What is the source of self confidence that can be maintained all the time?

I feel that it is the ability to do things on your own, as well as the ability to deal with things and the ability to control the field, because with these abilities, you can face anything calmly, so this kind of person is a person who can always maintain self-confidence!

Money is the source of self-confidence, I don't believe you go to see those who drive BMW Mercedes-Benz, either bald or fat, but people have money, but they can get out of the pace of six relatives do not recognize.

Blind self-confidence is conceited, arrogant, self-righteousness, so, the logic of the individual is - the essence of self-confidence is a manifestation of cognitive ability, when a person's cognition reaches a certain level, coupled with diligence and studiousness, the precipitation of knowledge and experience is rich, and there is more understanding, plus their own optimism and bravery, this shows a person's self-confidence, is a kind of thinking and a state of mind!

When people are doing what they are good at, they feel easy to do and will naturally feel confident, but they will naturally feel difficult about things they have not been exposed to, or some things that they feel difficult about, and they will be less confident than what they are good at.

Where does a person who can't even walk on his feet, and even get out of bed to be served? How can the kind of people who are sick all day long and can't stand the wind and rain be confident, I'm afraid that there is no chance of pain and inferiority! Of course, when you have a strong physique, a body as strong as an ox, you will think, how can others be so weak, look at me, see what it means to be healthy.

No matter what you do, whether it is mental work or physical work, you can get twice the result with half the effort, even in front of your own woman, you are as strong as a lion.

I think the source of self-confidence should be hard work, because if you keep working hard, you will have continuous self-confidence.

At any time, you can maintain a positive learning attitude, integrate what you have learned, and have the courage to practice. You will be the best when others don't, you know when others don't understand, and you dare when others are afraid, and you will always be the best in the eyes of others.

A person's self-confidence does not depend on too many external factors, these just make us look confident, such as wealth, love, health, achievement, ......It's more about the sense of identity within the self.

Accept your own shortcomings, no one is perfect, don't be sensitive, be big-hearted, you don't have so many audiences, you just know how you are, you have to know how to laugh at yourself.

If people want to maintain self-confidence throughout their lives, they must insist on doing what they are good at and digging out their own shining points, so that they can have a sense of identity and value.

Constantly enhance your abilities and make yourself capable enough to solve anything.

The source comes from the understanding of oneself, on the one hand, from the accumulation of success, and on the other hand, from everyone's encouragement and praise.

For a person to be successful, one must have self-confidence. ......The so-called self-confidence, simply put, is to believe in oneself, in-depth understanding, is the self-affirmation of oneself to solve complex problems. ......A person's success depends on self-confidence, and where does a person's self-confidence come from?

What do you need to get it? Clarity on this issue is of great significance for us to build self-confidence.

Specifically, a person's self-confidence is obtained by the following factors:

1. Self-confidence first comes from the strong strength that you have.

Fundamentally, self-confidence is generated by one's own ability.

A person with mediocre ability and who can't do anything well is destined to lack self-confidence. ......Only those outstanding talents will have strong self-confidence. ......For us ordinary people, the skill we are best at is our own self-confidence.

Therefore, the foundation of self-confidence is the strength you have.

2. Self-confidence requires strong willpower to produce.

Self-confidence belongs to the psychological and conscious level of existence. Therefore, it requires the support of willpower to fight hail to produce.

It is impossible for a person with weak willpower to have a self-confident ......This has been proven countless times in real life......And those who have strong self-confidence and do not give up even when they encounter difficulties are all people with strong willpower. Therefore, a self-confident person must be a person with strong willpower.

It can be seen that another important aspect of self-confidence is your own willpower.

3. Self-confidence can only be generated by self-reliance and self-improvement, and can be maintained for a long time.

Self-confidence is the spirit of self-reliance and self-improvement.

Self-confidence comes from one's own strength and relies on strong willpower, but it requires the spirit of self-reliance and self-improvement to produce and maintain ...... long-termThe spirit of self-reliance and self-improvement is the correct demonstration of one's own strong willpower, and only with this spirit can we establish self-confidence, let ourselves have self-confidence, and maintain self-confidence for a long time, and will not retreat because of difficulties.

Therefore, the spirit of self-reliance and self-improvement is the concrete support of self-confidence.

4. Only people who work hard and keep forging ahead can produce and delay their limbs and have self-confidence.

It is impossible for a person who does not want to make progress to have self-confidence.

Those who have strong self-confidence are, without exception, motivated and ......constantly improvingThese people continue to work hard for their own development and progress, and their motivation is strong self-confidence. ......Because of this, self-confidence is generated from these people and sustained for a long time.

From the above analysis, it can be seen that the generation of self-confidence is a multifaceted ......Only by having these conditions at the same time can you generate and have strong self-confidence for a long time, provide a steady stream of motivation for your own development and progress, and make yourself finally successful.

In fact, a person's self-confidence from the heart is mainly based on the following 3 things.

Article**21, Self-Aware Life Consciousness;

As the old saying goes: those who know themselves are clear, and it can be seen that only those who are truly self-aware and conscious can be counted as smart and wise.

If a person has wisdom in his heart and wisdom in his head, he can naturally face life calmly and feel confident from the heart.

So, where does a person's "self-knowledge" come from?

In fact, it comes from what you think, see and hear in your daily life, and from the shaping process of a person's temperament and values.

This is what people often say: your temperament hides the roads you have walked, the books you have read and the people you have loved.

