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Any psychological fear, is the corresponding ability is not enough, not in their own psychology how to overcome, purely by psychological overcoming obstacles and success inspiration is deliberately induced, the actual success is in the process of overcoming one's own ability to improve to the extent that the problem is completely solved, not the psychological overcoming effect itself. See what I mean? So as you say, it's your own level of ability to work that puts pressure on you and forces you to hesitate and retreat, not mentally.
My advice is to do what you do professionally, even on a big countertop, not just to make ends meet. I hope you find this helpful.
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Your biggest problem is that you don't dare to choose, and you are afraid of the consequences. Life is not only about dreams and success, but also about depravity and reluctant abandonment. There is a saying called:
If you haven't stumbled in life, what's the point? Because I never got the feeling of a knee hitting the ground and then my skin breaking and bleeding. What is called a dream, a dream is not only a beautiful expectation, but also everything you experience on the way to chase.
Whatever you want to do, ask yourself: Am I working hard enough to get what I want? If you think you can, then stick to it, even if you fail once or twice, the opportunity will always come again.
If you feel that you are not working hard enough, then what is the point of talking about ideals? Don't always look at the mountain high, every mountain has its own scenery and the hardships of climbing, both are indispensable, otherwise it can't be called life. Courage is not not not afraid, but even if you are afraid, you have already thought of the consequences of failure in your heart, but you still have to try hard.
Life is not easy, and it is not just talk. Of course, in the process of perseverance and hard work, you will naturally reap the final success and confidence in your own abilities and future. I wish you to get rid of this shadow as soon as possible and move forward boldly!
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After reading the above words, I feel that you are a person who is not confident, has no opinions, has no goals, and is afraid of failure. Maybe you'll be upset if I say that, but that's how you feel to me.
I don't think there's anything to be afraid of, it's all our demons, and in simple terms, we can't face our own failures. As long as we believe that we can do it and build up our self-confidence step by step, we will gradually get better.
The difference between the strong and the weak is that when failure comes, the strong are more likely to accept their own failures than the weak. I'm sure you can do it.
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If there is a will, it will be done, and the one hundred and two Qin Passes will eventually belong to Chu;
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