How can you stop loving her, not thinking about her, so that you can forget her?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-08
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Why are you as hard as me, I have tried to use work, tobacco and alcohol to numb myself, dilute my memory to no avail, I now feel that when I do what I like to do, I will not think about her, at this time I will also seize the opportunity to find a girl who you love her and she loves you, so that she will slowly fade from your memory, maybe in the future will become a good friend who knows you very well!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Friend, don't panic, that's nothing, believe that your future wife is the best, the memories are not terrible, you have to try to open your heart, accept the good things, then you will find that there are actually many better girls than her, and then you will naturally forget Good luck.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    What's there? Maybe I say now that you don't believe it, if you find someone better than her, you will come out, this is the fastest way, don't let yourself be too idle, get busy, you still have time to think about these things. Hehe!

    Gentlemen. Toughen up and drink a little wine! Look at the lights in the rain, and you will know that what is blurred, and if it is more blurry, it is forgetting!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Tell you. To love someone is to do it forever, and it is almost impossible not to give up. You can give yourself some time.

    Don't let yourself see him again, give yourself a little pressure in life, work, and study. In the busyness, I gradually forgot about him. Surely!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Many times, there are many things that do not blindly seek to forget, it is important to see how you deal with them. In fact, time can dilute everything, and the same is true for feelings and memories. After time, the wounds in my heart will slowly heal, and I won't feel so painful when I touch those memories again.

    Slowly, you may find that the memories are also beautiful.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Find what you should do and fight for your career; You have to correctly realize that love is only a part of life, you still have relatives, friends, and your career, and you still have a lot to do

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Break off the relationship, think of something else, destroy what has to do with her, "swear by a broken finger", and forget about her completely!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I care about what I once had, I don't care about how long it lasts!

    Forget what you should forget, remember what you shouldn't forget, don't always immerse yourself in the past, you have to grasp the present, facing the present is the most important thing, after all, you still have to live without her!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Whenever this time.

    You should find a spiritual sustenance.

    If you want to, you should start with your new life and new journey.

    I'm sure you'll forget.

    Don't be so attached to anything.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Bury this memory deep in your heart.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Keep yourself busy and don't have time to think about it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    She doesn't love you anymore? Then you don't want to love her.

    Or is there a misunderstanding on your part? So to solve?

    What is your relationship, unclear?

    Maybe she'll love you too!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Remember! Don't live in memory, that's the past, tomorrow is yours.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Go listen to Wu Bai's "Ronin Love Song".

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I'm just like you, in pain.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......What do you think it will be to give up, is it so easy to give up someone, and is it still called true love? Love will make you happy, and thinking of her "him" will be very happy and powerful.

    But you know how you'll feel when you don't get her? Do you feel that the sky is falling, people are tired, and your heart is tired? I'm sure you've encountered it, because I've also encountered it now in trouble, in pain.

    I can understand your feelings. I want to love so much, I give love, but she wants you to give up on her, I said I will, but is it really okay? When I was lonely, when I was lonely, I quietly thought of her, her voice, and every word she said, it was so unforgettable and heart-wrenching.

    I really want to love, but I get a lot of pain, and my body and mind are haggard. Is this called abandonment? Therefore, it is impossible to give up a person you really love, you can only cry and remind yourself that you want to forget, to escape, although you don't want to, you are very unwilling, but what else can you do besides escaping?

    I'm like that now, and I can understand your mood somewhat. If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus. Turn your attention to something else.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you have a better and better person around you, someone who loves you more, you will forget, you don't love you anymore, forget your previous feelings and pains, want to open up, be broad-hearted, can't be friends or enemies, don't associate with him anymore for the sake of your and his future family happiness, become a familiar stranger, can't hang yourself on a tree, it's important, be strong and work hard to find your favorite person and happiness!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

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