What kind of feelings and attitudes does Jia s mother have towards Daiyu?

Judging Jia's mother from the book alone.

There is still an affection between relatives for Daiyu. Although Mother Jia is not particularly in favor of being with Baoyu, as a descendant of her relatives, she still takes good care of Daiyu because of Lin Daiyu.

When you enter Jia's mansion, you can see Jia's mother's attitude towards Daiyu.

Mother Jia still has a little pity for Daiyu, after all, there is a blood relationship, it can be said that Mother Jia is deep in her heart, although she has a kind of love for Daiyu, I feel a little unable to release it, or a constraint by feudal thoughts.

In my opinion, Jia's mother's feelings for Daiyu are more "pity". To put it bluntly, Jia's mother is pitiful and feels sorry for Daiyu, who has lost her mother since she was a child and has no place to live. Compared with others, Mother Jia treats Daiyu not like a family member, but more like a guest, although she is also called "heart baby", but this relationship is always a little alienated.

Mother Jia pitied Daiyu very much, after all, she was her granddaughter and loved her as her granddaughter. But as the head of a big family, even if she likes Daiyu very much, she also understands very well that Daiyu's personality and body are not suitable for managing family affairs. Therefore, even though Jia Mu had the idea of matching Bao Dai and the two at the beginning, she still chose Xue Baochai in the end.

I think that in fact, Jia's mother has feelings for Daiyu, and she especially wants to protect her, and it can be seen from her food, clothing, housing and transportation that she has a very good attitude towards Daiyu.

Jia's mother continued her views on Daiyu, and even on Baoyu Daiyu's marriage. Before Jia's mother died, she specially called Baoyu Daiyu to her, saying that she regretted that she couldn't see the two of you get married. Moreover, he specially explained the matter of the two of them to Mrs. Wang and others.

In addition to Baoyu, Daiyu is the only person who is called "heart, liver and flesh" by Jia's mother, Daiyu and Jia's mother's "heart, liver and flesh" Baoyu have an awkward quarrel, she is either "pretending to be deaf and dumb" or "playing fifty boards each", obviously, in Jia's mother's heart, Daiyu and Baoyu are her "heart, liver and flesh".

Mother Jia is distressed and loves Lin Daiyu, but she can't marry Daiyu to Baoyu, compared to Daiyu, Mother Jia cares more about Baoyu's happiness and future.

In fact, Jia's mother likes Lin Daiyu, and she is also very good to Daiyu, otherwise she would not have been admitted to Jiafu, and it can be seen from the usual food and clothing.

She does take good care of Daiyu, but she still thinks that Daiyu should marry like Jia Min when she becomes an adult... But she later saw that Daiyu was in love with Baoyu, so she always pretended to be confused about Baoyu's spouse and kept silent... In fact, she didn't plan to let Daiyu stay in Jiafu for the rest of her life.

As Daiyu's grandmother, Mother Jia loves and cherishes this granddaughter from the bottom of her heart.

In Jia's mother's heart, Daiyu and Baoyu are her "heart, liver, and flesh".

still loves Daiyu, but he can't accept her marriage to Baoyu.

Mother Jia's feelings and attitudes towards Daiyu are very unfair, and I think.

The only blood left of the daughter who loves her the most, that kind of emotion can be imagined!

I think he treats him very well, after all, he is also a kind person.

I think he's treated this very well, after all, Dark Domain is also a very good person.

Jia Zheng is an uncle who has never met Lin Daiyu, and he doesn't know what the relationship between his uncle and his mother is. In short, I don't know how this uncle feels to Lin Daiyu. That is, I know that my mother has such an older brother.

In other words, I know that I have such an uncle. In fact, from Jia Zheng's point of view, he didn't really want to touch these women in the backyard. As long as it is not a banquet that Jia's mother usually summons and must attend, Jia Zheng will not show up easily.

Just like so many sisters came to Jiafu later, Jia Zheng didn't come out to greet him, in fact, Jia Zheng really didn't seem to want to do this, which shows that he has no prejudice against anyone. After that, when I visited the Grand View Garden, I didn't think about what my daughters thought at all, but evaluated each garden based on my own feelings. Jia Zheng only cares about political affairs, and even Jia Baoyu's marriage, Jia Zheng never seems to have ever planned.

