The mother in law gave birth to three children. What if you don t want to give birth yet?

The problem is that it is now the twentieth century, many mothers do not give birth to a daughter, children are the same, they are women, how can they be patriarchal and look down on women, some couples Dink, a lifetime without children is not the same, when you have time, chat with her more, communicate more, have children and daughters are not our women's final say, and it is not that the family conditions are particularly good, the family has the throne to inherit, as long as you are pregnant, There is a half chance that it is a girl, two is enough, anyway, the stomach is your own, the decision is in your own hands, your husband is not staying at home, how to give birth to yourself, it is really not possible to find a husband, she lives with them, takes the child to school outside, the whip is out of reach, see if she still quarrels to get you, but, in this way, husband and wife live together, if you don't do it well, you will die, remember to use contraception, if you don't want to give birth!

Kiss! Now the child is too young, and taking care of the child is really too tiring, and I really have to think about it. Mother-in-law, you just follow her more, urge you not to speak, or just smile, anyway, pregnancy is your business, she means that she can't control you.

In fact, sons and daughters are the same, how good the two daughters are, you are happy. Honor your mother-in-law! Understand her a little.

May your family be happy!!

The mother-in-law gave birth to a third child, and she told her directly if she didn't want to give birth. Because raising a child now, both in terms of energy and money, pay more. So on the premise that you already have two children, you directly reject your mother-in-law, and she won't urge you anymore.

I'm in the same situation as you now, my two daughters are also 7 and a half years old and a 4 year old, my mother-in-law always urges to give birth to three children, I don't want to give birth, I am also very resistant, but I can't stand him urging every day, I am a little hesitant. But after weighing the pros and cons, I chose not to give birth, I am now 35 years old, I have a stable job, I have two lovely daughters, I live a very happy life, I just raised my little child to go to kindergarten, why should I give up my life again and ask for another one. What if it's not a son!

What if you don't have your body anymore! Why put yourself in such a dangerous situation! In the end, whether you want it or not is your own business, just discuss it with your husband.

It's up to you, do you want it or don't you want it? If you don't want it, explain your thoughts to the old man, and think he will be able to understand.

Then you can only explain it to your mother-in-law. It takes a lot of energy and a lot of money to raise a son now, so don't let the child be within your ability.

Having more children, in the future, the children will go to school, it is a big expense, depending on the money you earn, whether it is enough for the children to spend, and the problem of spending money in the future should be considered when giving birth to children.

If the family conditions are good, it doesn't matter how many children you have, forget if the conditions are not good.

You have a lot of responsibility on your shoulders

If you want to have three children, you can go to the local birth planning department to go through the birth registration service and get a birth card.

At present, the three-child policy has been opened, and after both men and women establish a marriage relationship in accordance with the law, they can have three children, and when they give birth to children, they can go through birth registration, and then enjoy the corresponding welfare benefits with their birth registration cards.

Population and Family Planning Law of the People's Republic of China

Article 18: The State advocates age-appropriate marriage and childbearing, and eugenics. A couple can have three children.

1. What if I have three children now?

1. Both husband and wife are ethnic minorities in rural areas and are only children. If one of the husband and wife is an ethnic minority and the other is a Han nationality, and the Han nationality settles down in the place where the ethnic minority is located and lives in the township or village where it is located for more than five years, then it can have three children.

2. If it is a remarried couple, then one of the husband and wife has a son before the remarriage and the other party does not, and both parties have a child after remarriage. At this time, it is also possible to have another child.

3. The premise is that the remarried couple, one of the parties has given birth to two children before the remarriage and the other party does not, or both parties have one child before remarriage. To put it simply, before the husband and wife remarry, they have a total of two children, and then they can have a third child.

4. If the first and second children born to the husband and wife have disabilities and independent living is a problem, and cannot become a normal labor force, but the husband and wife can still have children after medical evaluation, they can have a third child.

5. In addition to the above circumstances, if there are other circumstances stipulated by laws, regulations and the state, it is also possible to have three children.