Article**3 If you use the words of the ancients, it is: It is better to read 10,000 books than to travel 10,000 miles, and it is better to read countless people than to travel 10,000 miles; Reading countless people is not as good as a famous teacher to guide the way, and a famous teacher is not as good as to understand it yourself.

Zeng Guofan also produced the meaning of "Ming" for life in "Tingjing-Mingqiang", he said: Take on big things, all in the word Mingqiang.

He also divides "Ming" into two categories: shrewd and shrewd.

Wisdom comes from nature, and shrewdness comes from continuous learning and questioning, which belongs to the kind of diligence that produces genius.

"The Mean" uses one sentence to summarize this kind of "shrewdness": erudition, interrogation, prudence, discernment, and practice.

He also said that if he can really do this, even if he is born stupid, he will definitely be smart, and even if he is born weak, he will definitely be strong.

If we understand the above well, strive to make ourselves grow and progress, and then know how many pounds and taels we have, and have a certain amount of self-knowledge, we can be at ease, and our hearts are calm, and we can naturally move self-confidence from the heart, and then surpass inferiority.

Article **42, self-improvement attitude towards life;

I Ching cloud: Tianxingjian, a gentleman is constantly striving for self-improvement.

Thousands of years have passed, and the Chinese nation has gone through countless hardships, but it can still stand proudly among the nations of the world because we have the spirit of unremitting self-improvement and perseverance in our blood.

And this is also the root of all our Chinese people's strong national self-confidence.

This is true of countries and nations, and the same is true of individuals: the self-confidence of each of us actually comes from our own past experiences and from the constant attitude towards self-improvement in life.

If we have made many achievements and brilliance in our study, work and life in the past, and look at the large number of honors and certificates in front of us, will we not be proud of ourselves and confident in the future?

The road we have traveled before will not be in vain; The hardships we have endured before will not be in vain.

Now we are glad that we have worked hard in the past; In the future, we will definitely thank ourselves for working hard now.

Just as life doesn't come into being in a vacuum, so doesn't our self-confidence.

When we look back on the road of self-improvement we have taken in the past, although it is full of all kinds of hardships and sadness, but we have survived, we will feel gratified, and we will be more confident and more convinced that our choice is not wrong.

Article **5 is like Steve Jobs giving a speech.

A person's self-confidence depends on his success in the field he cares about, and every condition in this is very important, because he cares about this, so he will put more energy, and once he achieves success, his self-confidence will also increase, but if he does not succeed in this area, but makes up for it with other achievements, then in essence, there is still inferiority complex in his heart, but it is difficult for outsiders to experience, and he himself can hide it very well.

Here is the simplest example, a person's academic performance is very good, but his physical fitness is very poor, and his appearance is not particularly good, and when he chooses a mate after working in the future, he will definitely give priority to those who have similar conditions to himself, rather than choosing to be very beautiful, because he feels that he is not worthy of the other party, of course, there are also people who make their worthiness by virtue of their efforts, and even marry a wife who is like a flower, but when getting along, he is still careful, For fear of being betrayed by the other party, this is because he knows that he is not charismatic enough to control the other party. But if he just looked ordinary at the beginning, and experienced another metamorphosis in adolescence, and his appearance conditions crushed many people, then he dared to boldly pursue those young and beautiful women when choosing a mate.

Of course, the main thing in this is to see what you care about, if he is tall and handsome, but he has always felt that he is poor, then even if he faces a woman who is poorer than himself, and even the other party's appearance is not particularly good-looking, he will have no confidence, and he will destroy it, a man who is not very good-looking has a successful career, and what he cares about is his career, then when he meets a better woman, he will be full of confidence, and even make the other party feel that he is more attractive than those men with outstanding appearance.

So this kind of self-confidence is based on personal circumstances, of course, it will also be affected by the outside world, if others say that you are not good somewhere, you will also become very concerned, and then become the source of low self-esteem, but if you can overcome this, you will not let yourself fall. Of course, there are some things that cannot be changed, just like the appearance mentioned before, you can only make up for it through other ways of talking about it, although there will still be some inferiority complex in your heart, but you will turn these things into strength, as long as you are not particularly sensitive, it is very beneficial to life and family.

A person's self-confidence fundamentally depends on the person's ability. If a person is not capable of himself, then he cannot have self-confidence. Even if there is, it will be knocked down by some reality.

In fact, in the real society, everyone's status is almost the same, except for the big difference in origin, there is no particularly big difference in the rest. Therefore, most of a person's self-confidence is still based on their own ability.

Some people have stronger abilities and are more prominent in many places, so this person can naturally be very confident, because he is better than others. When a person is particularly good, he has the right to despise others. And he can also not care about some other things.

Because good people have this ability. On the other hand, if your ability is very poor, you are not excellent anywhere, and you will be suppressed by others everywhere, then it is impossible for you to be confident.

Because you can't succeed in anything you do with Minqing, seeing that the people around you are better than you, and you can be more successful than you in whatever you do, you will naturally accept your fate. So your self-confidence will be knocked down.

So I think a person's real self-confidence must be based on their own ability. If you don't have the ability yourself, then you can't be confident. And even if you have self-confidence at this time, it is a kind of inner conceit.

Therefore, if you want to make yourself more confident and make your own words more weighty, then you need to keep working hard to make yourself reach a height that others can't reach. At this time, you are naturally the commanding heights in the hearts of others, others can only learn from you, and your self-confidence will naturally come to your side.