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Who said no one got married in the New Year? Let your wife come up with evidence?
There are 1 lot of people who get married during the New Year.
Women are very willful, coaxing them to try, and it doesn't hurt to be deceived when necessary.
has a lot of affection for your brother and sister-in-law, and you have to balance both aspects, so it's up to you.
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Well, my brother also got married during that time.
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Chinese New YearDuring the New Year, most people have enough vacation to return to their hometown, and there is enough time for life to ruin the arrangement of things is of course in front, so there are many people who choose to get married during the New Year.
Is it good to get married during the New Year?
1.The benefits of getting married during the Spring Festival.
If you get married during the Chinese New Year, most of your friends and family will take a holiday and can find time to attend the wedding. The more guests who attend the wedding, the more festive and lively the scene will be, and the better the atmosphere of the wedding will be. And the Spring Festival itself is a happy event, if you get married during the Spring Festival, it can be regarded as a double happiness.
2.The disadvantages of getting married during the Spring Festival.
In some places, there is a custom that you cannot marry during the Spring Festival, believing that getting married during the Spring Festival is not good for the elders. If there is such a custom in the local area, it is best not to choose to get married during the Spring Festival. If the couple gets married during the Spring Festival, they need to plan a wedding at the end of the year.
The end of the year is usually very busy, and the preparation is generally overwhelming, which can also lead to incomplete wedding preparations.
Is it okay to get married during the Spring Festival.
1.Local traditions.
In many areas of our country, there is the custom of "not marrying, not marrying", which means that you do not marry a wife in the first month, and you do not get engaged in the first month. If you get engaged or married at these two times, it will not be good for the man's parents and elders, and it will have a negative impact. If this custom is revered locally, it should be noted that it is not suitable for marriage during the Spring Festival.
2.Arrange your wedding in advance.
The Spring Festival is a traditional festival and a legal holiday, and most people have a holiday. Many people hold birthday banquets and class reunions around the Spring Festival, so it is difficult to determine the hotel. During the Spring Festival, the hotel's main service is a reunion dinner, not a wedding banquet.
It is difficult to book a wedding hotel for the Spring Festival, so many people do not choose to get married during the Spring Festival.
3.Arrangements for the Spring Festival.
Spring Festival, that is, the first day of the lunar New Year, the first day of the first month, this day is very important. Most people will go back to their hometown to worship their ancestors on this day, and there is a special Spring Festival arrangement. If you get married on the first day of the Lunar New Year, friends and relatives will not have time to attend the wedding.
Moreover, it is very busy to buy New Year's goods and visit relatives before and after the Spring Festival, and most people are not free.
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After getting married, I don't agree with this kind of practice of going back to each family to find each mother during the Spring Festival. As for whose house to go to for the New Year, two people can consult with each other and reach an agreement.
First of all, I think it's better to take turns to celebrate the New Year, because both of them are only children, and the two families are in different provinces, and each wants their children to go home for the New Year. But it is absolutely not possible for two people to be separated, so it is best to go to the man's house this year and the woman's house next year, which is fair and reasonable.
Besides, from people's traditional concepts, when a daughter gets married, she is a member of the man's family, and when the New Year is over, it should be the man's family for the New Year, and she should return to her mother's house after the New Year.
Now people's concepts are gradually updated, and they no longer stick to the old traditions. Therefore, the best way to take turns to celebrate the New Year is the best, so that both old people can see their sons, daughters-in-law or daughters and sons-in-law, and the New Year is more lively.
Secondly, as parents on both sides, they should also understand each other. All have a relatively high posture. For example, the woman's parents let their daughter go back to her husband's house for the New Year, which can also reflect the reasonableness of the woman's parents.
On the contrary, the man's parents took the initiative to ask their son not to return to his mother-in-law's house for the New Year, so that the woman's parents would also be especially grateful to the man's parents. The relationship between the two sides will get better and better.
Third, after getting married, the general small family will have children in a year or two, and it is not convenient to take the children back to their hometown for the New Year at this time, so the best way is also, the old people from both sides come to the city where the two of them are located, and accompany them to the New Year.
In short, where will you spend the New Year after getting married? It is indeed a very sensitive issue. I also have only one daughter, and I am in favor of my daughter's mother-in-law's house for the New Year, and I have never asked my daughter and son-in-law to come to my place for the New Year.
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During the Spring Festival, many people take a vacation to their hometowns, so there are a lot of people who get married, so is it good to get married during the Spring Festival?
1. Is it good to get married during the Spring Festival?
1. Festive. First of all, the New Year is a very festive thing, and marriage is also a festive thing.
2. Lively. During the Spring Festival, many young people who work outside the home return to their hometowns, so there will be more guests who will get married during the Spring Festival, and the wedding will be much more lively than usual.
3. There is a meaning.
There is a folk saying that if you get married during the Chinese New Year, then the newlyweds will be happy for a lifetime. Although there is no clear scientific basis for such a statement, it is a good sign, and everyone thinks that they can be together for a hundred years after marriage.
