After getting married, giving my mother 500 is too little, who is too much? 5

Updated on society 2024-06-21
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I think your mom is too much!

    Generally, it is difficult to live by herself, how can she have the energy and money to help her?

    People like your mother are just not normal! However, because of your special status, you need to weigh it up and think you're doing it right. Can't please her, can't help it!

    Don't condemn yourself too much!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Now that you are married and have your own small family, I think it is your intention to give more and less when you go back to your parents' house, your mother should not care, if she is too little, you don't have to give it next time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Your mother is too much, give her 500 that is love, not to give a point is duty, you said that you are already cold, since it is cold, then don't give, just give a little during the New Year's holidays, take good care of yourself and the baby, I have never seen such a mother.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This is the biggest typical son, all her actions are based on her son, what else would you do with such a mother's family? And she's only 52 years old, why are you giving him money? She has a son to support him, and I will go once a year, take some money and something, love or not, want me to provide for you, yes, my father's compensation for me back then will spit out for me, otherwise there will be no windows.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    After getting married, you give your mother-in-law 500 is too little, here I ask you a question, do you give your mother-in-law 500 yuan, is it a month or a year. If it's given once a month, I think you're still very filial, and your mother-in-law is a bit too much. If you give 500 yuan a year, it's a bit too little, and you're doing a bit of a bad job.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It is your intention for your daughter to give 500 yuan to her daughter's mother, if you have it, you will give a little, if you don't have it, you will give less, no one is excessive, and your daughter should be filial piety.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    They all said that it was spilled water, and it was okay not to go back to their parents' house.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    seems to think that your mother is excessive, how can your daughter's mind be too little, how much is sincere.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's a good job.

    When your mother-in-law encountered difficulties, you discussed with your husband in advance and gave you 1,000 yuan. It's a beautiful job.

    I think that in the future, this kind of thing should be discussed by husband and wife first, and then acted.

    It is very taboo to handle this kind of thing alone, and it seems that sooner or later you have to give money, but after two people discuss it together, the effect of handling it together will be better.

    After discussion, your husband will not resist in the future.

    If you take it upon yourself to send the money to your mother's house and then discuss it with your husband, he will feel that he is being slighted. Does he think it's not okay to give me a **? I'll give a lot of points.

    This face must be given to him.

    It is a good practice to be able to act only after consultation.

    You yourself should also trust your husband, and it is very necessary to discuss the big things of the family with him. In the future, you should be more generous when something happens to his family, and don't pick and search. Otherwise, he will think that you are generous to your family, but not generous to our family.

    The relationship between husband and wife is the trust that is slowly built up by mutual respect and mutual concession.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think you can just give it according to your own financial conditions, regardless of what your family says.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think that this kind of three views of the family is very incorrect, and it will also bring a lot of burden to your later life, and it is simply a bottomless pit, so it is better to reduce contacts.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    My sister must not be a demon who helps her brother, she can't listen to her mother's words, blindly support her younger brother without other conditions and no bottom line, just give her younger brother a salute with the permission of her own conditions, don't embarrass yourself. Duan Sen.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's been five years, what else do you need? If you want to, he will definitely say that there is no money in difficulty, so what, then what can you do? You can still get a divorce.

    You better stop talking about it, and offend him if you say it. Let his son speak for himself. Ask your husband what his attitude is, and communicate with your husband well. Let your husband offend his mother? You'd better not do anything like that. Otherwise, it is easy to cause contradictions.

    This kind of family affair is a short thing. I can't tell the truth. It's hard for a clean official to cut off family affairs. The two children will be old soon. It didn't take long to get out. Don't get too much of that. As long as the husband is good to himself. Just live a good life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Why are you stupid to give your mother-in-law the marriage money, this kind of thing is better for your husband to talk to your mother-in-law, what you say is not very good, you feel that you are not a good daughter-in-law, your husband is her son, you can tell his mother anything, my mother-in-law is too, but we live together, it is better to separate, they also don't give a penny, his father sometimes hugs the child, his mother knows how to play, the child is not hugged, so helpless, when I think of his mother, there are endless things, I don't pay much attention to his mother now.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The bride price is not recognized in the current legal system, so it cannot be recovered.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because the situation you are providing is too simple, the lawyer cannot make a full and exact judgment!

    Here's how it is:

    Divorce is the dissolution of the marriage, the parties reach an agreement to divorce, if one party does not agree, a lawsuit divorce is required, the conditions for the two forms of divorce are as follows:

    1.Conditions for Divorce by Mutual Agreement:

    1) The parties must be legal husband and wife and have full capacity for civil conduct;

    2) Both parties to a divorce by mutual agreement must have a common intention to divorce;

    3) There is an agreement on the issue of children and property, and there is no dispute.

    2.Conditions for divorce by litigation:

    Article 32 of the Marriage Act stipulates that a divorce shall be granted if the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails. Therefore, the condition for the court to grant a divorce is that the relationship between the husband and wife has broken down.

    When a people's court hears a divorce case, the granting of a divorce shall be based on whether the relationship between the husband and wife has truly broken down. To determine whether the relationship between husband and wife has truly broken down, a comprehensive analysis shall be made from aspects such as the basis of marriage, postmarital feelings, reasons for divorce, the current state of the relationship between husband and wife, and whether there is a possibility of reconciliation.

    Finally, for the sake of prudence, it is recommended that you bring the relevant materials to the local law firm for detailed consultation!

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