What are the heart piercing moments that will never be forgotten for a lifetime?

Ten years ago, I was just a child. There was a beggar at the door, an old woman, with tattered and old clothes, and a black and yellow face with a lot of ash on her face. I was smiling.

In non-standard Mandarin, he said to me, "Kid, can you give me some money?" I ran to the basket of debris and took a dime.

Then he hurried back and gave the money to the old woman, who smiled at me and said I was a good boy. Just as I was about to leave, I ran back and gave her the last two cents of the basket.

The most unforgettable and capricious memories of this life! Born in a rural area, because I didn't take the college entrance examination, I had to spend a huge amount of tuition to go through the back door! Obviously, the family is not rich, but my father has tried his best to help me, but in the end he still didn't go to a key high school.

Then I quarreled with my father, disgusted and went to an ordinary high school, and said to my father: You can't do this little thing well, what's the use of you, and then turned around and left! I'll never forget my dad's face at that time.

Later, when I grew up, I realized that what I hated was the best my family could give! Although I am now grown up and understand my family's thoughts, this matter has always lingered in my heart. Taught me a truth, never give the worst temper to the best person for yourself!

Who said that children have no memory, I clearly remember that when I was about two years old, my mother took me back to my grandfather's house, rural Liaoning in southern Liaoning, at that time, the rural sanitation conditions were not good, and the pimples were running water, which may be unsuitable for water and soil or what insects bited, crying day and night to go home, my mother took me and walked a long way to the mountain south of the station to see the train, and told me to buy a ticket tomorrow to go home, I remember that it was a season with yellow leaves, the station was called Wanjialing, standing on the mountain and looking down at the train scene, It was the first memory in my life, things are people, and my mother is long gone, but that image is deeply imprinted in my mind.

I was very impressed. There was a festival, the content is mainly classmates to draw lots to exchange gifts with each other, I won the lottery is to exchange gifts with a girl, that girl is usually a small transparent, with a high ponytail, with green big-framed glasses, single eyelids, not a beauty, to the whole is to give people a comfortable feeling. The most important.

Yes, I forgot to bring a gift, and after I explained it to her, she didn't seem angry, but her friend asked her at this time to get it.

It was embarrassing, I was so scared that I would be embarrassed. Then she laughed lightly, haha.

I've received a great gift, so I won't show it to you. It was because of this moment that I liked her for three years.

There are many things to go through in a person's life. In the long river of years, many things will be forgotten by you, some things are deeply rooted in your bone marrow, and you will not forget them for a lifetime. I often watch some reports that I can't swim but still sacrifice myself to save others and pay for my life, many people use this to tell us not to save people if they don't have the ability to save people, of course, this statement is correct and undoubted, like I jumped without hesitation of course it is also a stupid behavior, but when people encounter a sudden situation, you are not allowed to have time to think and judge, or anxiety makes people lose the ability to think and judge.

It's a matter of life and death, and I'll never forget it!

When I was a child, my parents and I drove a four-wheeled bicycle to the market in the early morning to sell vegetables, in the summer, we wore cotton jackets, and when I was a child, we turned on the 14-inch black and white TV every evening and stared at the black and white circular pattern, anxiously waiting for the show to be broadcast. When I was a child, I tread water in the wetlands of the village barefoot. When I was a child, I used a rope, a sieve, a handful of millet, and a small wooden stick to play with sparrows.

It's a memory for a lifetime! ‍‍

As a child, I was very naughty. I don't like to study, which always annoys adults. One day, my dad beat me up.

Then he said viciously, I am like this, and I will be starved to death when I grow up. I cried. Then my sister whispered to me:

Sister, I'll raise you when you grow up. Later, after I was seven years old, I never saw my sister again. But every time I think about it, it hurts my heart. ‍‍

When he said that he had lost himself and exiled himself, he was going to find himself and come back to me. Listening to his words, my heart is like a knife, but I can't do anything to change it! I know, perhaps, that I will never see him again in my life.

