What makes friendships so fragile?

When I grew up, I realized that I was lonely when I grew upThere are fewer and fewer friends, more and more things in the heart, fewer and fewer people can enter the heart, and there are more and more troubles. Maybe people will grow up with fewer friends, or maybe because our definition of friends has changed, and the quality of our friends is higher, and the quantity will naturally decrease.

Why are friendships so fragile now? Parting ways at every turn, is the friendship between friends so unreliable? I reflected a bit, and I thought it was the materialization of life that made friendship so fragile.

If nothing else, does everyone dare to borrow money now? Do you still dare to lend money to your friends? How many people don't dare to say that I never mention money with friends, and I will not borrow money from friends if I think of a way to go online, let alone lend money to others, what does this mean, you don't mention money between friends, once it is related to money, this friendship is not simple, usually play well, and when you talk about money, this friend is gone, so in the face of money, friendship is the most unreliable, and friendship can not stand the test of interests.

The reason why I say this is because Mu has personal experience, once I thought that we were iron buddies, from childhood to adulthood for decades of friendship, when he started a business, I lent him money, as a result, how did he take my money and disappear without a trace, and later I learned that he just wanted to deceive me, in the face of friendship and money, he chose the latter, betrayed friendship, since then I don't believe in friendship anymore, no one should mention money to me, friends may be used to sell.

To sum up, in the current society, what makes friendship fragile is this impetuous human heart and utilitarian era.

I think it's jealousy, two friends who are usually in the same situation suddenly one of them becomes better, and the other is very jealous. It will give rise to mustard in the heart.

I think probably people have limited energy, and they used to have a lot of good friends, but when they got married and had children, they gradually neglected their friendship, and finally they didn't keep in touch much.

Personally, I think it's because everyone's life is too fast-paced nowadays, and there is no time and opportunity to maintain the relationship between friends. Therefore, it is common to take the initiative to contact friends only when they encounter difficulties, so that the other party will misunderstand and think that we are not real friendships.

For today's society, money is the easiest way to hurt friendship, not only friendship, but also love and family will become fragile because of money.

Friendship seems to be the most fragile of intimate relationships, and it is far less close than the relationship between parents, partners, and children: unlike kinship, which has no choice, choosing friends is a voluntary act; Unlike other voluntary relationships (including love, marriage, etc.), friendships lack formal structure, strict commitment, and binding force. It's unlikely that we'll go months without contact with our partner, but we can be estranged from our friends for an entire year.

As we become adults, our responsibilities and focus shift, and that's when friendships are most vulnerable.

But friendship is a very special relationship. The number of people we have had romantic relationships in our lifetimes is usually much smaller than the number of people who have developed friendships. Friendship is also the longest in our life, because a friend may leave, and friendship itself will always happen.

Good friendship can continue to fill our brother's life supplement shirt with new content, increase the interest of life, and also provide us with good social support.

Friendship is a very strange thing, it is sometimes fragile, fragile like a mirror, it will break when touched; Sometimes it's so strong, so strong that it can't be broken.

Is our friendship fragile or strong? Because of fate, we met in this class and spent two school years together; Because of fate, we will let each other meet, and at that station, we smile at each other.

Once, our laughter filled the entire campus, chasing each other on campus; Once, we cheered for the athletes in our class together; Once, you were injured because of running, I was very worried at that time, seeing that your knee was bleeding, I could only hand over a tissue, and when you took my tissue with your hand, your eyes told me: Thank you, don't worry, it's just a small injury; Once, you said that we should be best friends, and you would be sad with me, laughing together, ......

Is the young heart too soft, or too stubborn? It's so fragile that it shatters at the slightest touch. In the end, I can't help but ask you:

Why? "No reason, it's just that since we all suspect that we're dating, let's keep our distance so that everyone is fine." "Good?

Is it only because of the inadvertent friction that the language of communication between each other has been ossified since then? I thought in my heart, but I didn't dare to ask you again, and in the end, your QQ avatar went out. Sitting in front of the computer, the pain of my heart makes me unable to breathe, I don't know where to go, between the haze of the soul wandering, countless times I wake up but countless times sting, a rumor, so that there is a gap between each other, but the distance between inches is like a thousand miles, because of stubbornness, we have a kind of wordless hurt to each other, always dim in silence, and always walk and disappear in silence.

A kind of disillusionment is like a round mirror being broken to pieces, and there is no reunion, with a lifetime of exhaustion and confusion, in the busy city at a loss. I don't know if that's also a beautiful regret because we've had it together.

Now we've become familiar strangers, I don't know why? Are rumors about to break our friendship? Is keeping a little distance to break our friendship?

Now, I don't dare to ask for anything more, I don't dare to hope for anything, I just ask you to be happy and healthy every day, I only hope that when you are sad and lonely, you can let me give you a word of concern, a word of comfort, let me do my duty as a friend. If you think I'm not qualified, then I can only pray silently in my heart that I hope you can be happy for the rest of your life.

My good friend, if one day you read this article, remember: when you are lonely and helpless, remember to come to me. No matter what difficulties you encounter in the future, remember that in a certain corner of the world, there is someone who silently cares about you and supports you! Come on.