4. Plenty of time.
During the New Year, there will be a seven-day long holiday, and in addition to the marriage leave stipulated by the state, then it will take almost half a month to add it, and at this time, in addition to holding a wedding, you can also spend a honeymoon, so it is very good to get married during the New Year.
2. Can I get married during the Chinese New Year?
1. The first type.
During the Chinese New Year, everyone has to be busy visiting relatives and New Year's greetings after returning to their hometowns, and they also have to give red envelopes to many children.
2. The second type.
The Spring Festival is the beginning of the year, on this day, people will pray for blessings, will go out to travel, will buy New Year's goods, and eat reunion dinner. There is a saying among the people that "if you don't marry, you can't get married", it is said that getting married during the New Year is not good for the in-laws, and it will be good for the mother-in-law's family, so some people think that it is not good to get married during the New Year.
3. The third type.
Although there is a saying that it is not good to get married in the New Year, some people think that the Spring Festival is a very meaningful good day, and getting married on this day makes the marriage happier, so there will be more people who get married. During the Chinese New Year, you need to book a hotel and find a wedding in advance, and the budget for the wedding will also increase, and there will be traffic jams when picking up relatives, so it is not recommended to hold a wedding at this time. Summary:
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The marriage is happy, and the life after marriage is full of happiness and sweetness. ......However, after getting married, you will also encounter some problems, such as the question of whose house to go to for the New Year when you have a loss, which makes many couples troubled. Some couples choose to go back to their respective homes for the New Year, and I don't think it's appropriate to celebrate the New Year.
The reason why I think this is because the way they go back to their respective homes for the New Year prevents the family from reuniting, is not conducive to the relationship between the husband and wife, and leaves regrets for both parents. 1. The way of returning to their respective homes for the New Year makes it impossible for families to reunite, so it is not appropriate. One of the most important things in the Chinese New Year is the reunion of relatives.
As children after marriage, the husband and wife both go home for the New Year and the family is reunited, which is the happiest thing. ......If the husband and wife go back to their respective homes for the New Year, it will make the family unable to reunite, which is inappropriate for both the in-laws and the parents' families. Therefore, this way of celebrating the New Year is not an ideal way to celebrate the New Year, and couples should choose a better way to celebrate the New Year.
2. Husbands and wives go back to their respective homes for the New Year, which will have an adverse impact on the relationship between husband and wife. The most important thing between husband and wife is the relationship between each other. ......For couples, being together during the Chinese New Year can make the feelings between each other deeper, which is the best state for both husband and wife.
However, if the husband and wife go back to their respective homes during the Chinese New Year, the separation of the two people from each other will have a detrimental effect on the relationship. That's why I won't choose this way to celebrate the New Year. 3. The husband and wife will leave regrets to their parents when they return to their respective homes for the New Year.
For both parents, it is very gratifying to see their children start a family. If children and their loved ones can go home together for the Chinese New Year, the elderly will be happier. ......However, if the child comes back by himself during the New Year, the elderly will feel very regretful, and the New Year will also feel unsatisfactory.
Therefore, the way for couples to go back to their respective homes to celebrate the New Year is not an ideal way to celebrate the New Year. Husbands and wives can choose to alternately go back to their parents' homes and in-laws' homes for the New Year, so that both parents can be satisfied, and the family can be happier, happier and happier during the New Year.
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I can accept it when I get married and go home for the New Year, after all, there is a lot of helplessness and inconvenience. This year, I am going to spend the New Year at my mother-in-law's house, and my husband is also very happy. Actually, everyone has their own position, let's take a look:
Position 1: This is a helpless choice.
Some friends think that they go home for the New Year, which is the sadness of girls marrying far away! There are also those who think that this is the sadness of an only child, each family is a child, and not going back to anyone's house for the New Year will hurt both parents emotionally.
Position 2: Very supportive of going back to their respective homes.
Some friends think that they are usually together every day, why can't they go their separate ways during the New Year? Let's not talk about the big gap between the two environments, even if there is no gap, it is not as comfortable as being in your own home for the New Year at the other party's house, right? What's more, there are still a lot of only children, and it's good to go back to their respective homes for the New Year.
Sometimes reunion is for the sake of face, and the most important thing is to be comfortable inside.
Position 3: You must go back to the man's house for the New Year.
I think it's easy to talk about it in the future, but you have to go back to my house for the New Year in the first year of marriage, and you don't have to discuss. There are also female netizens who think: You should go back to your mother-in-law's house for the New Year, and you shouldn't stay at your mother's house.
The woman's parents will also persuade their daughter to go to her mother-in-law's house for the New Year out of local customs and consideration for their daughter's happiness.
Position 4: A family for a year, full of feelings.
Many newlyweds who believe that the Chinese New Year must be reunited, and the family distance between the man and the woman is close to the world, and finally reach an agreement: one year for each family.
Position 5: Getting together is the best option.
Some friends believe that if they take turns, one party will have to face the loneliness of not having children to go home for the New Year, or bring both parties together, so that not only will there be a New Year's flavor, but also all problems will be solved. However, such an idea caused a lot of spitting, and my friend said: You can find out if you try it, if the two parents have different personalities, they will definitely break up in the end.
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