I can only say to him, you have to be good! I can only say to myself, he will come to me! Every day I wake up, I think, will he show up today?

Every night, I fall asleep in disappointment! Love but can't, maybe that's it! ‍‍

After returning to work in the factory after the year, my mother sent me to the station, and I saw my mother's reluctant expression and words of advice that made my eyes wet with tears. Filial piety comes first, and we must honor our parents.

Once I went out with a boy I had liked for a long time (not only us, but also a few other classmates), and met a very beautiful girl on the road, and I didn't know it was his girlfriend after they said hello. Instantly, I felt like my heart was bleeding.

On the way back from the supermarket the other day.

It's hot, take out a wet wipe and wipe your face.

After wiping, look around for the trash can.

At this time, there happened to be a sanitation worker grandfather next to me.

He said, "Girl, why don't you throw the paper to me first, and I'll sweep it for you."

I bent down to the pile of garbage he swept and habitually casually said, "Thank you, grandpa."

The grandfather said, "That's good, what a good girl, it's the first time someone has said thank you to me."

It was very sad for a moment.

You never know how important a small habit you unintentionally get, even if it's just a "thank you," is to someone else.

This is the relationship I have now, we will experience many unforgettable and heart-piercing moments in this life, and we don't necessarily have to hit the south wall to turn back, some things, some people, one lesson is enough.

The moment of the death of a loved one. The moment when the first love broke up.

It's probably that I will raise you when I said at the beginning, but in the end, it became whether you can buy less things.

When I was in love in the past, my favorite thing to hear was my boyfriend saying, it's okay, we will get married in the future, you play at home and I will raise you, and then we really got married, and I was really at home, but what he said was not the same as it was at the beginning.

After getting married, I will face the things of pregnancy, childbirth and taking care of children, and after pregnancy, I can only go home to recuperate due to physical reasons, and I also have money in my own hands at the beginning, so it didn't cost him too much salary, and everything was okay at that time.

But after the child was born, there were really too many places to spend money, and my own money was almost spent, so I began to reach out to him to ask for money to spend, and at this time he began to say that I was spending a lot of money, and he didn't understand why it cost so much to raise a child.

And I also understood from this time, it turns out that love is really too ethereal, or the money comes to be more practical, I watch the child at home 24 hours a day, the child cries and I coax, no matter what time it is, the child pees I have to change the diaper, so far he doesn't know which side of the diaper is the front and which side is the back, the child is hungry I hot the milk powder, people don't know how hot water to use to make milk powder, when the child is vaccinated, when to sleep, he doesn't know at all.

And I have changed from a delicate girl who is not bothered by money to a woman who only worries about money, no longer the appearance of dressing exquisitely and living a petty bourgeoisie, but becoming a woman who is reluctant to buy a piece of clothing, but even so, I am still complained about not working, and I know how to spend money, so when I heard him say that I can stop buying things and save some money, I really feel very sad.

One of the most heart-wrenching moments for me was when I was chatting with my boyfriend, he actually said that I was darker than him, and laughed at me, and I felt very uncomfortable at that time, and I didn't want to pay attention to him.

After the college entrance examination, when I applied for volunteers, I really realized the importance of scores, and I once disdained that one or two points, but I once took the initiative to move from the best position in the class to the corner of the wall to sit.

There are always moments that make me feel more heartbroken, for example, when two people are together, they are actually suspected by the other party of having bad behavior, and this matter can't be explained, so I will feel very sad in my heart.

Maybe it was the moment when the results of the college entrance examination came out, I thought I was very good, but the reality gave me a punch, and I was not good at all.

The first exam, I didn't pass twice, the second time was three points short, it was a very hot day, I waited for a morning to take the exam, the result has not passed, I think about preparing for the second exam, I feel very heartbroken.

It's to discuss the story of the past with your boyfriend, especially heartbreaking, and then you know that you must not look back on the past when you are in love.

