What moment did you feel like you had grown a lot?

When I came out to work after graduating from college, I felt that I had grown a lot when I kept hitting a wall in my job search.

I feel that after I got married, had my own children and my own family, I instantly felt that I had grown up and should be responsible and responsible.

A few years ago, my dad was suddenly hospitalized because of poor health, and as a child, I had to keep vigil in the hospital.

When I went to college, I felt that I was no longer a child, after all, I was an adult, and they were all older, and I just thought that I should not let them worry about the problems that I could solve by myself.

After graduating from university, I worked hard in a big city alone, and at this moment I learned that even if I encountered difficulties, I had to carry them on my own, and indeed this stage was a great growth for me.

A while ago, I worked overtime until three o'clock in the morning, and when I returned to the apartment to eat instant noodles, I found that my relatives had visited a week in advance, went to the 24-hour convenience store to buy food, and when I walked back with my things, I saw that my shadow was pulled by the street lamp for a long time, and it was time to go to work in 3 hours. At that time, I really realized that I was an adult, and the world of adult people was really not easy.

Playing chess won against my dad, his thinking was not as active as when he was younger, he had to think about every move for a long time, his behavior was uncertain, at that moment, I felt that my father was old, and I was also grown.

When I was a year ago, I would do things by my own nature, but now I think about it a lot.

Mom and Dad forgot a lot of things just said, and always said the wrong thing, I once impatiently corrected her mistakes, suddenly looked up and saw the obvious lines on Mom's face, and my heart suddenly shook.

Hello subject! I think that when you have a family and have children, especially from the moment the child is born, your concept will be completely subverted, and you will instantly feel that the burden on your shoulders is heavy.

When I was in college, I broke up with my boyfriend who had been talking for three years, walked alone on the road, carried a wine bottle, fell, broke my foot, cried heartbreakingly, but I didn't dare to make a sound, I could only grit my teeth, tears kept coming out of my eyes, I drank all night in the park, didn't go to class the next day, slept in the hotel all day, dressed up and returned to the dormitory, my roommate asked me, I pretended to be very indifferent and said, "It's okay"! When you lose something in your heart, you'll grow up. ‍‍

When I went back to my hometown and turned on the light switch, I found that the light switch in the house where I lived when I was a child was so low that I could barely reach it on my toes. only to realize that I have grown up so much.

From the beginning of packing my luggage, my father kept telling me how to get along with my new classmates, and my mother taught me how to do laundry. For various reasons, my parents couldn't personally send me to Hainan to go to school, but on the night of my departure, my parents went to see me off, and after entering the station, I could still see the two of them waving to me at the door. The moment I turned around, I felt that I had grown up and that I should go into the rivers and lakes alone. ‍‍

When I was a child, I got up very badly, who told me to get up and get angry, and then I had my own nephew, my sister brought him to live in my house, and he kept crying at night, so I got up in the middle of the night and hugged him to coax him, and when he put his little head on my shoulder, there was a very wonderful feeling, to take care of others, the feeling of being needed. At that time, I was still sleeping in a daze, and I vaguely felt that I had grown up.

I led her through the security check and entered the station, telling her which station to remember to get off and what situations she might encounter when getting off, and I was worried about my mother, and at that moment, I remembered that she taught me to take the car when I was a child.

Lovelorn.

Many things happen in the future, all of them are instantaneous, in fact, they only reach the threshold at that moment, and the efforts we have made before are just paving the way for this moment.

Any epiphany must have a clear thinking about the problem as the main premise, and at the same time, the epiphany must be a long, serious, and even painstaking reflection on this problem before it can occur. This long-term period can be several hours in a day or several years in a lifetime, which is relative.

Coincidentally, most of the real sense of getting out of broken love is done through epiphany.

Get rid of a broken love. 1. Ask your heart if you still love each other.

Some people are obviously in love, but they can't figure out what they want, don't break up because of quarrels and anger, such a broken love will make you regret it for a lifetime. If you are still in love with the other person, you can choose to calm down, but you must tell the other person not to make the other person too sad.

2. Don't make excuses for yourself.

If you really don't love, you have to let go decisively, and don't try to contact him because of loneliness and frustration. Don't just want to find someone to rely on because you are sad, so that the relationship will be revived, such a relationship is meaningless.

Three rules that make you grow up in an instant.

For example, if there are some major changes, I think it is difficult for a person to suddenly grow up and become sensible, because they will feel that if they continue to be so naïve, or irresponsible, they may lose more and more in the future, and then they will regret it very much.

