How to deal with people who love to show off and love to be jealous of others? 30

Actually, you don't accept yourself, when others count you down, you will be disgusted, because you don't like the feeling of your disgust, so you will not accept it, as long as you learn to accept all the reflections of your body, then you are mature.

In fact, she said you, you haven't lost anything, she is an elder after all, if you really want to be angry with her, then you can learn to show her, prove to her, I was admitted to college is a good fate, my class, the whole department has been among the best many times in a row, is it also a good fate? If she still says that her life is good, then you can say that there is no way, the blessings she cultivated in her previous life, her life is good in this life, and it is not a bad thing to have a good life. Hehe.

I hope you can start with yourself, accept all your feelings, and wish you happiness.

I'm one of my favorite people who love to show off.

Just say a word! I have to smile and say: "Sister-in-law, don't you think that a star's acting skills are really incomparable to you, the words are not as good as what you say, the expression is not vivid, and the demeanor is not as vivid as yours, but unfortunately I can't remember what that person's name is, sister-in-law, why don't you look like you, but he seems to love to play villains."

You should learn to endure and be calm, and make yourself better and better in the future Many people will have such relatives In fact, there is no need to be with them in general knowledge Just don't compare yourself with her.

Stay away from such relatives, talk to her less, meet her less, and ignore her as air.

Ignore her!! That person is her air!

When she carved the card (transparent).

She's strong, she's strong. The breeze blows on the hills.

She let her go sideways. The moon shines on the river.

Just treat it with a normal heart.

If you don't talk about her, it's okay to have a cold expression.

Give the cow back, and the cow needs sex too.

There is a friend who always likes to compare, better than who lives in the house, who makes more money, than whose car is better, and wants to press you for everything, although you think you can live a good life, but the comparison of friends always makes people feel uncomfortable. Why do friends always compare with you and want to beat you? How to deal with people who love to show off and love to compare?

600 - Mental Health - Emotions.

1. Why do friends always compare with you and want to press you?

1. Unable to accept yourself.

This kind of person may think from the bottom of his heart that he is not good enough enough, and he needs to confirm his own value through constant comparison with others, and confirm that he is the better one.

But in fact, there are always people who are better than themselves in life, if you can't accept your imperfections and shortcomings, and always compete with others and yourself, you will only end up exhausted.

2. The influence of the family of origin.

This type of person may have grown up in comparison since childhood, and their parents will always use the "child next door" as a means of motivating their children, hoping that the children will continue to work hard and move forward. If you can't surpass others, it proves that you are "incompetent", and in the long run, your child's self-confidence is actually very fragile.

2. How to deal with people who love to show off and love to compare.

1. Ignore the other party's showmanship.

Some people buy expensive things, eat an expensive lunch, and always can't help but want to show off, the essence is to attract the attention of others, make others envious, and enjoy the superiority of "I have you but don't". But if his ostentatious performance is left unattended, he will immediately find it boring and stop doing so.

2. Deftly shift the subject.

If in the process of chatting, you find that the other party is not right, and you are about to start the comparison, you can subtly change the topic, such as the clothes of the person you just passed by are very good, and the new restaurant nearby tastes very good, etc., to kill the words of comparison in the cradle.

If you have a friend with a very strong heart of comparison, you can judge whether you still need to continue to get along with him, because his heart of comparison may be passed on to you, so that you will become more and more vain, unable to correctly understand your own strength.