Some people say that when educating children, you can t blindly give in to children, what do you thi

This statement is quite pertinent, after all, children do not know most of the right and wrong, at this time it is necessary to be a parent to guide, when they threaten you in a sprinkling way, you must not compromise, otherwise they will come back again and again in a similar situation.

Educating children really can't just make concessions. The so-called "blind concession" is child-centered, and parents have no principles and no bottom line. In fact, it is up to the child to decide, this is spoiling the child.

Many families nowadays, especially one-child families, are too laissez-faire with their children. Children tend to become selfish, arrogant, and ungrateful to them.

That's right. All freedoms have boundaries, both for adults and children. There should be boundaries between people, whether between adults or between adults and children, and this is mutual respect.

No one can do whatever he wants, he can do whatever he wants. That's what we have to teach our children. Therefore, to educate children, we must have the courage to say "no".

That's right! We advocate treating children as free people, but giving them freedom is not freewheeling, all requirements are met, and all ways are supported. Freedom and self-discipline are the only true freedom!

Self-discipline here is also equivalent to educating children to have principles and rules that children must follow, of course, these principles and rules are presented in a flexible way according to each child and different ages, so that children can grow up healthy and happy in a way that is acceptable.

There is nothing wrong with this sentence, blindly making concessions and compromises will only make children feel that the boundaries of the rules are blurred, and they may even feel that there are no rules, as long as they want to, they can get it. Then when the child grows up, he will also become unclear about right and wrong, and he does not know how to follow the rules.

When educating a child, it is necessary to make it clear that no one will let him for no reason, so that he can quickly integrate into the society.

This statement is correct, if the child is wrong, and blindly give in, it is easy to develop the child's arrogance.

When educating children, you must not blindly give in to children, if you give in one step today, then you have to give him two steps tomorrow, and after a long time you will find that she is lawless.

We respect the needs of the child and respect his right to choose his behavior. But we don't cooperate with unreasonable demands, excessive demands. We don't ask him to change, but we can decide what we do.

We must stick to our principles and bottom line. We must not be influenced by our children's various bad behaviors, we must not be manipulated, and we must be firm in our own behavior. Let the child know that the boundaries are there.

To educate children, it is true that you can't blindly give in to your children, and if you are not careful, step on the line, and cross the line, you are violating the rules of the game, and you will have to pay a price for it.

It is true that you can't blindly get used to your child and respond to your child's needs, which will affect your child's three views, and you must let your child be appropriately frustrated.

When we say no to our children, when we keep our bottom line and principles, the child will know that I am unreasonable and cannot change my mother's mind, he will adjust his behavior, he will turn bad behavior into good behavior, and develop good habits, which is very true.

Introduction: Parents must have their own unique way of educating their children, and do not beat and scold their children. If a child is always beaten and scolded by his parents, there is no way to express his thoughts to his parents.

When parents find that they are interested in playing, they must respect the child's oak branch type, give the child time to think, and don't always discipline the child, the child also has his own ideas. Parents should respect their children's opinions, think from their children's point of view, and as long as their children do not cause trouble to their parents, they should respect their children and let them develop on their own. If a parent will not respect the child, the child will not respect the parent.

Today, I will tell you about it, some people say that educating children cannot blindly give in to children, why is this?

Parents must not make concessions to their children, and if parents blindly take care of their children, they will educate parents in turn. Parents should educate their children to develop good living habits, if parents have no way to get ahead of their children, children have no way to learn from their parents. Many times parents will punish their children if they want to educate them, and they must pay attention to techniques and skills in educating children.

If a child is always beaten and scolded by his parents, and is always said by his parents not to abide by discipline, the child will not be able to get better development, and the child will feel that his parents are always aimed at himself, and will treat himself in the way of his parents. Don't blindly give in to your child, it will hurt your child.

Parents must walk in front of their children, don't always scold their children, always scold their children, and have no healthy psychology. If the child does not have a healthy psychology, the child will become very inferior, dare not socialize with others, and children who dare not socialize with others will be very cowardly. Parents should consider their children's development and find the right education for their children, which is the best education for their children.

This is because when educating children, if you keep giving in, it will develop a bad character for the child, which is not conducive to the child's development.

If you often give in to the child's slippery repentance, it will only hurt the child, and the child will only feel that he is very awesome and awesome. You can become very proud, very arrogant.

Because in the process of educating children, parents must have their own principles and bottom lines, Lu Liannian children's thinking is not mature enough, and they can't have a good grasp of the proportions of things.

Blindly giving in to the child can only make the child unreasonable demands on the parents without moderation, and when the parents are not satisfied, the children will cry or quarrel with the parents to solve. Therefore, we should educate our children in moderation in everything.

Because the child Laqingzi is still young, he does not have the ability to distinguish right from wrong, and adults need to help him distinguish right from wrong, tell him what is right and what is wrong, so he can't blindly give in to the child's shirt and pants before the collapse, and say no when he should say no.

If you blindly give in when educating your children to be fierce, you will give your children a bad habit of playing badly and leaking. It will affect the child's development, and the child's personality will become worse and worse.

Because blindly giving in may make children know that they can get everything they want, which is extremely detrimental to children's development.

Kids, you can't take these toys out of the supermarket if you haven't paid for them. The salesperson patiently explained to a child.

It turned out that the cause of this incident was that when the child was in the toy store, the parents did not agree to buy too many toys for the child, but the child was very eager, so he secretly took the toy and put it in the schoolbag when he had to do so, but the salesperson found it at a glance when he checked out.

