Have you ever been recognized by others in your heart?

I always had low self-esteem, and it wasn't until my boyfriend confessed to me that I felt that someone recognized me, and he told me that he would always protect me, and I cried at that time, and I felt so happy.

I have been recognized, because I sing well, and the songs that have been uploaded to the Internet have been loved by many strangers, so it can be regarded as recognition.

When playing, a person scored seven goals in a row, and the people on the sidelines looked stupid, and the clapping was better, of course, he was recognized by others.

I've always felt that even if the whole world doesn't agree with me, my family will always agree with me.

I once liked a girl, and she actually recognized me in her heart, but I didn't feel it and finally left me.

It's just that I used to be good at basketball, and they thought I was a better person.

It makes me feel comfortable talking to him, he knows me very well, he can understand my strengths through my words, he appreciates me, I like him very much, and I even expect him to come to me. Talking to him I had a strong sense of being recognized, and I felt that he was my bosom friend.

I guess it's a relief. There is no sense of surprise, after all, it is the result of their own efforts. The person I like never says he approves of me, but he likes me too.

I still remember when I was in junior high school, I made many ** revisions and was recognized by the teacher. Then I excitedly thought about running laps on the playground to calm myself down, and then get a good night's sleep, hoping that I wouldn't wake up the next day without dreaming.

That's the case with my boyfriend, he approves of me. We had a smooth conversation, all kinds of topics were natural, I didn't have to rack my brains to answer each other, as if the person I was talking to knew everything about me, and I felt like I had met another self.

Being recognized by a person will be very happy, enjoy every moment and every second with him, and feel that I am the luckiest person in the world, and nothing matters except him.

A sullen person like me will definitely not show special happiness in front of her, just like the recognition of other people, but behind the scenes, I will be happy, I will share it with close friends, and I will think about it when I have time, and laugh there silly, and this state will last for a long time. ‍‍

I'm actually quite happy to be recognized by someone I like, after all, those four words can't be obtained by anyone for no reason. I worked so hard to get those four words. It felt like a bolt of lightning that made me tremble.

I think if you work hard to do the right thing, everyone will recognize you, and it's not surprising that those who like it will be recognized. ‍‍

My girlfriend recognized me, but my life was full of hope, and I felt like I wouldn't be stumped at all. It's a pity that they didn't come together. However, it is also a good memory, and nothing can replace it.

I feel like happiness is frozen, or that's my definition of happiness. Thank you for getting to know her.

Around us, there is often such a group of people, no matter how good they are and how capable they are, but in their own eyes, they cannot get their own affirmation, and even seriously destroy while making meritorious contributions.

So why do such groups of people exist? In fact, these people are often related to their experiences when they were children, or they rarely received encouragement and praise from those around them when they were growing up. For example:

There is an eight-year-old child, 99 points in Chinese, 100 points in mathematics, and 85 points in English in the midterm exam, at this time, he took the exam paper to his parents, and his father's first sentence "Why didn't I get 100 points in Chinese, and I lost that point, why was I so careless?" The second sentence is "English is only 85 points, what book to read".

Let's take a look at the father's question, they have seen the child's high score of 99, 100, 85, and the excellent score to praise, praise, and encourage, but just see the part of the child that can be done and start to ask, excuse me, if you are this child, how would you feel in your heart? Over time, there will be a disapproval in the child's heart, anyway, what I do is bad is not good, so when the child grows up and is admitted to college and enters the job, he will keep repeating this pattern, and there will be a voice in the brain: I don't do well, and I keep denying myself in my heart!

In fact, at this time, we only need to pay attention to giving him a little encouragement, and over time, he will begin to recognize himself, and slowly his living habits will change dramatically.

Here's another example:

Today I went to Panyu, Guangzhou, where I lived, 2 hours away from the bus where the class was held, no traffic jam for an hour, I calculated the time to set off at the Sailing Shop, when I got off the bus, I looked at the watch, walked over just 9:00 to start the class will not be late, but I didn't expect that the building is difficult to find, I was originally a road idiot and walked for half an hour to arrive, but I was late. When I walked into the workshop, the teacher stopped and asked me how I felt about being late, and I said I was nervous, and he asked me if I would like to do a case study represented by me.

I said yes. If so, I was called to the middle and sat down with the other latecomer back to the back, and she said something to me: Ruoshui, you are important to all of us......

When I heard these words, my late apprehension and self-blame began to relax, and then the mentor continued to guide me, and from this question, what pattern did I see!

Self-denial", yes, I understood all of a sudden, I often do things without recognition of my self-worth, today, when I was late, everyone kept not blaming me, but said to me that it was very important, the inner strength was great, I felt very warm, and I began to affirm myself and have more self-confidence.

In fact, when we don't recognize ourselves more in the sedan chair, recognize others in the sedan chair, and receive their approval, our lives will also undergo another change, and it will get better and better!

What we give to others should be "more positive responses and less negative responses", so that we can continue to give others recognition and affirmation, in fact, we are also recognizing ourselves and affirming ourselves!

Summary. When I was recognized, I slowly realized that from everyone's later actions, someone recognized me and the summer vacation activities, Wei Qiujuan's article made me more firm in my own ideas, and there were really people who recognized me and the summer vacation training camp and our usual habits.

All the behaviors that can change everyone in a better direction are recognized.

When I was recognized, I answered: From everyone's later career and wisdom, I slowly realized that someone recognized me and the summer vacation activities, Wei Qiujuan's article made me more determined to answer my own thoughts, and someone really recognized me and the summer vacation training camp and our usual habits. All the behaviors that can change everyone in a better direction are recognized.

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