How do you think you should regulate yourself in college life?

It is necessary to integrate into the collective, participate in the team, and seek common ground while reserving differences. Finally, be down-to-earth and take one step at a time. Nothing can be achieved overnight, it all requires a foundation and the precipitation of knowledge and experience, and the goal is set stage by stage, and the goal should not be unrealistic, otherwise it will be meaningless.

Combined with their own work experience and work content, they should summarize their shortcomings, correct them in time, and conscientiously do a good job in each work content and implement every work detail. ‍‍

Whether things are right or wrong, you should have your own unique thoughts and opinions, if you think it's worth it, don't care about other people's opinions! If there is a problem in our life, we must communicate with our close friends or vent No matter what, we all have to live well;

Put a little more pressure on yourself and don't always be so lazy. Allow yourself to have something to do instead of doing nothing every day. After all, everyone is still inert, and there is also the need to set a schedule for yourself.

There is a regular and quantitative outdoor activity and personal time to think about emptying yourself, like me, I would go to the outer ring regularly during my college years, and the time of a lap is about 30 minutes to 45 minutes, and my mind will be very clear after the exercise.

Learning is the most important, interest is secondary, and only by doing a good job in learning can you be worthy of yourself and your parents.

College students should also plan their future from now on to prepare for their future life. First of all, don't be ambitious. After all, the future is to enter the workplace, we must start from the basics, don't want to do important things at the beginning, no theoretical knowledge, no ability can not solve the problem, to avoid the phenomenon of high and low.

When I was in college, I wanted to study hard and know what I wanted to do in the future. ‍‍

Knowing more successful people, this is a very simple thing for some people, maybe their uncles and uncles are what kind of mayor, what kind of sensible and so on, so that the pattern of children in the family is often higher than that of ordinary children. But this is also the most difficult to do, so the average college student knows more people to improve their own pattern. ‍‍

I think that as a contemporary college student, a good psychological state is essential, and it will be twice the result with half the effort to correctly adjust one's psychological state when encountering things, and to be able to plan one's future and move forward towards the future life. When I encounter setbacks, don't give up at the first time, believe in yourself, even if you may fail, but try again, don't give up easily, and adjust your mentality. When you do something, don't be too proud, think about how you did it, summarize your experience, and don't be conceited.

Weakness and ignorance are not obstacles to survival, arrogance is. When the people around me deliberately alienate me, I should reflect on myself, ** what I did wrong, and look for the reason from a subjective perspective rather than an objective perspective. In conclusion, mindset is important. ‍‍

Contact more with successful people, as the saying goes, those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black, so what kind of people you are with will be what kind of people, so you must give up the meaningless circle of friends, contact successful people, and learn the successful experience of successful people.

Read 10,000 books and travel 10,000 miles. To improve the scope of cognition, you should read 10,000 books, and there is a house in the book, so college students should read more, so as to improve their knowledge reserves, in order to understand some things correctly, not short, not one-sided, comprehensive and accurate. ‍‍

Maintain a good attitude and avoid being too ambitious. What the workplace really needs to use is personal skills, and whether the skills that individuals actually master can basically meet the needs of the job, theory alone will not work. It will not work if you only look at the problem and cannot solve it. ‍‍

1. Study to record and plan your own time.

Everything is foreseen, and if it is not prepared, it will be wasted. By planning your study and life time in advance, you can effectively reduce the time you don't know what to do next in the process of action. If you don't have time to plan and don't know what to do next, it's easy to forget what important things are waiting for you later, and at the same time, you can easily be distracted by all kinds of irrelevant things.

For example, if you don't have a documented plan for important homework or club activities you're going to attend after class, you may forget about other things because you're having too much fun in the moment. It's a good idea to take out a calendar or notebook and write down important study tasks or club activities. Give you the right amount of time to get it done.

When you have a clear time goal, doing things can save time.

2. Divide your working time into priorities.

There are many tasks to complete in your university life, which is very necessary for what you have to do. Divide task importance into the application of the four-quadrant time management method. According to the diagram below, the importance and urgency of the task to be carried out are arranged.

In the first quadrant, it's not the priority, it's something we strive to do. For example, long-term preparation for the Level 4 and 6 exams or the Level 2 computer exam, physical exercise, and building good relationships with classmates or club partners. This kind of thing that has a profound impact on us should be prepared in advance and take more time to prepare in order to appear more calm.

Crucially, in the second quadrant, we must do what we must do immediately. In case of emergency, study tasks to be completed immediately, upcoming exams to be taken, and so on. Such urgent and important matters should be avoided as much as possible.

Since this kind of thing takes more time to talk, we will be stuck in the firefighting thing, and we will always be in a passive state, and we will not have time to plan for the long term. The three quadrants are temporary distractions such as having to answer**, emergencies, other people's expectations, etc. Four quadrants are pointless.

If it's a game, try not to do it.

I think it is necessary to make a university plan, to have your own goals, and to keep studying and moving towards them. However, it is also necessary to set a moderate amount of rest time and exercise more.

The struggle without the kernel always makes people lost, because they don't know what the struggle is for, the college entrance examination is ostensibly to go to a good university, but going to a good university is not the end of life, college graduation is the starting point of self-realization value in life, so you have to think about how you want to achieve self-realization value, in order to solve your problem, how to solve it can refer to the previous paragraph.

College students can find themselves a job, and then study while working, and accumulate more social experience in their spare time, so that they will not be confused after graduation.

