My boyfriend s parents don t approve of the two of us.

My suggestion is to ask the boyfriend to talk to his parents. The main question is whether the male pot friend is a mother's treasure man, if not, the two of them can still solve this problem. If it is, it is more troublesome.

Ask your boyfriend what he means, why the man's parents don't agree, and talk to the man's parents mainly to see the boyfriend's attitude.

If it were me, I would have chosen to break up decisively. It's not that no one wants me, I didn't rush to his house, and now I am not welcomed, and after I get married, there are still many things.

If the boyfriend's parents don't agree with the two of them being together, they should consider whether to break up, because if the man's parents don't agree, the boyfriend won't stick to it anymore.

If your boyfriend's parents don't agree with the two of us being together, you can try to talk to your boyfriend's parents, discuss, and see if the contradiction between the two people is in **, if it really doesn't work, you can consider breaking up, because the unblessed relationship is a bad feeling.

First of all, think about whether it is something that he does not do well and his parents are not satisfied, generally polite and diligent girls who like to chat with their elders, parents like it very much.

If your boyfriend's parents don't agree with you, you can choose to break up as soon as possible, or you need to feel them and if they don't agree with them, you can suggest breaking up.

This mainly depends on the attitude of the boyfriend, if the boyfriend insists, in fact, the two of you still have results, if he is not resolute, it is difficult to say.

If the two really love each other, communicate more with their parents, no parents are not for the good of their children, if you love each other and are very suitable, you will not break up.

Then you should break up decisively, because love that is not blessed by your parents has no good results and is futile.

You can communicate with them first to see where they are not satisfied, show them if you can improve, and break up as soon as possible if not.

If he doesn't agree, then it depends on his boyfriend's attitude towards him, if his boyfriend loves him very much, then let him solve it himself.

is also a girl, if it takes a lot of effort to finally get married, as long as everyone lives together, it will be uncomfortable, so think about it.

The boyfriend's parents don't agree to be together, so you think about it, what is your problem? Or is it their parents' problem.

Many girls will encounter a serious problem when they fall in love, that is, they plan to get married with their boyfriend, but their boyfriend's parents do not agree that they are with their boyfriend. At this time, if the boyfriend has not been firm, it is very likely that he will choose to break up with him, which will cause injuries to the two of them. So what should you do if your boyfriend's parents don't approve of two people being together?

If the boyfriend's parents don't agree with the two of them being together, then you can hide from the other party's parents at this time and fall in love quietly. Because many times the other party's parents do not agree to two people being together, because they don't know enough about themselves, or because it is difficult to accept it for a while. After a long time, the other party's parents' minds will change, so you can first hide from the other party's parents and quietly fall in love, wait until the other party's parents change their minds, and then confess to the other party's parents, and then have a good exchange, maybe the other party's parents will agree to the two together.

If the other party's father, Yu Zheng Ji, does not agree that the two people are together, it is caused by the other party's parents who have a misunderstanding about themselves, at this time, you can communicate with the other party's parents well, exchange opinions of both parties in depth, and try to resolve the misunderstanding. You can sincerely express your heart to the other party's parents, so that the other party's parents can understand that the two people are sincerely together.

If your boyfriend's parents are not satisfied with you, you can let your boyfriend persuade your parents more at this time. Many times, the other party's parents, as elders, don't like to put down their bodies and communicate with their juniors, but they can still listen to their son's words. At this time, as long as your boyfriend dares to persevere, the other parent's mind will change sooner or later, but be careful not to have a head-on conflict with your parents.

There must be reasons for the strong opposition of the man's parents, and I wonder what is the reason why they are so opposed to you. If it's because of family reasons, such as not being a household registration, such as being dissatisfied with your appearance or height, such as fortune telling that you are not suitable, etc., etc., if it is such a similar reason, I don't think you need to stick to it.

Because, marriage is not as simple as you think, thinking that as long as two people love each other, it is a combination of two families, not a combination of two people, so, even if you really insist on going to the end despite all difficulties now, the truth cannot be like in the fairy tale, the prince and princess live a happy life like this, but, in the face of life, you will have more troubles and contradictions, when the time comes, the dissatisfaction of the man's parents with you will become more and more serious, such a marriage, It doesn't make much sense. Because no matter how much love you have, constant conflicts and quarrels will wear out love.

Secondly, if the opposition of the man's parents is not due to the objective conditions mentioned above, then if you really like your boyfriend, then you should try to change the place that displeased them. For example, they are not satisfied with your current job or income, then, He Jian, for this, you are fully capable of allowing yourself to find a better job or a higher income, and constantly strive to improve yourself, so that you will be satisfied with even if his parents are picky and critical. Moreover, if you change yourself through your efforts, even if you and your boyfriend fail to be together in the end, you can also take this opportunity to improve yourself, and if you have the opportunity to meet again next time, I believe that they will definitely be impressed with you and regret that they didn't choose you in the first place!

It's the New Year's Day soon, and the young couples are also planning to bring their boyfriends and girlfriends to meet their parents. But what if the boyfriend's parents don't approve of the two being together? Do you want to break up or do you want to stick to it? What are the countermeasures to deal with the man's disagreement?

1. The man's parents do not agree with the countermeasures.

The man disagrees, don't feel that there is no future all of a sudden. First of all, look at your boyfriend's views and attitudes towards this, the attitude is positive, then insist, otherwise it is recommended to break up.

1. Look at your boyfriend's attitude.

If the man's parents disagree, the first thing to look at is the boyfriend's attitude. If your boyfriend is very resolute in order to be with you and has made a lot of efforts in front of the man's parents, it shows that he really loves you, and the two insist on convincing the parents is just around the corner. If you have a negative attitude and do not have a positive way to improve the relationship between your parents and you, then it is advisable to break up.

2. Persistence.

As mentioned earlier, your boyfriend has made a lot of efforts to make your parents accept you, and there will be hope for the persistence of those two people. Every parent wants their children to be happy, even if they don't agree to be together. When you see your boyfriend doing so much to be with you, they will also know that your boyfriend is happy with you, and they will always agree to it after a long run-in.

2. How to deal with parental opposition.

1. Find out what the problem is.

No pair of parents will object to two people being together for no reason, so when parents disagree, be sure to find out the reason for the parent's objection and then actively solve the problem.

2. Look at it rationally.

There may not be so many contradictions between two people, but when two families are combined, there will be a lot of problems. For the problem that the parents do not agree with, we should look at it rationally and consider whether the two people are really suitable to be together, after all, the parents have more life experience than themselves, and they look at the problem in the long term.

3. Because the man who does not agree to give up on you.

said at the beginning that if the boyfriend gives up without making any effort because his parents don't agree, the little fairy doesn't have to be sad. Because even if you are barely together, your mother-in-law will be your super focus, and such a responsible man, your married life will be very hard, so this kind of person to break up is a better choice.

Marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, so once one party has a problem, then the life after marriage will not be happy, so whether it is a boy or a girl, you need to solve the problems of the two families before marriage.

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