2. Provisions on the birth of multiple children.

1. If the husband and wife have two children, but the two children have a defect certificate issued by the hospital, the country that meets this condition can allow the birth of three children.

2. If it is a divorced couple who marries again, they can have three children without a fine if they meet the following conditions.

Both men and women have children before marriage, and they can have three more children after remarriage.

3. If both husband and wife are registered as rural residents of ethnic minorities, and both husband and wife are only children, they can be allowed to have a third child.

The country has opened up the two-child policy, which means that if some families want to have another child, they will not violate national regulations, but individual families still have a demand for a third child, and the third child also needs to be registered. So, what should I do if I have three children?

According to the latest household registration policy, family planning and household registration are decoupled, so even if they have more than one child, they can also declare their child's household registration according to the normal procedure.

If one party is unable to provide relevant information, it will directly affect the child's inability to go through the relevant household registration procedures.

When going through the formalities of household registration, the parents of the child need to bring the ID cards of both parties, the household registration book of both parties, the marriage certificate and the birth certificate provided by the hospital to the public security bureau where the guardian is located.

Under normal circumstances, whether in rural or urban areas, if the first two children are normal births and the children do not have special circumstances, then the birth of the third child is still an overbirth, and a certain fee needs to be paid in accordance with the law. The fees to be paid are generally set by the local people**.

There are some special circumstances that can legally give birth to a third child, but it must be a couple who meet the following conditions:

1. Remarried couples.

1. Both husband and wife each have only one child before remarriage, and have given birth to one child together after remarriage.

2. One of the husband and wife has given birth to a child before remarriage, and the other party has no children, and has a child together after remarriage.

3. Before remarriage, one of the spouses already has two children, and the other party has no or only one child, and both parties have no children after remarriage.

2. Special circumstances.

1. If the husband and wife are unable to have children due to infertility, the first two children are adopted in accordance with the law, and the third child can be born.

2. If one of the two children born to a husband and wife is sick or disabled, it is necessary to go to a designated medical institution to obtain an appraisal report before giving birth to a third child.

According to China's family planning regulations, the second child is allowed, but the third child is not within the scope of the plan, so it may be restricted by the family planning policy. And if your first two were caesarean sections, it is risky to give birth to a third child, so it is recommended to be cautious.

If you want to give birth, if you can afford it, you basically don't have a family plan now!!

The state now encourages childbirth, as long as the family's economic conditions allow, there are more children, it is still more lively.

If you want to have three children, it depends on your specific quality of life. But now it's okay to have one child.

It's okay to give birth to four, if you have the conditions...

My mother-in-law is urging me to have a second child", in this case, if you really don't want to have a child, you can politely refuse.

Article 51 of the Law on the Protection of Rights and Interests of Women clearly stipulates that women have the right to have children in accordance with relevant state regulations, and they also have the freedom not to have children.

Of course, whether it is your in-laws or your mother's family, they are your elders, and you should express your attitude towards having children well, try to find reasons why you don't want to have children from all angles such as life, body and work, and at the same time try to reach the same opinion with your husband as much as possible.

Hope mine can help you.

Whether to have a child or not, you have the final say, you can't have a child because you are urged by both parties, it may be easier to have a child now, but it is more difficult to raise a child. All kinds of tutoring, all kinds of hobbies training courses.

34 years old. My mother-in-law's family pushed me. I didn't want to have a second child.

It depends on the conditions of your own home, how about it? If conditions permit. Birth of a second child.

It's also good. Mother-in-law or mother-in-law can help bring it, this is no problem. It depends on the conditions of the family.

If the conditions are good, you can have a second child.

You are 34 years old this year, and your mother-in-law is urging you to have a second child, but you don't want to give birth. Mom, if you don't want to say, there's no way. But now the economic conditions of every family are a little better.

They all have a second child, and even now they have a third child, so you should also consider it, and if you have the financial conditions, you can also have another one. After all, it will be able to reduce the burden on the child in the future. aqui te amo。

Whether or not to have a second child is a matter for both of you, and no one can control you. But you must do a good job in the ideological work of the elders of the two families, tell them your thoughts and reasons, so that they can have an understanding, and also know your difficulties and difficulties, and the family and everything will be prosperous.