There wasn't much contact between Jia Zheng and Lin Daiyu, but there may have been a large banquet, or they might not have met in private. Even if Lin Daiyu came to Jiafu for the first time, Jia Zheng didn't speak, which shows that Jia Zheng didn't care so much about Lin Daiyu. At least, Jia Zheng doesn't hate Lin Daiyu, maybe he can enjoy a little.

Jia Zheng was influenced by the social system, so he believed that reading was the only way out. In addition, Lin Ruhai, who is a morning flower explorer, is full of economy, and her educated daughter must also understand the truth.

Since Jia Zheng has never had a direct evaluation of Lin Daiyu, there are fewer conversations between the two, so it is difficult to see Jia Zheng's attitude towards Lin Daiyu. Cao Xueqin used the "Daguanyuan Talent Test" to comment on Jia Zheng's naming of Lin Daiyu Xiaoxiang Pavilion, hinting at Jia Zheng's attitude towards Lin Daiyu. Jia Zheng said with a smile.

Here (Xiaoxiang Pavilion) is not bad. If you can sit under this window and read a book on a moonlit night, you won't waste your life. Finally, when he saw Baoyu, Baoyu, who was being frightened, hurriedly lowered his head.

Jia Zheng still admires Lin Daiyu's talent, and agrees with Lin Daiyu's background, knowledge and family style.

Moreover, Lin Daiyu is actually not afraid of his uncle, nor is there any estrangement. If you should say hello and salute, Lin Daiyu is just as usual.

Jia Zheng's attitude towards Daiyu is relatively cold, although it is his own niece, but Jia Zheng does not take Daiyu to heart and always ignores it.

If it is from the perspective of his niece, Jia Zheng's attitude towards Daiyu is not cordial at all, but if it is from the perspective of a prospective daughter-in-law, then Jia Zheng is still very satisfied with Daiyu, he cares about Lin Daiyu every day, and will also take into account Lin Daiyu's personal thoughts.

Jia Zheng didn't care much about Lin Daiyu's attitude, and he didn't particularly value Lin Daiyu.

1. Human causes.

The so-called man-made reasons refer to the obstruction or conspiracy of others, which eventually led to the occurrence of Bao Dai's love tragedy. Some believe that in the end, it was not the feudal political tyrant who suffocated everything - Jia Zheng, but this Jia Mu who once prayed for happiness for Jia Baoyu and was so 'verbal and unforgettable' to Lin Daiyu.

Some people think that it is Wang Xifeng, for example, in the last forty episodes written by Gao E, it was Wang Xifeng's plan to drop the bag that led to the tragedy of Bao Dai's love. Some people think that it is Jia Yuanchun, and it is she who broke up Bao Dai's marriage. There are also those who think it is Aunt Zhao.

2. Self-reasons.

The so-called self-cause means that the love tragedy should be the responsibility of Bao Dai and the others. Commentators believe that there is an ideological class imprint on Bao Dai and his wife, which forms their fatal weakness.

Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu can't defend their love strongly in the face of powerful feudal forces. This is even more obvious in Lin Daiyu. Lin Daiyu is weak under the feudal forces, and Jia Baoyu is also like this, and she also consciously or unconsciously follows the feudal family etiquette, so Baoyu's inability to completely break with the feudal concept is also one of the reasons.

3. Class and family reasons.

The so-called class and family reasons mean that the tragedy of Bao Dai's love is ultimately caused by the criminal feudal class and the strict family environment. Some red scientists said that the tragedy of Bao Dai's love was not caused by any one person, but "the sacred power of the family, that is, the political force, and the tragedy of Bao Dai's love, in the final analysis, is still a political issue."

4. Ethical and secular reasons.

The so-called ethical and secular reasons refer to the fact that in addition to political factors, there are also some secular ideas that lead to the tragedy of Bao Dai's love. For example, the four major families are related to each other, and marriage has become their capital for prosperity. He pointed out that in secular marriage, there is no one who does not value money, Lin Daiyu is already alone at this time, and Xue Baochai has a lot of furniture, so the parents of Jiafu finally chose Xue Baochai.