I felt very lonely, lonely spiritually, and had a strong sense of frustration and loss.

The reason why you are lost and frustrated is because you don't know yourself and you don't know society.

Emotionally, you're only a freshman! Do you know how many people haven't been in a relationship in four years of college? Do you know how many people break up after graduating from college?

I didn't go to college to compete with others and fall in love, so what about talking about 100 of them, and I can win the Nobel Prize? Or can you change the house? Most people actually get married through blind dates or work colleagues after entering society, because the relationship at this time is much more reliable than the relationship that was talked about because of loneliness in college.

There are no strengths in studying, communicating, and social activities, and if you feel that you are surrounded by excellent talents, you are mediocre, and you are half right. Whether it is in **, school or enterprise, mediocre people account for 80%, and only 20% are excellent talents. Among these 20% of people, only 20% are the so-called geniuses, and the remaining 80% have become elites in everyone's eyes through hard work and accumulation!

Since you have tried your best to get into this good university, it means that you are at least a person who can achieve your goals through hard work, and there is no reason why you should not have a second time if you have succeeded once.

So what are you lacking right now? My view is long-term goal planning, and it is something that most college students lack, and they don't know what they are going to college for. Many people are enjoying love, working to earn money, playing sports, studying books, in fact, these are not goals, but means.

The real goal is to enter a leading enterprise in an industry, such as returning to his hometown to take the civil service examination, such as pursuing further studies in a certain academic field, such as staying in school to become a teacher. If your goal is only to find a partner, be socially active, or get a scholarship, it means that you have not thought about which path you want to take after graduation. Talk to the teachers more, many teachers in the university are well-informed people, they know what is possible for your future development path, and can also give you clear advice on what you should do in the past few years, when you have a clear and actionable goal plan, and know what you are striving for for for four years, you will have the motivation and courage to achieve it, instead of being negative and decadent like now.

Good luck!

Sympathy! However, I can adjust it myself. Recently, I've been in a bad mood because of a lot of things, so I can't get along with my roommates, so I go to the library by myself to read books.

It's a good idea to go outside, go shopping, or just watch a comedy. In fact, it does not mean that there must be boys to be energetic, you should participate in more physical exercises and club activities, there will definitely be pressure in your heart is potential, and there is a little bit of setting a goal, because there is no goal, so life is boring. Finally, I wish you happiness!!

You don't put your heart here, others don't praise you, you can enrich yourself, to learn some skills, such as musical instrument playing, parkour, etc., only if you think you are a king, you can find your true self, the strong will not be lonely, even if you have no friends, you still have yourself, you are everyone's real friend. Solipsism.

After reading the whole article, I want to ask, what exactly do you want to pursue? If you're just feeling the loneliness of adolescence because of frustration with your grades, then it's time to think about what you're doing. You just want to seek that sense of spiritual fullness, and that feeling is not something that the temporary effects of hormones can bring to you forever.

If you have psychological problems, read more inspirational books.

You can make the next sounds, there are a lot of young sisters and little brothers in it who have very good voices, listen to their voices, and you can have a soul.

Feel not alone.

Find someone whose name warms your heart just by the thought of his name.

It's been a long time since I've touched a nu& color.

So it was decided to develop the girlfriend Wang friend that he had contacted for a month into a running friend.

Finally, KC. The tragedy is that I actually seconds.

A year ago, I wasn't like that.

A man who hasn't lived for a long time can't afford to hurt!

Hello, glad to answer for you, I can provide information and advice to users with ears to help them overcome loneliness and seek comfort.

For humans, loneliness is a universal emotional experience. In life, people may feel lonely for various reasons, such as the loss of loved ones, friends, breakups, work pressure, etc. If you feel lonely, here are some things you can try to overcome:

1.Build a social network: You can build a social network by participating in social activities, joining a hobby group, chatting with friends, etc., to increase your connection with others.

2.Find psychological support: You can seek psychological counseling or talk to relatives and friends to talk about your emotions and stresses and get psychological support.

4.Maintain a positive mindset: You can maintain a positive mindset by thinking and acting positively, such as setting goals, planning for the future, finding fun, etc.

It should be noted that if the loneliness of the fan is more serious and affects daily life and work, you may need to seek professional psychological counseling or**.