What if I know my shortcomings but can t change them?

Sometimes the shortcomings are obvious, but if you can't change it, it's really a headache. For example, you know that you can succeed if you persevere, but you can't persist in doing something for various reasons. Or give yourself a psychological hint.

Well, if you can't finish this, you won't be able to survive if you can't persevere, and pretending to push yourself to a dead end will have some effect.

It is not difficult to be good at discovering your own shortcomings, but it is difficult to be good at accepting your own shortcomings, and it is even more difficult to correct these shortcomings. If a person does not understand self-reflection, self-summary of what he does not understand, and indulge in his own feelings every day, he will not find his own shortcomings. A person who can constantly introspect can discover his own shortcomings and continue to make progress and growth.

As the saying goes, listen to people's persuasion and eat well. And there are some people who always can't listen to other people's advice, can't listen to advice, and after a long time, others will no longer point out your shortcomings to you. As the old saying goes, using copper as a mirror can be a good dress, taking people as a mirror can see gains and losses, and using history as a mirror can know the rise and fall.

Because it is easy to know and difficult to do, it is easy to know, but it is difficult to really do it, knowing that you only need your head to distinguish right from wrong, and action not only requires a head to distinguish right from wrong, but also puts the results into practice, and action requires long-term willpower and behavioral habits to be able to start and finish, so the ancients said that people who combine knowledge and action are the easiest to succeed, and people who don't practice are just empty in the end. I'm like this myself, I can't change my sloppy problem, but then under my mother's education, I now become very clean.

I've always been strong, and I know it's my shortcoming, but if it weren't for the failure of this relationship, I wouldn't have thought to face it. I'm very strong at work and in life, and I like to take control of myself. Later, in this relationship, my boyfriend said more than once that I was very strong, and in the end I failed, and I realized the seriousness of the problem.

Only then will a person always pay attention to the gap between himself and others, admit his shortcomings from the bottom of his heart, and realize his shortcomings. Therefore, attitude is the basis for being able to recognize one's own shortcomings. With such an attitude, it is possible to make the method of "recognizing your own shortcomings" work.

Those who know themselves need reason and courage to face themselves squarely and analyze themselves. In fact, deep down, everyone has a self-evaluation in their hearts, whether it is good or bad. Especially as you grow older, after the experience of various things and the deepening of your experience, you will gradually evaluate yourself more comprehensively and objectively.

Because this shortcoming has little impact on your life. It hasn't stabbed your heart yet. When he hinders your development one day, you can change.

The so-called habit becomes nature, which is why children are called "a blank slate". Being able to realize that you have shortcomings is an improvement compared to people who are unaware of their own shortcomings. But it's not easy to break habits you've been cultivating for a long time.

Because, consciousness is one thing, and the memory of the body is another. It's like spitting, even if you know it's a bad habit, but once you develop it, then every time you realize it, it's likely that you've already vomited on the ground before you come back to your senses. If you want to correct your bad habits, you must correct your subconscious, remind yourself subjectively at any time, and persist in this subjective force for a long time, so that it is possible to change your bad habits.

When faced with such situations, have an attitude of mutual adaptation. When you ask others to adapt to you, you also have to learn to adapt to others. Only in this way can we overcome shortcomings, correct deficiencies, resolve contradictions, resolve disputes, and make our society more harmonious and our life better.

I believe that the change of iron heart will not be impossible to change one's own shortcomings, this depends on the individual's willpower and perseverance, these changes have no other way than to save themselves.

It is a difficult thing to change your shortcomings, if you can't change them, you can find your best brother to supervise you, with the help of your friends, you will definitely succeed.

1, first of all. You just have an ideal, but you don't have a clear ideal. For example:

I want to make a lot of money (this is an idea is not clear, how much money is a lot), there should be a clear time and goal, just like I want to make 1 million before the age of 30, an active life - secondly, for myself I can use a sleep-destroying method, talk to the mirror every day, and write down what I will do tomorrow before going to bed.

2. I'm just like you! It may take a hit before it can really change.

3. If you don't have enough perseverance, work hard!

4. Because you haven't come across an event that makes you hate your shortcomings.

I always think it's a shortcoming, but I still don't notice how devastating my shortcomings are in my life.

Until one day you lose your most precious thing (person or thing) because of your shortcomings, the shock of hating your shortcomings can make you start to change yourself.

Now you still don't care much about your own shortcomings, and even tolerate your own shortcomings.

Let's try to change yourself before the shock comes.

It is not too late to be prepared for danger in times of peace.

5. Stick to one thing at a time!

Don't give yourself any excuses when you want to give up!

6. In fact, it is very simple for a person to change his shortcomings.

If the shortcomings are so easy to change, then it is not called a shortcoming, and the definition of shortcomings in science is a habit and skill that is difficult for a person to change. If you want to change your shortcomings, then the most important thing is your own driving force, only under the premise of sufficient motivation, you can slowly change some of your bad habits in life and work, today we will take a look. How should we address shortcomings like this?

First, we must be aware of our shortcomings. Many people actually have a very low level of understanding of themselves, and they don't know what their shortcomings are, so you can see that he is very satisfied with himself, but in fact, in his work and life, his shortcomings have seriously affected his development. So if you want to change, and get a more clear understanding of your shortcomings, it depends on whether you really want to change, if you want to change your shortcomings, make yourself better, there must be a way.

You can slowly correct your shortcomings, let your husband limit yourself, or let your friends limit your behavior, so that you can correct yourself for being stupid.

It may be that there is not enough self-control.

Since we can't change it, we have to find a way to reduce it.