The life of college students is relatively loose, and it is easy to lose yourself, so you should establish your own goals, accumulate more social experience in your spare time, and improve your level in all aspects.

Establish a correct outlook on life and values, of course, it is also related to society, which requires us to analyze social problems for students, avoid being ambitious, influenced by Vanity Fair, face reality, learn to solve problems, learn to create the future, don't think about getting rich overnight, becoming famous overnight, don't covet the flashy for a while, the important thing is to analyze and guide, not to stop, because this is a rebellious period, to teach them to learn to distinguish between right and wrong, beauty and ugliness, good and bad, not this can't do that.

Determine your goals, determine what you want to do! If you don't know what you're going to do, I hope you can participate in more activities to get to know yourself! Find your bearings!

You are now a traveler lost in the desert, and the most important thing is to calmly use what you have learned to find your way!

Be clear about your goals. Whether your major is a major that you are willing to engage in in the future, and whether it can support your future life. If so, then learn as much as you can in a limited time, professionalism is very important!

If not, then you need to clarify your favorite career and profession as soon as possible. If you are able to complete your own studies, you can study the major you want and like. Be sure to stick to it!

First of all, you have to adjust yourself according to the various situations you encounter. Second, you can use some of the psychological knowledge you have learned to self-analyze yourself, or you can turn your attention to other things.

I think college students can make a schedule for themselves and try to do things according to the above arrangement.

The first thing is to believe in your own abilities. I used to be a very good and strong person, always thinking about trying hard not to be surpassed or something, maybe because of my professional nature (low returns, not hard work can be better than others), I have suffered a lot of setbacks, personally I think even to the lowest point of my life. This kind of mentality, in a certain sense, is positive, but if it is excessive, it may put a lot of psychological burden on yourself, and I think this kind of mentality is more suitable for the kind of learning atmosphere where high school has a clear goal.

But it's not a good fit for college. What do you imagine a university to look like? Of course, working hard is a great thing, but when there is no goal direction, it is a thankless task to force yourself to work hard, just to not be surpassed by others.

I think college should be more comfortable and natural, and we don't have to be so nervous to compete all the time, like in high school. You are a 985 school, you can listen to the top teachers in the country to teach you, I think it is very enjoyable to listen to the lessons of good teachers. You can go to them at any time if you have a problem, and even become friends with them, most of the classmates and seniors around you are also very good, you can talk to them, go and see their lives, thinking, etc.

Maybe you can find yourself in it. You'll also find that most people don't have smooth sailing. I have all experienced this and that kind of confusion.

These are all beautiful things.

How to adjust the balance between study, work, and life and training in college, which requires attending classes on time, eating at a fixed time, and developing normal work and rest habits. To put it simply, study when it's time to study, eat when it's time to eat, sleep when it's time to sleep, don't skip class and stay up late.

As much as possible, universities should devote their energy to studying. As a science and engineering man, all the debts you owe to study in college have to be made up for by several times the time of Zheng Pao after work, and self-study. If the family situation allows, try to participate in the exchange of physical limbs as much as possible, and if you shout that Panchang is a personal entrepreneurial preparation, entrepreneurial work should be balanced according to your own situation.

Do the right thing at the right time!

Listen to the dry brother in class, review and practice in time after class, work can not affect my undefeated learning, if you need to complete it in your spare time, as for life, you must give yourself time and space to rest, enjoy life!

Learn when it's time to learn, play when it's time to play. Have a clear idea of what to do when and when.

1. Position yourself correctly.

When college students have just stepped into a new living environment, they are not clear about the outside world, so they must correctly position themselves and understand their own values, so as to deal with various problems well in good times and adversity. Don't back down when you encounter difficulties, as the saying goes, a rainbow is beautiful after the rain!

2. Establish firm ideals and beliefs.

Establish firm ideals and make efforts for your own ideals, write a small list of goals, and complete them one by one, step by step, down-to-earth, and work hard for your ideals! In order to set up short-term and long-term goals for themselves and put them into practice, the so-called "words must be done, deeds must be fruitful".

3. Establish the correct "three views".

Three views, that is, outlook on life, values, and world view. In the interweaving of various ideologies and cultures, utilitarianism, hedonism, and other undesirable social phenomena inevitably appear, and as a qualified college student, we should establish a correct outlook on life, world outlook and values.

4. Improve your moral quality.

The excellent traditional virtues of the Chinese nation are the crystallization of the wisdom of human spiritual civilization. However, in the contemporary moral anomie incidents occur frequently, littering, spitting, trampling on grass, and other scenes are all thought-provoking, as contemporary college students, we must improve moral cultivation, moral self-discipline, in order to build a beautiful campus, their own beautiful China to do their part.

First of all, you must quickly adapt to the life in the university, because the university is basically on your own, and there will not be teachers staring at you to do homework and study like in junior high school and high school. At the same time, we should learn from many excellent and generous people to learn their strengths and weaknesses. Participate in more club activities to build some excellent people, exercise your courage, and have the courage to challenge the things you dare not be afraid to face, so that you will find a lot of hidden endurance that you did not have before.

Communicate more with teachers, seniors can also be, and if you don't understand, you can ask more, so that you can take fewer detours. There is also a positive attitude, do not be led astray by others, have your own opinions, keep an eye on everything, don't be too good to others and don't reject others thousands of miles away.