More and more people around were pointing at the child, and at this time, the father on the side was angry when he saw this happening, and walked over quickly and slapped the child hard. The father was rude to the child in front of everyone, and even a child who didn't understand anything felt that he couldn't accept it, so the child also broke down and covered his face and ran away quickly.

Children who don't understand anything are easy to make mistakes, and when children make mistakes, parents naturally have to punish them severely. But the way we treat our children's education should not be based solely on the simple and crude way of rewarding and punishing.

Parents should understand that the purpose of our education is to prevent them from making mistakes. Therefore, in the way of educating children, it must not be simple and rude. Because simply punishing a child can only treat the symptoms but not the root cause.

Especially when there are many people around, if parents immediately beat and scold their children regardless of other people's eyes, then in the critical period of shaping the child's three views, even if he makes a mistake, it will only make the child feel that he is not respected. This kind of education that does not feel respected by oneself, and children's obedience is often only superficial obedience.

We must first stop the child's behavior immediately on the spot, and if the child has harmed the interests of others, then we must ask the child to immediately apologize to others and admit his mistake. If the child harms the interests of others and needs compensation, then the parents should not shirk. This is also an opportunity to teach your child what it means to take on his own responsibilities.

Then under the condition of the child's self-esteem, point out that the child has just done wrong, so that the child can truly realize the harm that what he has done to others.

Of course, the point of this education is not to let the child make a mistake and it will end, the appropriate punishment will make the child deeply remember the mistake that happened this time, only if the child really knows what he is wrong and promises not to make it again in the future, the child can be taught a lesson in this mistake.

But in all the punishment process, if parents choose to beat and scold their children, it can only be said that this kind of education is the lowest level, the most simple and rough way of education. Because blind beating and scolding cannot convince the child, it can only make the child hurt or arouse the child's rebellious psychology.

There are many ways to punish, such as parents can choose to let their children do housework and public welfare.

In fact, how much parents say and how much they scold is not real education, and the real way of education is that children are nurtured by their parents bit by bit. Our words and deeds are in the eyes of children, and they will imitate our practices and behaviors, so parents should learn the power of an example, education or what is the real guideline.

Be differentiated. If it is a reasonable request from the child, or a promise with the child, it must be done and can be appropriately compromised. But children are vexatious, and parents choose to give in, which will only make the child's personality selfish.

In fact, it is more important to make concessions and be very principled at the same time. That is to say, you must have your own bottom line in educating your children, and you can't blindly give in to your children's requirements.

Of course, this sentence is very true, because your blind concessions will only make your children more advanced, and I think sometimes education needs to be more strict.

Because concessions will only make the child gain an inch, unable to realize his mistakes, and eventually become a bear child。Therefore, when it comes to educating their children, parents cannot blindly give in, and sometimes they must be a little stronger and establish the majesty of parents。Educating children is indeed a difficult problem, and it is often said that you can't blindly compromise on children's education, but this is true at all.

With the material level getting better and better, parents now want to give their children the best living conditions, and they try their best to meet their children's requirements. For example, many children like to play games, watch TV, and do not like to study, if parents blindly give in and let their children use electronic products, children's academic performance will continue to decline, do not expect children's self-control to play a role. If the child likes to stay up late, and the parents let it go, the child's physical fitness will get worse and worse, and the growth will be affected by this.

Therefore, parents must be strong in educating their children, for example, if the child makes some mistakes of nature, parents should severely criticize and educate the child, so that the child recognizes his mistakes and corrects them, and if necessary, appropriate punishment can be taken. However, even so, beating and scolding education is still not advocated, because violence will make children have an inferiority complex, lack self-confidence, and will not help them in their future life and work. Although parents should respect their children's opinions, they should also have their own bottom line, and let their children understand that their bottom line is in.

It is necessary to guide the child appropriately in certain matters, and deal with important issues seriously. The reason why there are more and more bear children now is because parents obey their children's words, and children gradually become unscrupulous. Even when such children grow up, it will be difficult for them to change their nature, and when the time comes, they will have their own society to educate them.

And educating children should also be different from person to person, after all, children's personalities are different, and the way of education should also be changed, so don't hurt your children because of your own education problems.

This sentence is very correct, if parents always blindly give in to their children, children will become more and more rebellious, and they will also contradict their parents.

Yes, because giving in all the time will make the child feel that he is doing the right thing, and the parents will approve of his approach, and the child will not change anything.

Correct, this can make the child very smart, let the child get a better education, and it is good for the child's development.

Introduction: Most parents are the first time when parents are also the first time to have children, so in the process of educating children, they will definitely encounter more or less problems, when encountering these problems, parents choose to blindly give in, or according to their own principles to educate it. Although there will definitely be painful elements in education, parents still have to be ruthless for the sake of their children's future, and the correct education must be the correct education.

Every time I see those bear children, I feel very uncomfortable, why do their parents only give birth but do not raise them? Why don't you educate your children well? Maybe they feel that they have too few children and need others to take care of him, and others let him, why?

The other children are all precious parents in the family, and there is no need to always blindly give in to their children, especially in the process of educating children. Although others have been advocating happy education, but how can education be happy, if we say that in most cases we are in a state of concession to children, then after going to the society, who will give him concessions?

Parents blindly give in will make children have a lot of happiness, will let a lot of children have a lot of game time, but for the future of children, in order to be responsible for children, then there is no absolute fairness, children need to accept some stick education from parents, accept some punishment measures from parents, only in this way can we manage children well, in order to be able to educate children well. All children need to know that in their educational process there is not only joy in learning, but also in happiness, and there is a price to pay after making mistakes. It can make children have self-confidence, but not excessively, otherwise the children will not be able to bear the social contrast at all.