There are many things that can make a person grow up instantly, for example, everyone knows more painful things, falling out of love, at the moment of falling out of love, you will feel that you have grown up a lot, and in terms of feelings, at least there is a great progress, and you will not be inseparable from him because of other people's small favors.

In fact, there are really many things in life that can make me grow up instantly, for example, when I gave birth to a baby, I felt that I had grown up in that moment, because I became a mother, the burden of responsibility on my body was heavier, and I was very happy.

There are a lot of things going on at home, my father is sick, my mother is not in good health, at this time I feel that the burden of the family is on me, so I feel some pressure brought by life in an instant, but it also allows me to grow up slowly, let me learn to be a director Let me learn that life is not easy.

The thing that makes us grow in an instant is that on our growth path, we can solve problems by ourselves when we encounter them, and then when we encounter problems, we can not retreat and face difficulties.

I remember that the thing that made me grow up in an instant should be that when I was young, my parents went out to work, and then there were only me and my younger brother and my wife at home, and the old lady was older, and once I was hit by a car when I went out, and that time I felt that I was too young to do many things, and I should have grown up.

In fact, there are many such things, for example, the one thing you care about the most happens and something that you once imagined, or it may promote your growth and make you feel that you have grown up in an instant, and when you see that your parents are particularly hard, you will also grow up in that moment.

I don't talk to my parents anymore if I have something on my mind.

Staying up all night is going to kill you.

Friend" has to be in quotation marks.

There is someone who walks with you all the way, but he collapses as soon as he leans on it.

It's best to be on your own.

But you also have to develop your network, and you have to constantly take the initiative yourself.

Since then, I have lost the kind of friend I had when I was a child.

Not too often to wear brightly colored clothes.

There is not much hope for the future.

Too lazy to talk to people younger than your (psychological) age.

they’re not there yet.

See through everyone's intentions.

It is rare to meet people who are on the same frequency.

Become and begin to cherish every relationship.

I feel that big and small contradictions can be resolved.

Don't do it anymore. When I met someone I liked, I dared to flirt boldly.

began to be greedy for life and afraid of death.

Skincare, beauty and health care.

Realize that life is an extended version of death.

Most of the time, in order to save time, I also eat simple and tasteless food.

At the end of 22, all five people in the family (my grandfather who is almost 90 years old, my grandmother who is almost 80 years old, my sister, my brother) are all yang, and I suddenly feel that I have grown up in the days when I carried everything and took care of everything.

1. When I was a child, I was super well-behaved, and I didn't talk much, but when I grew up, my temper was very short-tempered, and I exploded at a little.

2. I lacked love when I was a child, and I became a love brain when I grew up.

3. When you were a child, you were patriarchal, and when you grew up, you had a daughter, and you tried your best to be good to your daughter. for fear that she would be wronged and hurt a little bit.

4. When you were a child, your parents secretly lost your most precious things, and when you grew up, you desperately bought the lost item, but found that it was not right, and secretly wiped your tears!

5. When I was a child, my family was poor, and you wanted the same food, clothing, and use. Such as clothes, shoes, snacks, toys. Mom and Dad didn't buy it for you.

Silly at your brain is a good or bad output. When you grow up, you buy like crazy, hoard, and watch like this, and your heart is steady.

6. When I was a child, I followed my parents and relied on my parents, I couldn't say no, I couldn't talk back, and I couldn't hesitate. You can only listen to what you say. When I grew up, I didn't want to pay attention to Zhang, and I didn't want to pay attention to it.

7. When I was a child, I was taught to save all kinds of money, and when I grew up, I bought and bought like crazy!

8. I was poor when I was a child, and I am still poor when I grow up, and I have no qualifications and strength to retaliate!

9. When I was a child, everything was called forbearance, everything was called let, and when I grew up, I couldn't help but lose my temper when I saw anything that was not pleasing to the eye!

It really takes some time for people to understand some well-known truths. For example, work is important to a person. , which can get you rid of anxiety and have a stable kernel; After a few years of work, there is a change in attitude towards work;

First of all, you won't overdraw yourself because of overwork. Because work and life are equally important, maintain a good balance and the two will achieve each other. I will control my personal emotions at work, there will always be something you are dissatisfied with in the company, don't let too many negative emotions appear too much and spread.

Pay attention and deal with it in a timely manner.

If I used to face a higher-level leader, I would feel humbled and speak only to the letter. At this time, I won't be like this anymore, no matter who he is, the boss or the superior, we are equal partners, regardless of rank, I respect everyone.

Change consciousness to: work for yourself. I'm still going to take the initiative, but I'm not just going to get a promotion or a raise, I'm going to have a better choice because I want to be more successful in my job.

I think that's some cognitive change for the time being, and maybe it will change in a few years.