Remembering a roommate who said I was short, I expressed my self-ridicule that I didn't care, what concentration is the essence. She said that being short is also a disability... I was so sad that I didn't lose my temper.

When I was a child, my grades were not good, and my parents especially liked to compare me with other people's children, and that moment was a particularly heart-wrenching moment.

I think it's my son who is sick, and my mother-in-law keeps saying that when my son quarrels, I'm the most heartbroken. I realized that not all grandmothers have grandchildren.

Since I was a child, my parents have only scolded me, and I am used to taking my punching bag at every turn, and there are two younger brothers below, in my impression, my two younger brothers have never done any housework since they were young, and I come back from school every day to cook rice and boil water to bathe my younger brothers, and my parents never praise me, and even come back and see me watching TV, just say that I can only watch TV when I am so old, and then turn off the TV very domineeringly, I want to say that you never take what I pay seriously, you know that I don't do all the work wellAnd then just sat down and watched TV for a while? I went home one year to help the family's crop harvest, my mother suddenly came to a sentence, all said that the birth of a daughter is a loss, married out of nothing, my heart is so cool, always say that I have a bad temper, no matter how bad my temper is, you say you want a big TV, all kinds of opposition when buying online, I buy without hesitation, every year when the crops at home are harvested, I don't want to work, I hear you say that I can't be busy, I still have no hesitation to come back to help, but....Every time I don't hesitate, I don't seem to be cherished, and it's still the same sentence for three days....You've got a bad temper, and there's something else you can do.

The family is rural, both parents are farmers, and they have no family background, and when they got married, his family was poor, but fortunately he worked hard, but the luck was not good. Married for more than eight years, the child is seven years old, some time ago the child said, he also wants to go to school there and then did not mention, I know that he said that there is the city, people have bought houses over there, the children have been picked up one after another, there are more than a dozen children left in a class, at that moment I feel really incompetent, the child who came back from the city for the New Year, asked my son, where are you going to school now, the child's tone is obviously insufficient when he speaks, his eyes blinked for a long time, tears turned in his eyes, and he still smiled and said, I go to school at home! He told me that once, since he was a child, he was a little sensible, his incompetence has affected the child, when can he be a little smoother, live a better life, work hard, so many years, it seems that no matter how hard he tries, it is useless.

When I was a child, I always yelled when I talked to my grandfather, and he didn't get angry, so he frowned and joked: "How can I not be big or small with my grandfather!" It's not good to speak softly!

Later, I went to high school, became sensible, and lived in the school. When I came home from a holiday, when I whispered hello to my grandfather, he touched his ears and said to me embarrassedly: "Grandpa is old, his ears are not good, can you be louder?"

I let out a "hmm" and silently walked out of the room, hiding the tears that had been left behind.

The inexorable years have passed, where has the time gone??!

Neighbors to the door, often domestic violence, that time to hit in the middle of the night, the man left in the morning, two or three days without movement, our husband and wife are afraid of any accidents, decided to go to see, knocked on the door after the eyes of the two eyes messy hair messy face gray standing in the door, originally very beautiful a woman, at that moment, really heartbroken.

I quarreled with a classmate of the opposite sex, the kind that usually scolds each other, and once, somehow, I jokingly said with a smile on my face: "I'm angry, I ignore you." He glanced at me

So what? "Then it was a joke, but it really hurt my heart, because I really cared about what he thought.

That year, my dad was gone, and my mom was seriously ill and hospitalized, and she broke up with her girlfriend for fear of dragging her down. Four years of affection, four years of ups and downs. One day, I couldn't help but want to go and see her, and it was raining lightly, and I saw her at the gate of the Wudaokou subway station in Beijing.

She was holding an umbrella and talking and laughing with other boys, and I passed her quietly under her umbrella, but she didn't see me. I could hear every word she said clearly, but my mind went blank, and for the first time I realized what it was like to mourn more than die. The world is so fair, I made mistakes, and I should bear the pain.