At the age of 34, my mother-in-law's family urged me to have a second child, but I don't want to give birth? It's best to listen to your mother-in-law and mother, and it's for your good to let you have a second child. Although the child is small, you can endure a little hardship.

Although it is not easy to raise children, when you are old, you will be happy, and the children will definitely be able to take care of you, and I also see that you want a second child.

Giving birth to a child is your own, if you have someone to help you with a child, the family conditions are very good, then you can consider it, if you are busy after giving birth, and the conditions do not allow it, then don't let yourself be too tired, after all, it is not a day or two, this is a lifetime thing.

First of all, I also gave birth to a second child, I personally feel that I regret when I am tired of having a second child, and I will regret it after not having a second child, each has its own pros and cons, and life is inherently contradictory.

If you don't want to give birth, you won't have it, if you don't want to give birth, you won't be able to take care of the child when it comes out in the future.

If you have the conditions, you can also bring two treasures, if your husband is not enough for your sense of responsibility for the family, you still have to choose carefully

If you don't want to give birth, you won't give birth. Personal freedom.

If you don't want to give birth, you won't give birth, it's up to you.

This depends on the individual, after all, raising children is a big deal.

I often see a mother posting on the Internet, saying that she is very entangled about whether to have three children, and she already has two sons, but recently found out that she was pregnant with three children. It was a happy thing, my husband and mother-in-law let me give birth, but I didn't want to give birth, so how to persuade my husband not to have a third child? How to refute the mother-in-law who let her have three children?

Accidentally pregnant with three children, first go to the hospital with her husband for a check-up, female spike sex to explain her situation to the doctor clearly, if the doctor thinks it can be born, then you can consider giving birth to guess slowly. If you really don't want to have children, do your husband's ideological work, and now that you have two children, there is no need to have another one, and the pressure on the family will increase a lot.

There are some mothers-in-law who are very patriarchal in their thinking, and they are very dissatisfied with giving birth to two girls, but the elderly have the concept that there are many people and great power, even if the two children are boys, but after the daughter-in-law is pregnant, she hopes to have another girl, so that it is better, for this kind of mother-in-law, you can try to communicate first, so that the mother-in-law can understand her difficulties.

But some mothers-in-law are very stubborn, if they can't communicate, their attitude can only be tough, and tell their mother-in-law about the various problems that need to be faced by giving birth to children and raising children, which is easy now, but it is very stressful to raise three children together, and I hope that my mother-in-law can be considerate of herself.

Different families have different specific circumstances of this remorse and ex-coarseness. Some families are ready to have three children, while others do not want three. ......For those families who do not want to have three children, the reason why they make such a choice is due to family constraints, too busy with work to take care of the family, and their own lack of willingness to do so.

1. The reason why some families do not want to have a third child is because of the influence of family conditions. For families who do not want to have a third child, the reason why such a decision is made is largely limited by family conditions. ......Specifically, because the family income is limited and cannot afford to have three children, these families will eventually give up the idea of having three children.

This is a very real reason. And it is precisely because of this practical reason that many families have dispelled the idea of having a third child. 2. Because they are too busy at work to take care of their families, many families do not want to have a third child.

Among the families who want to have a third child, there are many, many of them who will eventually give up on the idea because of work. ......Specifically, the members of these families are very busy with work and simply do not have enough time to take care of the family. So, after weighing, they could only finally choose to give up the idea of having a third child and face this matter with a realistic attitude.

3. Because the individual has no desire to have a third child, the family does not want a third child. For some families, having a third child may only be a temporary idea, and at the same time, the attitude of family members towards this matter is not uniform, and one party may not want a third child ...... at allAs a result, although this kind of family will have the idea of having a third child for a certain period of time, it will eventually give up ......Or after rational analysis, or through communication between family members, eventually the idea will be abandoned, and it will be decided not to have a third child.