed important to enter society and be good at dealing with human accidents.

Human beings are social societies, from families to neighbors, from schools to workplaces, all of which are places of communication. Here, people with different personalities, experiences, and professions gather. If you don't know how to be sophisticated and don't be good at communication, you will run into walls everywhere and find it difficult to move an inch.

Therefore, if you want to survive in society, you must understand the truth of being a person and doing things.

Hello, meaningful. When the sophistication of human feelings becomes a matter of convention, only by abiding by this norm can it be helpful to one's work and life.

Yes, it is very important, because the school teaches you how to be fair, and the society teaches you how to deal with unfairness and how to fight for what you want, fairness has always been relative, and it is also presided over by the strong, knowing how to be grateful is the way for you to make rapid progress.

Of course, it is very important to behave in the society, not to let you rely on others, to please others, but to pay attention to the attitude of speaking, do things tactfully, do not break through the moral bottom line, let everyone be happy, is the norm of life in the society, as the so-called, many friends and many roads, there is no harm in doing so after all, if you will not break through your own bottom line, why not do it.

After entering society, is it really important to be sophisticated?

Humanism refers to the methods, principles and experiences of dealing with the world, in which humanism refers to the feelings generated by people getting along with others, corresponding to a person's emotional intelligence, and sophistication refers to the way of doing things in life and work. Synonyms of human affection and sophistication are human affection, human affection, and so on.

What is society?

That is, by. The sum total of relationships formed between people.

Human production, consumption, entertainment, politics, education, etc., all belong to the category of social activities. Society refers to a structure that is not easy to change for people who live together in a specific environment, can be maintained for a long time, and cannot be separated from each other.

What is "human affection"?

Chinese culture has always been about human feelings. The so-called "favor" is not the time of the New Year's holiday, carrying gifts from the front street to the back alley, the left neighbor to the right house, and sending it to and fro outside for a month, maybe it will be transferred back to the original owner. This kind of "courtesy exchange" is just a symbol of affection.

What is "sophisticated"?

"Sophistication" is to understand things thoroughly, to understand the past, present, and future. "Therefore" is the thing, and "sophistication" is the world of these things, to understand people, to understand things, it is called human sophistication.

Society has entered such a sophisticated world, do you say it is important or not?

After entering the society, it is important to be sophisticated, but it is more important to have your own ability.

Important, but not useless socializing, but more focused on improving yourself.

Depending on the situation, if your ability level is high to a certain extent, then you don't need to care about the sophistication of the people, others will give you the sophistication of the people, on the contrary, you need to rely on the sophistication of the people to survive.

After entering the society, it is really important to deal with the sophistication of human feelings, and the society is very complicated, of course, it is important to deal with the sophistication of human feelings.

If you don't have good financial resources, or say some of the abilities behind it. Then the sophistication of human feelings is really important and will help you develop in the future.

That's definitely very important.

We are all ordinary people, we are all in the circle of rules, if you want everything to go smoothly, you must adapt to this kind of rules, even if you don't like it, after all, life is in the world, how can there be so many freewheels.

Unless you don't develop in China.

After entering the society, it is the ability to work that is important.

The essence of the workplace is people. Sophisticated people don't need you to be flattering and courteous, but you need to consciously make friends and build good relationships. Eventually, you'll not only be able to improve your professional skills, but you'll also be able to handle things more easily in a crowded environment.

Most people are willing to work with people who are very capable but down-to-earth. If you are capable of working, motivated people will approach you, and people will invite you to dinner and talk about your work. You can't eat for nothing, you have to ask back, and people are naturally sophisticated.

An individual's ability to work is fundamental to survival. Without capability, you can't create value for the team. Pure human feelings, the leader cannot always protect you, because everyone needs to be responsible for performance.

If you have the ability, but you don't understand the world, you can't take advantage of the survival rules of society, you can't establish your own connections, and it is not conducive to future development. When we are subordinates, a person who can unite colleagues, has a strong sense of humor, and is liked by everyone will be more recognized by the leader. For newcomers to the workplace, the entire workplace environment is completely new to them.

If you don't have the right major, you will hardly be able to use what you learn in school. However, 12 years of school education has given us the greatest help to enter the society and the workplace, and it is our stepping stone. China is a country that values interpersonal relationships.

There are some circles that can't be squeezed into. It must take a certain amount of time to accumulate and a transition process, so relationships are important. He won't necessarily help you do something directly, but he will definitely help you win the right to do it.

When we actually enter the workplace, we will find that academic qualifications can play a much smaller role. We face a lot of problems, such as not knowing how to report to the leader, how to communicate with colleagues, and even rejecting others. At this time, we need to quickly integrate into the collective and the team.

In fact, from strange to familiar, from cautious to freewheeling, this is actually a process of accumulating contacts and building your own network. The above is the answer to the question of whether work ability is important or sophistication is important after entering the society.

These two are very important, when you have not yet stepped into the company, the ability to work is your stepping stone, when you enter the company, the sophistication is your promotion and salary increase, necessary points.

Of course, it is more important to be sophisticated, because sometimes you handle the interpersonal relationship well, then it will be of great help to your work development, and it can be said that you can get twice the result with half the effort.

You can't have one without the other! It can be said that after entering the society, the ability to work and the sophistication of people are complementary. For example, those rich friends around me are not bad at doing things, and those who can't do things are generally poor.

What I have learned in the past few years at the University of Social Sciences.

When I was in school, I wasn't a cadre, and although I knew about a student union or something like that, I didn't bother to participate.

It wasn't until I entered the university that I knew what human feelings were.

In the second season of "The Offer That Makes the Troubled Li People's Heart", there is an issue where the big boss goes to see the intern. Then the big boss said, everyone sit down. Then except for Ding Hui, all the interns were sitting.

When he walked next to Ding Hui, only Ding Hui stood up and chatted with the boss. I didn't think there was anything wrong with that.

Later, when it came to the observation group, they said that Ding Hui was right, this is respect. Although the boss said that it was okay to sit down, it was a sign of respect to stand up.

This kind of "eyesight" is not possessed by fresh graduates, or those who have never done front-line work.

I think this is probably one of the reasons why the post-90s generation is reluctant to work for others.

A few days ago, I chatted with others, no, everyone ended the New Year Brotherhood, and the annual meeting is also a disguised wine table culture.

Blocking the leader's wine, drinking for the leader, etc., maybe you have been used to it after working for a few years, right?

After chatting, I remembered an incident from my internship. We are not satisfied with the unit that the study gave us. But after the struggle was fruitless, with an attitude of resignation, forget it, just do it.

After a while, a personal sister threw an olive branch to me. I was transferred, and I stayed there because of this sister.

Later, something happened, my sister was leaving, and I was leaving, and finally I called my sister ** and told her about the matter.

I suddenly thought of my sister last night.,It's a pity.,At that time, I didn't understand this kind of human sophistication.,Maybe for "appreciation" I should send blessings on New Year's holidays.

I'm still not sure about this kind of thing. I don't know if this kind of smugglers is considered a slap? Or flattery?

Looking back, do you want to block the leader's drinking? Could it be that because of a drinking party, I blocked the wine for him, and the work will change?

I thought that this kind of sophistication would only appear in state-owned enterprises and other public institutions. I didn't expect a small unit to have this kind of sophistication.

A 20-year-old boy can't buy China for 10 yuan. And the year of establishment will be to its liking. After knowing the destiny of heaven, he smiled helplessly at the boy who couldn't buy China for 10 yuan.

I don't know when this kind of sophistication will fade, and Wukong, who does practical things, will be more appreciated than the Bajie who slanders.